
Part 2. Reasons to Love
In the afternoon I went to pick up my sister from school. Up there, by the side of the road in front of the school, I parked the vehicle and sat there waiting. It doesn't feel good to be in a crowd. Let it not be long either.
Get out some 3rd graders, that means tutoring this afternoon is over. Among the many disciples he appeared. Not my sister, but the son of the shop owner near my house. Just call him Bibah.
Yup! she chick.
Honestly used to fit their 3rd class hike I had a crush on him. You could say you fell in love at first sight. Though I have often seen him fit again small even now like. The reason is certainly not because he has entered puberty yes yes. Ngaco you're a camel.
Love at first sight means liking him, because he belongs to the type of our partner. That type is from liking. Likes it according to what we want. What we want is our true nature. Because the type of partner of each person depends on the true nature he has as well as my true nature is super unstable and has not been fully studied. Until now, it is still a mystery why falling in love needs a reason.
Yes, at this moment. Means after this is no longer a mystery dong.. Yup! I will answer this mystery.
Narrowing views. Gathering information. Started the calculation.
1.Why do I fall in love at first sight?..
2.Why do I need proof by action (us or him) to make sure he's my type?..
3.Why is a beautiful girl whose face is like an artist not necessarily make me fall in love?..
4.What do I look for in a relationship?..
The answer is, try to combine it with our nature.
Love is about the perpetrators of both.
Love is about complementing each other.
First.
We like a person at first sight because he belongs to our partner type. Related to nature? insinuations and self-correction.Do we have a bad nature and a good nature? for example, bad nature, this nature will lead us to things he likes. Examples are seeing her cute short hair, her small lips, her eyes and all about her. His physical, material or personality.
Is love blind? not again. Love at first sight is because we like something about the doi without us noticing. It is the habit that comes from our true nature that explains why at first glance the presumption about him will always be good. What kind of true nature do we have?..
Second one.
Especially in my case when I like Sophia who needs some moments to become love. The moment in question when the doi shows its advantages. A bit of flashback experience when I liked him.When we were group work at his house. Surely after the work of the group there is a chance to joke. Then on that occasion I saw him smile. Why do I like him now? because only this time I saw him smile and his smile was growing the seeds of love. But first the guy who shot haha. He dares to shoot girls wkwkwkw.
Proof of action results to ascertain if he really fits our type. If not, then our hearts do not want anything from him.
Thirdly.
Wh why? You don't belong in my type, do you?
Length, as I said earlier answered the first question. The third question is just to clarify.
Falling in love because you like.
Likes in general, physical, material and personality. I like to come from true nature.
Falling in love at first sight and expecting to get to her.
What does "get himself" mean"? here's the real question.
Remembering an unstable personality because you do not understand yourself. In love there is certainly one, two or more great expectations that we want from forming a relationship. I didn't know who I was.
Why am I angry?..
Why am I happy?..
Why am I sad?..
And why would I want her just because I'm in love?..
Doubt it..
I told you when I fell in love with someone
"can I see what I can't see in him?"
It makes me doubt. But until this stage I began to understand the answer to the question was because of our true nature. I like it based on the true nature I have. What kind of nature do I have. Labile? I don't know yet.
But what I can confirm by combining the points is..
"I see what I can't see" it means I see what my eyes can't see. Which is not seen. Whatisit? Yup! his personality.
But.. Why do I expect him for personal reasons?
Love is about complementing each other.
Do I have a deficiency or an advantage that makes a deficiency? labile..
Why about love at first sight, it is true nature that drives itself to do it, trying to have it.
It means that the real reason I fell in love is to be able to complete the lack of self, perfecting the unstable personality that I have. Here's the specific reason.
Really so?
If I have perfected my character, maybe I will perfect my partner.
It's probable. No one knows what will happen in the future.