
Since childhood, I was not good at getting along especially after marriage. I rarely get together with my friends, not even at all. More stay at home taking care of the store and the child.
Prefer books, motivational videos rather than hanging out with friends out of the house. Even for now after I'm alone, I'm still comfortable at home, in the store, focused on business. Because maybe you are used to it. But now that I feel free and happy, no more burden on my mind, live a life that flows quietly like water.
Don't expect too much, leave everything to God. Whatever happens is God's will and it must be the best thing for my life.
Thank you for the best mentors I have met in my life, be his motivation as my encouragement to stay upright like a rock in the ocean.
Sometimes we have to learn from the rocks. It continues to survive strong, rigid even though it is hit by waves. Maybe in the morning he felt very lucky because the sun greeted him with a smile and warmth.
He was also happy because the water had receded from his sight. But when night fell he continued to be hit by waves tossed uddy on the coast, but he remained firm. The rock continues to enjoy what is happening throughout its life and it remains itself.
Because life is not only about happiness but also about sadness. Both will be a complete unit.
Thank you to Mom and Dad who always by my side, accompanying me when my hardships and my friends are always there. Although sometimes the words of the mother often hurt Zara, but Zara believes it is all for the good of zara bu. Sorry if all this time Zara has not been able to repay the kindness of Father and Mother, whether until when also Father and mother take care of me every day and night, day and night, because having Zara who is now a widow is just as difficult when looking after Zara when she is a girl.
I also remember the quote of Mr. Mario Teguh in his show Mario Teguh Golden Ways.
"Relive now, Live for the future. The past is learning, the present is proof that our regrets make us better people into the future."
"You cannot build a life of certainty with a doubtful attitude. And you can't act for sure without decisiveness."
I once felt insecure, I once felt like I meant nothing at all. I heard the words of Father Mario Teguh.
"Who knows how much a grain of rice costs? does anyone know the price of a grain of rice? The answer does not exist. Though each grain of rice holds very tightly all the qualities of rice in itself to be passed into the same rice billions of years into the future it will be of high value.
Especially a mother, think about her child. No one is given a problem, then weakened. People who are given problems will definitely be strengthened. Now the most important and most valuable thing in my life is Jarel. Regardless of one day I meet a soul mate or not, Jarel's happiness is the most important for me.
As Miss Merry Riana said.
"The temptation that befalls us is a gift.yes, the grace that God gives to change ourselves. Life problems have become part of life.
If you want to be like a diamond. You have to be ready, ready to accept pressure and pressure. Because it is a process of formation. If you are currently squeezed until it feels like you want to scream. Stay strong, stay prejudiced, even if it's hard.
The stronger you are, the wiser and wiser. To get anything you dream of requires sacrifice and struggle, it takes greatness of heart when the results have not been satisfactory.
It also takes perseverance and determination. Before you can finally feel what is called success. It's not easy, but rest assured you can. When you don't give up, don't just give up. You also have to fight until your struggle can bear fruit.
Fruiting becomes success, fruiting becomes something you can be proud of. And when you have all that, do not forget to always thank God. "
Life is not easy, life cannot be instant. Like the butterfly metamorphosis thing. Starting from a caterpillar that no one wants to get close, even many people who feel disgusted to see it.
But when it has undergone the process, which is rarely known to many people then one day the caterpillar becomes a very beautiful butterfly. Liked by many people, pursued by many people, even admired by many people. Without people knowing how the process becomes a beautiful thing.
Like Odette on Barbie Swan Lake, who would want to approach her when she becomes a goose. Most of them are even covered by the people around them.
But when it became a beautiful Barbie, a prince was fascinated and interested to have it.
Like the stories of the prophets and apostles, his life was not easy, all through the trials of each self. To be the best of the best of anything and anyone must experience trials, trials and obstacles.
Hopefully one day Zara can be a great person, one that benefits everyone. Armed with life experiences that are used as valuable lessons in living life.
Believe that the Storm must pass as Mr. Chandra son of the country said in his book entitled Badai Pasti Berlalu.
"When we want to go to class, it means we have to pass the exam. If you don't want to face the exam, it means you won't go to class. If we keep going, the Storm will pass, the Storm here is our mindset to face a problem. Do not consider the Storm to be a disaster, but consider it a gift that makes our means to go to class.
Zara who never stopped to get up after falling down, got up again.
Now Zara started the business from scratch again, hopefully in the future can develop because today Zara is 28 years old there is still 2 years left to be 30 years old.
As in Chandra Putra Negara's book entitled Success before 30
"Success used to be happy or happy was just successful? Though actually happy is simple, happy you can feel if you understand your own value. No matter what people say to you, want to be insulted, trampled on in caci maki. who understands yourself, yes yourself. Who knows you are happy, you yourself cannot be measured by matter.
Never enter the trajectory of other people's lives, if you enter then your life will be stressed, confused and you are far from happy. may make him an inspiration but you have to compete with your own trajectory, Every day live wearing a mask, never live to be yourself it will make you tired.