Sharing Love: Loving Myself And Herself

Fighting the Trauma

They all gathered at breakfast time, grandma and grandpa were downstairs with Damar's mother and father as well as Damar himself.

"Let's love us breakfast first," said Dewi welcome those who just came. Aqila sat down first and immediately took her place beside Damar.

Following Khanza who walked while holding Aziel.

"Ziel, it's big kok still carried the same Nak mama, pity dong mama. Come here with aunt, yeah!" said the Goddess took Aziel from the sling of Khanza.

At the age of khanza pregnancy at this time should he not hold Aziel first, Aziel's weight is getting heavier can interfere with the fetus in the womb of Khanza who is still very vulnerable.

The goddess said it while looking at all of them as a sign that what was said earlier should be noticed.

They all ate breakfast while familiarizing themselves, after breakfast the doctor Dewi did not waste time he immediately introduced Khanza to the doctor of psychology. Dr. Nita.

Damar and Aqila had already explained all the conditions of Khanza. Dr. The goddess told the psychologist everything. What to do to help Khanza get through her pregnancy.

Nita and Dewi knew very well before telling Khanza about her pregnancy they had to prepare the mental Khanza first and they both had to work together on it.

They spoke in the Dewi Doctor's office, in the room there were also several tools to check the contents, such as USG and other tools.

"Why Auntie brought me here" asked Khanza, stopping his steps at the sight of the tools.

"I want to talk to you, we talk inside, yes" said Nita.

They sat on the sofa there.

"Include my name Nita" said Doctor Nita, extending her hand.

"Khanza," Khanza replied, welcoming Doctor Nita's hand.

Doctor Dewi sat beside Khanza.

"Doctor Nita's aunt's best friend, she majored in psychology. I'm sorry Aqila said you have trauma after giving birth?" ask the Goddess carefully.

"Yes aunty, Khanza is still afraid to get pregnant again, afraid if what khanza experienced during the birth of Aziel happens again," he replied.

"You know, you're so great. Very rarely do mothers your age choose to give birth normally, usually they will choose to give birth cesarean because they do not want to feel pain, but I salute you. You can give birth to your son safely" said Doctor Nita trying to make Khanza proud of the success of giving birth to Aziel.

"Yes Doctor, I also did not expect that if I could get through it all, I am very grateful to be able to give birth to Aziel healthy and safe," Khanza replied considering the figure of his Son.

"What traumatized you, and made you not want to give birth again, haven't you ever experienced it why should you be afraid this time?" ask doctor Nita to try to lure Khanza to recall his difficult time in childbirth. By telling her the pain it can reduce the trauma to Khanza.

Khanza was constantly lured by Dr Nita to tell her everything, all the pain she felt at the time. As well as the fear he had felt all this time, Doctor Dewi continued to fish for Khanza to take out all what had been a burden so far. What makes her feel so scared about her second pregnancy.

Khanza felt a little calm after telling the doctors Dewi and Nita everything.

"You know, you're very lucky to give birth. Many women want to be like you in this world, but they're not as lucky as you, they want to give birth too, but they can't for many reasons."

Khanza suddenly remembered Farah's honey.

"Aziel must be really happy if he has another sister, you can imagine how when they grow up. They will play together, Aziel will show off his sister to his friends, there will be many children who accompany you in your old age. They will fight for love from you" said Doctor Nita.

"Do you not miss taking care of the baby again, how about getting pregnant and having a baby girl. It must be very beautiful and adorable, the Dewi doctor in her delivery style as if imagining an adorable baby figure in her carrier.

Doctor Dewi and doctor Nita continue to make Khanza confident to be able to face the reality if she is now pregnant.

Once it was felt that Khanza was quite ready, he said,

"Auntie am I pregnant?" khanza asked, who began to be suspicious, since earlier they discussed about pregnancy and now Doctor Dewi asked to check it.

"To make sure we check yes," said the doctor Dewi tried to persuade Khanza. Khanza initially did not want to

However, after being persuaded finally he lay down to check the content.

Doctor Nita stood beside Khanza and continued to encourage him. Asking him to think positively, each delivery is different and maybe even the next delivery is much better than the previous one.

Nita's doctor's skill at calming her patients made Khanza a little calmer and prepared to accept the results of her best friend's mother's examination.

"Deg .. deg ..deg."

"Have you heard the baby's greeting?" asked Doctor Dewi to listen to the sound of the heartbeat of a developing baby in her womb.

Khanza nodded, fear mixed happily knowing that she was now pregnant.

"It's been 2 months."

"2 months?" khanza asked surprised, he did not expect that he had been pregnant for 2 months.

"Yes, he is 2 months old, Aziel must be very happy to hear the news if soon will have a sister," said Dewi doctor.

"Never think of negative things and Never think of things that can make your fetus depressed as well as yourself.

We believe you can get through it all. You take it easy, we will help you through your pregnancy this time, if you can give birth to Aziel healthy you must also do it this time," said Doctor Nita again encouraging Khanza.

"Thank you Doctor, I beg your doctor for help" Khanza said, trying to accept the fetus in her womb. Khanza held her stomach trying to catch her breath and exhaled her slowly, as her fear began to come to mind.

"You can do it, you're a strong mother" said Nita.

Khanza nodded enthusiastically and reassured himself, if he could definitely go through it all.

"From now on, you have to be confident and continue to instill confidence in yourself, rest assured if you can definitely get through all of this" Nita advised.

Doctor Nita also asked Khanza to think positively, avoid things that could make him afraid or think of bad things that could have happened to him. If he feels sad or depressed do not hold it, he must tell them or Aqila even to grandma, do not keep it alone.

If she feels crowded to enjoy the morning air, Doctor Nita also asked to do yoga regularly to maintain her calm and keep thinking about the good things that will happen if the baby is born. Doctor Dewi explains some of the ways that Khanza can do to fight his fear. His trauma was only he could fight it.

"We will all help you through all of this" said Dewi, holding Khanza's hand.

"Thank You Aunt" Khanza replied in tears.

"From now on, consider me your mother, do not ever think of me as your Aunt or Doctor," said Dewi hugged Khanza, congratulating her on the presence of the fetus in her womb.

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