
Nilam soon mastered his surprise.
"Kok's pregnant, anyway? Who is pregnant? Just indiscriminate! Later if the same father I hear it will be a long affair!" nagging the girl, after realizing the misunderstanding that occurred.
"Trus what problem are you saying? We've been guessing all along!" Surya did not want to lose, raising the volume of the voice on the younger brother. Very rarely, even almost never in the family there is tension like today.
Nilam. Feeling both funny and upset, her brother and sister-in-law thought that far about her.
"Kok, can you guys think that far anyway? Means you haven't believed in me all this time?" ask Nilam in a disappointed tone.
"What his name is khilaf, it can happen to anyone, Lam. Let alone you, any religious expert can, make that mistake," Diana, the older sister gave an excuse.
"What is the reason why you're speeding up your wedding day?" urged Surya again, feeling that he had not received an answer to the curiosity that lingered in his heart.
Sighing slowly, Nilam finally forced to tell the problems that occurred during this time.
"Deeeh, so the reason is jealousy?" diana's response was careless, after she finished hearing Nilam's story.
"Why are you helping him? You forget, he ever hurt you? If you are in your position, meet her ex-boyfriend, she will not be able to help!" continued the woman again, as her eyes glanced at the husband's cynicism.
"Sadly really, Mba! Why would you want a cruel wife like this?" Damar's reaction made the others laugh. He forgot the woman he met sadistically, was his own biological sister.
"Thankfully I don't have an ex, Mar. So safe," said a quiet man who served as a servant of the country.
They continued the conversation without a theme. Discuss one thing, another at random. Starting from the story of Delvia who was helped by Nilam, continued to Delvia's relationship with Pandu, then the jealous reaction of Bas, and now they are talking about the future, Nilam will live where after marriage. Is the girl still allowed to work, or will she be taken wherever Bas gets the project? Or will he live in his hometown with his in-laws and brother-in-law?
"Lho, why? Do you have a difference of understanding with your brother-in-law?" Now it was the image's turn to ask.
"No, but I feel like he doesn't like me, Mba. Do you know how people like us if they don't like us? Her face was never friendly when she met me, Mba. I always try to smile and be nice to him. And that's her talk ...."
"Why? He likes to talk about heart disease?" ask Diana.
Nilam just nodded, with his head lowered. That's what he's been feeling all along. The girl was uncomfortable with Utari's attitude, but she could not speak directly to Bas. She did not want to be considered a sheep spotter in her future husband's family.
"That's a challenge for you, Lam. How you adjust to a new environment. Everyone has their own character and character. We can't change their nature to suit what we want. As with ourselves, do you want others to change your character? Naw, right? Now all you can do is, accept the nature of Utari like that ...."
"Can't do that either! If the attitude is good, but if it's bad and harms Nilam, how?" Diana cut Surya's words just like that.
As a married woman, of course, Nilam's eldest brother knew, what it was like to enter a new family environment. There will be awkwardness and fear, and surprise with the rules that apply in the new family. However, we also cannot always give up and go with the flow. Because if it doesn't fit the heart, it will hurt itself.
"This is it, Lam. Before getting married, it's good for you to express everything that sticks in your heart as well as Baskara. It's nothing, let him know what makes you comfortable and uncomfortable. So that he can find the best way out for all. Isn't it funny if you just got married, suddenly you guys are already noisy because of misunderstanding? And even more funny, just because you, Bas and his sister got into trouble. Really no?" The image came to provide a solution, while Damar and Diana's husband and just listened to the chat in silence. Nilam could only nod his head. Whether he agrees or not, willing or not, do the advice given by his brothers.
Each head has its own mind. The same problem will end in what way, depending on the contents of the head of each person who lived it. How wise and observant we are to seek solutions, in the face of the problem itself.
"At what talk, anyway? From the time it was collected, not finished? The family bus is coming, sir. Cepet meet them," Bu Sukma came from inside the house, approached the child and his son-in-law.
Their exciting chat was over, with still leaving a little excitement in Nilam's heart. He had not been able to digest all the advice given to him just now. The girl still had to sort out and choose which advice to do with her, later on.
Actually Nilam open the type of person who likes to complain, and prejudiced bad in others. But Utari's problem, he must tell because he will often face the young mother of one child.