
As a learning of what I will and always say in my life story is to recognize myself.
I don't really understand the way I read people's personalities. I automatically learn the rhythms of people's habits and then take action steps to respond to their attitudes. Not applicable to the one I just met. So I asked if I could really read someone's personality? The answer is of course not.
I saw the movie Sherlock Holmes, the sociopathic detective. His genius made him good at deduction towards the attitude of someone he saw. Thorough and broad insight makes it easy to recognize who, what has been done and emm. let alone yes, yes anyway, really detective, can connect all points through the evidence obtained.
I want to know my difference.
I feel proud to say I can read someone's personality when I myself do not know for sure. I'm just guessing. Ah, I'm also too proud of my instinctive ability when I don't necessarily really have.
It has to do with the matter this time that I'm going to tell you.
Usually our prayers in the break are not disturbed, I mean rame as usual, full of excitement. Well then came a new figure, he was the father of the Gafur, participated in prayers in the break. I don't know him very well so I'm not trying to guess his personality.
"Remember, guessing other people's personalities is illegal on other planets" Patrick Star said.
When he wanted to choose a prayer priest called Magrib, his father Gafur was told to imitate us by inviting him. Then I caught a reaction from him responding to us. More or less like wanting to be praised through an act of compassion. Before advancing to become a priest he had said "wahh I yes but I can usually fart in the middle of prayer" but still want to be a priest. Spontaneous alone my forehead immediately shriveled. I know such an attitude, the source is myself so I immediately turned my mind not to discuss it because I want to pray.
The first time I let it be his own dependents.
Second, his voice was very slow. If this is not a problem for me because of age, it is difficult to breathe.
This is the third time I don't like it.
After sholatkan is usually berwirid well somehow our voice can not be in rhythm with the priest, he always preceded our voice and reading which ultimately made us stop in the middle of reading and confusion including me, he always preceded our voice and reading, who began to feel emotion.
Why emotions?..
Because I caught the implied attitude of him wanting to always win.
Don't ask me how I can do it. I can see the ugliness of others and feel it. I'm a monster too.
Do not want to extend the problem I berwirid alone then fill the time left with a little practice until the prayer section.
The peak of his attitude when he wanted to pray the priest directly facing the Qibla. It was just like that, in contrast to the way his father Parid and his father Jannah used to fill the priest here.
For me manners do not divert the front side from the master who is behind. If I did, I felt like we were abandoned and prayed for ourselves.
Again.
The priest who would usually always throw a prayer turn. So that? Who knows if the others are much more noble and soon accomplished. This time the priest who turned his back to us prayed twice himself. By himself? That's what I caught.
Huhhh.
The lesson that has been really learned, for us is repetition repeatedly to recognize and understand it so that we can do our best actions.
Uh.. hooked or what? I said in my heart because he came again. Then the fault of Mr. RT even told him to be a priest again even his father Jannah. Pliss don't do it dong, I'm worried immeasurably. The same attitude as before reasoned to attract attention but still wanted to advance to become a priest. Grpr....
It will always happen as I tell you.
Pas salat I do not blame him age but wirid, I will do it myself and pray once after it runs away.
I came out with Ardi. Strangely enough, I suddenly spoke to Ardi "ihhh huh!" while pointing to in violate 😂Â
Emotional overflow to respond to Ardi's thought guess why I was quickly out breaking.
It's weird for me, spontaneous I said that.
The initial attitude was my regret.
Day continues.
Priest again.
Very good test for me. I also started to remember and count my mistakes.
I began to laugh because he was going to be a priest again.
Even others like his father Parid felt bad, we started to reproach him. Not feeling much better.
I justify myself.
But, because his arrogance made us start to leave.
I feel that I know where the fault lies he began to tell it to Pandi, my neighbor.
I told him "not because his voice was slow, so the problem is that he was arrogant, praying alone and not allowing the others to become priests". Pandi's answer surprised me and made me realize. I've been defaming. Pandi's response was so bad that I just wanted to teach him. I know that Pandi is still a beginner in religion so he did not catch my point.
But what's really wrong is me.
Good, I've been waving. It feels like what I've been fighting for all this time has been destroyed.
I automatically want to apologize. How do I apologize to the person I have slandered?
If I can see the faults of others it means that I can see the goodness as well.
Is correct.
Changing my mindset because of my mistake this time was enough to hit me hard.
Science is very useful and I do not want to repeat mistakes because of ignorance.
Is it true that I can see?
The answer is clearly no.
The more difficult it is to get it, the greater the people make their own conclusions..