SOULMATES
this is not just a father's business
Perhaps we often ask why we should be reunited but finally separated. Why Zara was reunited with Rangga but eventually separated.
Zara found the answer.
Why we are brought together but ultimately separated because we are all human, naive and have much to learn in the journey of life that we have been through.
If you find the right people early in your life, then you will never be able to appreciate them for who they are. How many men Zara met from the age of 15 until Zara was 28. From first love to first husband. Zara will meet Zara's last love. Only god knows. From there Zara can understand the male character, sometimes different bodies but the soul is the same, the character and nature are the same.
But of all the men who ever filled Zara's heart, and became part of Zara's life journey all along. All of them provide valuable life lessons. Making Zara a strong, independent woman makes Zara more mature and even wiser.
What is very special is being able to lead me to emigrate, making Zara a better person. There was nothing Zara regretted, even Zara was very grateful to all of them. Without meeting all of you men who have ever been close to Zara. There won't be any Zara now. Regardless of your good or bad treatment of me.
All heartbreaks are essential to teach you the right way to respect and love someone and to train you to restore the right relationship.
The absence of Love is essential to teach you about the values of one's presence in your life. God and the universe have unique features to train us in understanding the meaning of soul mate, soulmate and companion.
God separates you from someone you consider your soulmate, someone you consider your soul mate until death separates, someone you believe is the best partner for your life. Just to test how strong the relationship is. Because some scholars also say that every meeting is a soul mate. But back into each of us how we reach it.
This is according to the scholars who said.
"There are no words in our religion his soul mate has not yet come."
His explanation is.
Generally is everyone will come the soul mate signal. It means that he will never experience a tendency in someone. Been close to someone, no matter what. The problem is that sometimes humans are very fussy. After meeting one person, it is not enough to search again, There may be something better. After finding it again, search again and say there might be something better. Keep it like that his pattern repeatedly never stops. Humane indeed, but there is a better way that is with ta'aruf and istikharah. God will give his answer and lead us to our best soul mate with effort and do'a.
Dreams are a small part of the instructions of our istikharah prayer. But what often happens is that we can get positive or negative information about our candidates. He used to be like that, Information that just suddenly came. God tells us everything in his own way.
Therefore it is not strange if in 3 months Zara can know the nature of both good and bad Rangga. For what Zara uses is the path of the heavens, God is almighty. Zara asked for instructions about Rangga from the beginning as well from the prayer of Istikharah until finally Rangga and Zara were separated meaning it was clear what the answer was.
There are two possibilities God has given me.
Second, if Rangga never returns to Zara forever. Maybe Rangga is not the best for Zara. There is still the best soul mate out there that God has prepared to be Zara's life companion, the best Imam for Zara and the best father for Jarel. I am sure that one day God will meet Zara with that man. Simple and very simple.
According to his Istikharah do'a only.
But the name of man is surely no one is perfect. Sholeh people must have their bad natures too. Therefore, at the beginning of the introduction and at the beginning of marriage there is always a little disagreement due to differences, whether opinions, habits, behavior or so forth. That's a very natural thing in the adaptation period to know each other. Provided that each other is open and complementary and accept each other's shortcomings. Everything will run beautifully especially if it is based on Love and compassion after becoming a halal partner. Subhanallah is indeed an extraordinary Household that every human being dreams of, sakinah mawaddah warahmah, if you understand religion and are close to God, God willing you can.
Zara has never been discouraged, even though now I am a single parent. But the dream of having a happy family is always there. Because sometimes at the time of falling, falling and feeling disappointed like Zara experienced yesterday. That's where you'll find your own advantages. Discover your talent and potential to grow.
Zara's message to those of you who have experienced failure in life, or are experiencing adversity.
"Rise up, you have a dream, you have a purpose in life. Realize your dream. You have a very valuable value."
One day the person you love most in the world may leave you. But your own aspirations and achievements will never leave you.
Be a useful human being for everyone. Especially if you are able to produce a work whatever it is, Make it happen. To leave a trail of memories that will never be forgotten by people who have known us in their lives.
Say goodbye to the past. Because all will be valuable when we are with the right people and in the right environment.
No need to argue anymore with people who feel they are always right and smart, Silence is the best way to fight it. Even writing can be the best revenge. As Ittakrn said.
Zara has been broken repeatedly. Then everything will not be able to return to how it was. Even an apology like his was not enough to treat the wound. But I'm sincere with everything because God knows everything.
Maybe Zara's like a time bomb. As I read in a quote by Muhammad sapila.
At first, more succumbing, more saying it's okay, more tolerating the mistakes of others. And everything I ended up keeping to myself.
After it explodes what happens? Don't expect me to come back, because to look back I'll never do it again.
