SOULMATES

The guardian angel of Alka

Suddenly there was a message coming in from my former coworker Karin.

"Zara can share ga? "

"maybe why?"

"Finally fitting you have finished the same Ditto how to make a story to parents. "

"To what father-in-law to my mother? "

"To your parents Zara?"

"Soalah I have been given talak 1 with my husband now. He already said he wanted to divorce me, it means that it has fallen talak right if that?"

"O Allah, did you separate Karin?"

"Yes. "

I was also confused how to provide a solution to Karin because I was also a nobody, I was also less understanding just to have experienced such a position.

"Today, if I think the mending obrolin to parents just first. In the good musyawarahin how. When Ditto told my mother, I told my father-in-law. If I was that. "

"See you or call?"

"Neither see you let's have a nice talk."

"Yesterday malem already the same story in-laws.his problem was long ago, which when you divorced I confided in it. The problem is that my parents don't know. I was confused where to start the story. "

"Ceritain is good with our parents, it is heavy. It takes a lot of effort to explain everything. But we also can not run from the problem, the problem comes for us to face. Let everything be done well, whatever the end result, at least we've explained the truth."

"The case of my husband is the same as Ditto, even Karin himself never mergokin husband again phone while humping it. Even the mother-in-law had once mergokin him."

"Well, less pinter means. I've never cheated on Ditto. I didn't even know Ditto was cheating on me." I laugh.

"Oh my goodness, our fate is Zara."

"You also why should follow Karin. Weight tau become single parent tuh. " I laughed back at Karin's message.

"Eitherway. My father and mother-in-law told me to stay in this house. Schooling the children here. continue to mamahnya also say do not bring the goods first, hopefully it can be reversed again. He may not want to lose his grandson either. But yeah how's his own son who wants to split up."

"Sampe the problem is finished, we as wives do not first get out of the house we occupy especially if we are not wrong there continue to be children as well. If we want to go home to our parents, we must first permit the ex-husband. Mending finished the problem first, continue if new talak 1, as time goes by during the iddah period has not been completed, if you want to re-refer can still. As long as they fix each other and forgive each other's mistakes. As long as it can still be maintained can just refer back for the future of children as well. Another thing with the case me and Ditto first. Ditto immediately gave talak 3, so until any time there is no hope for Zara and Ditto back together, even religiously met should not be illegal law. Sorry Karin if my explanation is wrong and not right because I am not the expert. Just learn from experience."

"My rich husband cheated on me. He was always looking for my mistakes. So the problem is as if the fault is in Karin all. Keep asking the same mother-in-law my husband calls the same who, said it's just temen. The same phone period should be crammed anyway. Bener ga? "

"Well that's him. Why do we cape-cape living with people who do not want to fight with us. "

"Communicate before it's over. As much as possible if it can still be repaired and maintained. Try to defend first, do not rush to make a decision to separate yes. Think carefully so that there are no regrets at the end. Inget loh, divorce is not an easy process."

"Yes. There we find good in-laws uh his son is less adept. "

"Yes that. Who are we living with? in-laws or their children? "

"the child. "

"Yes, even though our in-laws require us to live with their children, but back inside ourselves. We feel ourselves, are we happy? are we capable? The answer is in ourselves. Now before Karin decides to ask yourself first and pray istikharah. God will find the right answer."

"In addition, I will have my husband take it to court, let him sue for divorce Karin himself. He was the one who asked to separate. The marriage of a divorce must also be official. "

"Yes must, there are also our rights that we must get if sued unilaterally, even child custody also needs an agreement."

"Ribet. "

"Yes, that's why you can't get divorced. The length of the business." As Zara has experienced.

"Oh Allah, it turns out that it feels like being given a test like this. But behind this all God loves us Zara. So if our husband still can not be the best for us even though we used to think he is the best."

"I said heavy, yes. Said it was hard. Because we are also just ordinary people who have weaknesses and shortcomings. But believe me, we also have the power to face this test. Because after Zara also passed now alhamdulilah still good. Maybe also when we are separated from the ex-husband is not entirely his fault, there must be a time when we also make mistakes to the husband without us knowing. Because whatever there is must be a cause for effect. It's just the lack of communication so we can not maintain and improve this relationship. Returning to the fate of God if we have to separate maybe indeed what we have always considered good is not necessarily good in the eyes of God. Take the lesson and make it a valuable lesson from every event.

"I think all my dreams are shattered, what my children's future will be, where girls are both. " Karin must have felt as devastated as I had felt before.

"God is strong, leave everything to God. Return to God, do not take the wrong path. The sustenance of God's Son. God will never leave us like His creatures. Believe and believe God will certainly set the best path for us to make a decision. " I'm trying to strengthen the karin.

"Yes Zara amin. Must be strong and stay sane for the sake of the child."

"Yes, God willing, I can. The spirit keeps praying and trying. "

"Thank you Zara would listen to me. I pray you will have your happiness. You deserve to be happy Zara."

"Thank you Karin may Allah grant our do'a-do'a, if there is any news. If you want stories."

"Yes. "

I'm happy to share my story with my friend Karin. I hope she feels a little relieved to have shared her story with me.