MY DESTINY

146.RECEIVING HENDRA'S LOVE

Grandma saw a happy hue on the face of the child and his daughter-in-law. I can only see with eyes that no one can understand.

After everyone entered the room, Grandma went into her room. Wishing they wouldn't fight again, was it already night. Although the wall clock shows at half 9 p.m.

It was late afternoon, but I chose to rest. When the clock is very quiet, the wall shows at 10 p.m. Still heard for people who haven't slept like grandma. He was not able to sleep, because the incident continues to be imagined in his memory.

Yes what more sounds if not the child and his daughter-in-law who was wrestling in his room. Maybe if it is witnessed very happy. What's more, the two of them had been separated for a few weeks and had a fight. Only that would usually get better, all at venting his emotions.

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The days of the month change months and even the years change. Her daily life is no longer what it used to be.

Anah is currently living in Jakarta, working for more than a year. After the quarrel father and mother Anah back and forth Jakarta. After several times Anah worked to Jakarta, but never had money. Every few months back home, one month back home again. Even a year home can be 4 times, and always the same no money.

Then Anah left again, but Sarinem came along. After arriving Sarinem ma'am also advised his new employer Anah. With a salary of 250 thousand, Anah should not take unless Anah needs urgent. With reason and not the city, otherwise Anah can not take the money.

The employer was very good, even Anah Jajan was in love. Eat whatever is available at home. Clothes sleep, go, until everyday clothes, have been bought. By his employer's son who is 2 years older than his mother. But still a virgin, and do not want to marry until anytime.

Now Anah has been almost 2 years in Jakarta Sarinem's mother never invited him home. Ms. Sarinem only comes once every 5 or 6 months to take the money. The last one is said to hurt Anah back. This made Anah keep her distance from her mother. Hate even his mother, because in comparison with his sister Monik. Who is not currently going to Jakarta, because he wants to be at his parents' house.

Anah feels unfair, she works too. Even the money he made could not be enjoyed. Always permission or restricted, while he also has his own desires. Anah felt embarrassed when she was with her co-workers. Who work with the child of his employer, even they want to buy something freely.

From there Anah again thought that he was not the son of his mother. Because it is always compared to his sister. He always complains and never protests like himself.

She is now 17 years old, around her workplace. Many men often tease him and some of them express love. But Anah is interested in one person, who has a high level, sweet black, even Anah often chat. But he did not declare that he liked Anah.

Anah often notices them working while still watering the plants on the second floor. In the morning and evening, even when Anah washes clothes. At 8am on the second floor, it was very clear where they worked.

There are serious with Anah, but Anah is a little hesitant, also embarrassed if accepting the adult male. Because it was very clear from the look on his face, and the young man invited him to marry immediately.

What made Anah doubtful, was that an adult man. Afraid that she would become a second wife, and ashamed of her age. After he found out from his friend it is true still a bachelor. The origin of east Java is Malang, but what makes Anah unwilling is his age of 30 years. While he is now only 17 years old, what else his father does not necessarily agree.

"Mar, which guy's your boyfriend?" ask Miss Kristine.

"Capegoer Priuk, Him."Answer Anah.

"Like he is a bad young man, from him comes to you. Cici knows that he's not a good person."Said the first child of Miss Kristine. That is a person who loves Anah, and he does not want Anah heartbroken someday.

"He's good for Ci, even he told me when he was off work later would take me to his house. To meet his parents, if he's not good, it's just asking me to go out."Answer Anah casually.

"You're this new date, you don't ge'er just yet. If I notice that he's a playboy, you've already eaten a sweet promise from him. According to Cici you have to sell a little expensive. Do not want to be invited this and that, do not let you lose yourself."Miss Sahita's advice, which is often called Cici.

Because Anah works with the Chinese of Bandung, and the Chinese of Banten. Who came from Banten the great lord, if the mistress of Bandung, and is a Protestant Christian.

"Cici mah so, I don't like it when I have a boyfriend."Complain, no mother, her Cici is busy taking care of her.

"Mar. Cici has experience, so Cici does not want you to eat sweet seduction men who are not good. Cici said so, because love you. Because you are still innocent, you can't distinguish which one is really good and who plays with your feelings."Miss Sahita said.

"Yes Cici, I've never been in a relationship. But we shouldn't be bad at assuming the same people."Said Anah who still could not take advice. And people's views on her boyfriend, and blame her for still defending her boyfriend.

Anah is indeed an innocent, innocent girl and indeed never get along. And the lack of affection from his parents. Especially the father, which is important for a father, it makes the child comfortable. But all of that has been lost since Anah was a child.

In Islam, the relationship between father and son is very important. The Qur'an enshrines father and son dialogue as a learning for fathers.

This is important, because the primary educator of the child is a father. For girls, father is the first love. For boys, the father is the idol figure.When the father figure in the family, the child's personality can be disturbed.

The Qur'an mentions the figure of the mother only twice, while the dialogue with the verse is mentioned 14 times.

So many girls are looking for attention in a more mature man. And the wrong association in because he was, he felt comfortable. When someone can give what he never got from a father.

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