SOULMATES

Just for a second

When I was guarding the store, there was a mother came, her name was Desi a single parent woman who died her husband. While photocopying her documents she asked for my opinion.

"Zara how are you doing now? "

"Thank you be healthy, ma'am. "

"I want a consultation. "

"What consultation ma'am, Zara is not an expert. "

"Yes though not the expert, but mother followed you from your separation until now. I also love reading your novels. "

"Well, I read novels too. Thank you, I hope you like the story. "

"Yes mom loves the story, I salute you zara. You are strong in the face of all trials. I've also experienced husband's death but I can't be that strong."

"Alhamdulilah abu Zara is always strengthened by Allah. "

"Oh yes Zara, yesterday the mother's son was sleeping at home. "

"Oh Alhamdulilah, when is the wedding? "

"That's exactly what, I didn't accept the mother-in-law's proposal."

"Why mom? "

"Mother is afraid that Raina will marry, who charges her sisters in school. Raina is the biggest mother's child, later if Raina's marriage is afraid of being brought along by her husband and who will pay for Tesa and Rifki's school.

"God willing, ma'am, continued yesterday what mom said to the future daughter-in-law mother. "

"Mom told the candidate to tell them to wait a year."

"Keep they say what? "

"Not yet to decide. "

"Mom asked how Raina felt? "

"Raina how am I."

"I'm sorry ma'am not meant to patronize or anything like that. Zara doesn't mean anything because Zara doesn't understand this. Zara only experienced first when Handoko's father proposed to zara, Zara told Handoko's father what was the case, about the state of Zara's economy. And thankfully Handoko's father understood finally marrying Zara and Ditto. "

"So I have to how now? "

"Yes, the mother told me about the situation of the mother now, the mother told the candidate about the situation of Raina, Raina the mother's biggest child, the backbone that most mothers rely on to finance her siblings. Suppose her future husband understands and understands Raina's condition. They will understand too. Don't reject their proposal. How would Raina feel if the man she loves apologized for retreating because of obstructed blessing. "

"Yes yes. "

"Mending communicated first ma'am, now Raina is also working. Later after marriage, her husband worked. I'll just talk to Raina and her husband. How to finance Raina's sister later. Sustenance can be sought with ma'am, as long as all Ridho insya Allah's blessings. Never exchange our happiness for the happiness of our child ma'am, never make Raina a mother doll, who must meet the needs of mothers, Raina also deserves her happiness ma'am. Sorry mom, Zara's words are wrong.

"Yes yes Zara. "

"You know, we have explained about our situation to the candidates, it would be good, ma'am, thank God that they can accept and understand Raina's condition. Means it is the best match for Raina, but if indeed they retreat it means not the best for Raina ma'am. Think of Raina's feelings as well ma'am, kasian if she only focuses on working let alone Raina a woman. I am sure if Raina is married, she will not forget her responsibilities to mother and sisters.

"Mom explain from now on. Mending retreats before marriage rather than failing after marriage. If we can choose, but like Zara now yes ma'am. God's fate separates Zara and Ditto, which Zara accepts despite the need for process. "

"Maxify yes Zara. I'll have a chat with Raina later. "

"Yes equally ma'am, I do'ain mother will also soon marry again huh. "

"Ah, what's so hard to find too, what else see children where anyone wants. "

"Who said? I don't want to ask God. "

"Emang can. "

"Try aja ma'am, who knows later be given stay call it just mother wants to ask what kind of candidate criteria. "

"Oh yes."

"God is merciful, merciful, so God may not grant our prayers, but God loves what we need not what we want. "

"Later try Zara. "

"Yes ma'am, if you've got a mate later tidakin Zara ya ma'am. What will you do together just yuk to pa amilnya. "

"Ha. haa. "

"Boleh ma'am. "

"I said yes, Zara. "

"By mom, here's the photocopy.

"Yes thanks, Assalamu'alaikum.

"Wa'alaikum salam. "

It's funny, now my store is a place to confide in people. They like to talk to me after shopping. I can also share my story with them.

Every buyer who shop to the store, must feel at home and always tell stories before going home. Whatever their life problems they always shared life stories with me and my dad.

They say it's comfortable he said he told me and dad. As long as the positive thing is discussed, yes I am happy to hear it because from there I can learn life experiences from those who turned out to be different.

But there are also negative stories, I like less and better I stay away and not take it too seriously.

Alhamdulilah Jarel was improved, healthy activity as usual, cheerful again at school. Especially the art show class up at school in a moment. Children began to be given assignments for dance practice for art shows.

I attended a Parenting event at school. It is about how we monitor the growth and development conditions of children in kindergarten school age.

I'm a little worried about my situation yesterday. I was worried that it would affect my child's mentality, let alone the current age of the most decisive age for his future, I was afraid to leave a trauma to my son later.

I consulted with Jarel's class teacher as well as the principal about Jarel's development in school. Alhamdulilah fine just yesterday sick for a week.

The principal's mother strengthened me and convinced me to keep my spirits up, and to stay happy for Jarel's sake. The key to a happy child is in the happiness of his mother. The child can feel when his mother cries without him seeing the child can feel. The key is that the mother must be happy so that her attention and affection focus on the child. The problem is no father, it's okay later also as time goes by our children will understand, the important thing is to give our love fully for the child and do not let our children feel for themselves.