SOULMATES

SOULMATES
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I continued to focus on my efforts and write novels as well, suddenly I thought about the title of my novel SOULMATE. What does the title of my novel mean is that I don't really understand it yet, because when I first decided to write. Suddenly it crossed my mind for a title that was SOULMATE. I finally went to Google.


SOULMATE or soulmate is often interpreted as a life partner where we have many similarities with it. According to the authors of Becoming Soulmates, John Grey and Bonney Grey, soulmates are couples who have a deep sense of mutual need and are able to overcome all the trials they go through. But, it turns out that soulmate is not just about someone who has a romantic relationship with us. Here are some types of soulmates that you need to know.



New friends who have a lot of matches



Sometimes, when we meet a new friend, there is a feeling in yourself as if you and he have known each other for a long time even though you just met 10 minutes ago. You two can chat about anything tirelessly. He can know you better than you, even see things that no one else can see in you.



The love that makes you so happy



This type of soulmate comes into your life as a couple and has a very good relationship with you in a certain time. He taught you a lot about life and love. After you break up, he remains your best friend even for life.



Strangers who can see inside you



Have you ever met a stranger whose words are soul-searching, even sharing the same thoughts as you? Even if you only sit next to each other for a few hours, you feel that your mind is very close to it. Although you will not meet that person again, the moment will be difficult for you to forget.



The teacher who taught you who you are



The teacher can be a friend, family or even a rival who can show who you are, including your strengths and weaknesses. Usually, this type of soulmate approaches you as a friend and slowly drifts away so that your relationship is stretched. When the person leaves, you will remember the lessons you learned from him and move on immediately.



Your true love, which you are waiting for



This is the kind of soulmate that is most anticipated by everyone in his life. If you have found it, you are classified as very lucky people. There is nothing more beautiful than to marry and build a family with her until death do them part.


Not all types of soulmates we will encounter in our lives. Some of them come to teach us something in a fun way, some come in a way that we find hard to accept.


There are also other notions about the difference SOULMATE and life partner


Soulmate is someone who comes to help you grow into a better person. While a life partner is someone you will meet when you have made peace with yourself and are ready to live a lifetime relationship with others.


some of the big differences between soulmates and life partners are to be understood.



Soulmate is giving you a lesson. The couple will live forever.



Once their task was fulfilled, the soulmate could just leave. Unfortunately, this often leads to a lot of emotional suffering.


Instead, a life partner comes into your life to settle in forever. Life will support and motivate you no matter what.



Different types of connections formed



The connection you have with the soulmate can be through the heart and mind after going through the good and bad. The relationship formed with the soulmate is obviously an important one.


Sooner or later, the relationship will end. Soulmate is only tasked with teaching you something you need to understand.


Different from a life partner. You will feel complete with each other, helping to create a long-term relationship.



Soulmate forms a spiritual bond. Your partner will connect with you intellectually and emotionally.



Soulmates are very connected to each other. Your relationship with the soulmate can be so strong that you can sometimes feel the desire and read their thoughts.


While a life partner starts a relationship with you as a romance. Initially, he will be physically attracted, as well as you.


Then comes the interest of getting to know each other more deeply. This relationship can develop because each other feels comfortable, has the same interests, and stimulates each other intellectually and emotionally.



Soulmate helps you grow as a human being. A couple gives comfort.



If you meet a soulmate, it's as if it feels like you've met for quite a while. You will get along pretty well and think the same way.


A relationship with a partner will not be like that. At the beginning, life partners will make you feel different things, but because they both build intimate moments, friendships will also arise.



Soulmate helps you to move. Your partner comes when you are ready.



Soulmate is usually present when you have to move on from something. Soulmate is the one who can help you end a troubled relationship, at a time when the relationship with the soulmate itself is not easy either.


Relationships with a life partner are much more comfortable because they start as well easily. The bonds that are intertwined will become stronger over time, no burden.