MY DESTINY

139.ADVICE IZAH

"What household have you ever been to? Sok knows you. Your mind is the most you can imagine just being together. Like sleeping, eating, everywhere with a partner. I don't know what will happen after marriage. How is our daily life after marriage. How we are responsible for our family. Not only the mind is fulfilled, but also born. On the contrary, we must be able to compensate for the shortcomings and advantages of the couple. Do not think delicious and sweet, bitter, bitter, and sour is definitely attached. That's all we have to think about when we're going to be married. And one more thing, that feeling of comfort and happiness should be there. When we have a liking for someone we like. Not just because he likes the physical, the physical next. I can say it's a bonus for us."Iza said, at length about the journey of life after marriage.

"Simply not married, too much thought and choose the right and comfortable. I'm more and more inclined to marry a woman."Seswanto.

"Do you want to get married? You are still young Ses, find income first. If enough is enough, you will marry. So that later your family lives in the kiss is not difficult as it is now. But if you've found what I said earlier.if you want to get married soon, rather than later even kebablasan and make the shame of both families." Degree Advice.

"I resigned to the existing mbak, because the person is also no longer here. Mbak remarks, remind me a few months ago more precisely 6 months. It's not easy to get him, not because of his parents. But he himself already had a principle, will not be dating for now. If you are dating for that seriousness, if you are already 18 years old. Do not want now and do not want to marry even if forced. I think now he feels like he's winning because he's free. Because all this time he felt like he was living in a cage."Seswanto said he issued his unek-unties that had been buried.

"Seriously keep his parents knowing you like him?"ask Diploma.

"Look away. Even I wish I was the same, but his father doesn't want to make a difference. Because he heard the babbling of his son 6 months ago, where he was angry at his father. Because of the matchmaking, at that time was falling because of his father's decision." said Seswanto.

He did not want to tell her that the woman he liked was Anah. Because of that problem Izah no longer participates Jumadi sir. Because when Izah slumped, because it did not get married and get insults from men.

"It's been the story that the car has come."Seswanto said when he saw the waiting car had arrived.

"Yes, I'm just like it's empty in front."Izah said as the car got closer, looking at the front again empty.

They got into the car and it turned out that the person was still a third person. And now that five people are the same as the two of them, that means the passengers are quiet again.

After a 5-hour drive, we have now arrived home. At home there is Udin and grandma alone Jumadi sir is going to the garden with Monik. They both ate and rested due to the tiredness of the trip.

The diploma slept in Anah's room, but Anah's room was very dirty. As long as Anah is not in the house the room is not occupied. He used to occupy the room that Grandma occupied. Because the empty room is now Anah then the diploma must clean first. Change bed sheets and pillowcases, blankets and sweeps. The study desk was cleaned, even though it was empty. And will put his bag of clothes on, and Mike's up his.

At 5 pm Mr. Jumadi returned from the Izah garden to greet his pack leknya. Welcomed well but looks from a flat face. Indicates a lot of heavy burden that must be considered by Mr. Jumadi.

Not wanting to get dizzy and tense first, Izah busies himself by helping cook in the kitchen.

"What do you want to cook?"tanya Izah, when grandma mengolek seasoning.

"This is going to cook gori (young jackfruit) in santen. It's been a few days, Mr. Lek, no appetite. Maybe he'll eat it well if he wants to eat a lot."Answer Grandma.

He thought by cooking his favorite food would want to eat a lot. He wanted to take the heart of his son, who is now fully owned by his daughter-in-law.

"I hope ya grandma, I see also lek Jum now kurusan." Iza said, pretending not to understand.

"How not to be skinny, it's because of what he thinks his son and wife are. Mending that is thought to know yourself, saying where it goes where it goes. If only to your village, he would have gone home. Children are so abandoned, fortunately there is this grandmother of yours. Try it if not, it's boy two how. Where Udin so cry only, miss the same mother. Even now often daydream, anything so forget. Fortunately there is still a Monik who understands his sister. Just like her grandmother didn't work, that made me angry."Said Grandma who told the daily life of the person who left behind her daughter-in-law.

"There must be a reason that made aunty leave the grandmother's house. I'm sure that aunty is really heavy for her family. All households, nothing is smooth just like that Grandma. There will certainly be small and large pebbles as a complement."A wise sounding diploma in the ear that hears it.

Izah spoke while making coconut milk, while thinking about the feelings of his lek sir. Who heard the words of the grandmother, who was denouncing her daughter-in-law.

Because he saw Mr. Jumadi who was standing hanging clothes in front of the door to the bathroom. Yes if washing in the afternoon or when it rains, in the sun on the back porch. The terrace is also the roof of the bathroom, so it will not rain during the rainy season.

Mr. Jumadi heard his mother's words, increasingly upset. Why would a parent love to see their child's household destroyed. He hated himself and his wife. So that if his household ayem serene, make his heartache. Until he thought why he should have a mother like his mother. What made his father, choose his mother to be the mother of his children.

After finishing his work, Mr. Jumadi entered the kitchen. Then take a glass, in the contents of the coffee without sugar. And in addition to hot water, from a hot water thermos. Then stir let the coffee dissolve evenly.

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