SOULMATES

A painful meeting

After I learned what SOULMATE was about I sent a message to A Rangga.

"A Rangga, I wrote the original novel SOULMATE. Pas read, continue to find out what understanding. It's almost the same storyline I created. The story I passed with you A Rangga.

Maybe A Rangga came to teach me all kinds of things, and helped me get out of my divorce problems first. It makes me a better person than ever. But in the end we can't be together.

Because there is another understanding also Kalo SOULMATE and life partner it has a different meaning. A Rangga would have clearly chosen a rose, no matter how much effort I have to get you, but if in the end it can not, yes for what. I chose to retreat and go forget even though it took time because it wasn't easy.

I am happy, if happy A Rangga lives with the Rose, because I believe in the expression Love should not have it does exist.

True love and commitment are different.

True Love is unconditional love whatever you do, whatever you feel, want you to be with anyone.

That's true love.

But today many people think, it is something stupid, hypocritical or naive. Possibly,

But actually, what they see is an egoism, because love does not require any validation, and any appreciation.

What needs that is selfishness.

While the Commitment

it is our desire or ability, which we feel we are capable of living with others until the end of our lives.

Commitment can happen without love or with love.

Love and commitment are two different things.

Many people think commitment is love, it turns out that it is wrong.

Because if commitment is love then there will never be separation even divorce.

But if you already love someone and you have the desire or even the ability to commit to him and he accepts. It's okay that means being a true friend. The point is that Love and commitment will run in balance.

If A Rangga chose Rose to be A Rangga's wife. I can only pray that A Rangga will be happy. Although I love you so much for now, maybe as time goes by the sense of Love I have can be lost, As long as I try. Stay I wait for who is ready to be my life partner later means yes.

Because man can only plan, God determines our destiny. No matter how hard we try if God doesn't put us together, yes, we can never. But no matter how far apart we are when God sets us apart, I am sure that one day God will unite us in ways we never thought possible. I give everything to God, I ask to give the best for me, regardless of A Rangga or others. God willing I will accept and I will love her for the rest of my life, and I will strive to be a wife who will always obey her with God's permission.

You didn't reply to my message, and it disappeared. It might be busy or there's more important business I don't know.