God's Choice of Mate

New round.

Brother Reno leaned his body on the prison cell wall that shackled him.Suddenly his tears dripped without him noticing. There was a sudden feeling of tightness and pain in his chest. His breath was breathless like fear. In silence, slowly his hands hold his chest while his head slightly looks up. Confusion approached him, "Why do I feel so hurt and broken? What is really going on, O Allah?" he said. Repeatedly Brother Reno wiped his tears but still he could not stop his eyes to continue to drain the details of sadness that soaked his face. As usual when sadness came to greet him only to His Lord he complained while pouring his feelings in a book into a scratch of his hand.

Today sadness came to me. Suddenly the tears became raindrops that fell like a silent drizzle. The details of the water soaked my feeling that was arid and very worried.

I don't know what's really going on in my mind and heart. So many questions come to my mind.

I also tried to guess the meaning of the omens of what happened to me.

I was really agitated in the screams of my heart.

Then when I close my eyes and try to calm the pain that plagues me.

Without me before, the shadow of my beloved heart came incarnating in my illusion.

His father's face made me more and more disturb my soul to long.

But in the bias of my vision.

My atmaku seems to be a serkah in a grey blanket.

My heart's lover's rapture keeps moving away even though it's just inside my inner eye.

Oh.. Oh my God, my God,

Only to you.

I realized the heartbreak of my separation from my soul mate.

I'll keep waiting.

Until the one I love will come back to me.

I don't know when that was.

Where I don't know either.

But my heart is sure of you.

Even though I have to wait.

In desolation and sorrow of my solitude.

Oh.. Oh my God, my God,

Don't lose and lose my love.

For the longer the buds of my love for her grow the deeper they adorn my tribe.

This sadness, really makes me glow blue.

Oh.. Oh my God, my God,

Titip rinduku's.

To the antidote to the evil of my life.

Nun was far away at the end of my eye.

Nur'aini azzahra binds my soul to You.

Who always loved Rani...

Reno.

Brother Reno still looks limp and immediately lay his body on a mat on the floor with both hands he made his head. His eyes were still glaring at the ceiling of the prison cell. And sounding softly from his words he said the phrase dhikr to make his heart become calm.

***

I'm still in front of the closest family, friends, friends, and some invited guests at my wedding and Ustad Fariz who have finished in the title.And now directly hold the Walimatul Ursy event intimately invited the closest people only.It is according to Ustad's request Fariz and I who don't like fancy, crowded events.

Right now I feel like I have been hit by a gentle breeze that gently caresses my body. Where all relatives, friends and friends of Ustad Fariz,Abi and Enjid were also present at this event, like the parable also let me off with Ustad Fariz to the port which will soon release us both who will sail across the vast ocean of life. In my mind this is like a symbol that everyone present today Insha Allah blesses my marriage and Ustad Fariz. I who sat side by side with Ustad Fariz felt quite tired after going through the procession of the Ijab qabul event and continued with the Walimatul Ursy event. The holy verses of the Qur'an gather to fill the room directly connected to the park next to the residence of the family home Ustad Fariz.

Suddenly both of Wirda's parents, Auntie Warti and Om Akmal, came to greet us both and congratulated them.

"Congratulations on your marriage. May your marriage be long and happy. Aunty was really surprised when your Abi and Ummah contacted Aunt suddenly asking us to come here quickly to attend your marriage contract and Rani, " said Aunt Warti Ustad Fariz class.

Ustad Fariz smiled slightly and nodded slightly.

Then Auntie Warti continued her words again, "But your Ummah has explained everything to Auntie. However, Aunty is happy that finally the two daughters of Aunty are married and become one unit part of the Imandar family. "

Aunt Warti then hugged me tightly, "Wirda who heard the news of your wedding and Nak Fariz want to go home Ran immediately. She can't wait to meet you after knowing this very happy news. "

I also just smiled a little hearing the words of Aunt Warti. Then Auntie Warti took me to take a picture with her. After that Aunt Warti and Om Akmal joined Ummah, Abi and Enjid to chat.

Ustad Fariz looked at me, "Are you tired of Dek Rani?. "

"A little tired Ustad, "I replied.

"Then Dek Rani sat down first, let me get you a drink?, "asked Ustad Fariz to me.

I did not have time to answer Ustad Fariz's question but Iya quickly took a bottle of mineral water that was not far from where we were standing today, and soon Ustad Fariz returned to my place, which I now sit in limbo, where the marriage contract between myself and Ustad Fariz had been drawn up. Slowly Ustad Fariz unscrewed the bottle of mineral water and gave it to me, "This Dek Rani, better Dek Rani drink first yes, "he said gently and a little anxiously looking at me. I smiled as I reached for the bottle he gave me, "Thank you so much oustad."

Ustad Fariz smiled as he looked at me, and I slowly gulped down the water in the bottle.

Not long after that walimatul ursy event was finished. I immediately cleaned myself and also removed the remnants of makeup on my face. So did Ustad Fariz, who also cleaned himself in a different place to me, in his room. I put on a shar'i game that has been prepared can be Ummah. The game that Ummah choose has details such as additional vests that give the impression of a preppy look. The design is made like there is an additional vest or overlayered that dangles down so as to create a neater impression. Where this game is also combined with embroidery fabric that gives the impression of luxury and elegance, namely peach color with cream color.

And Ustad Fariz was also wearing a cocoa shirt with matching colors like my robe.

After I finished changing clothes, Ustad Fariz invited me to meet Ummah, Abi and Enjid in the family room.

Our footsteps both felt so slightly awkward after our bond became lawful as a married couple.

On the way to Ustad Fariz's living room, I tried to get myself to talk to relieve the tension between us, "Is Dek Rani okay?. "

I turned a little towards Ustad Fariz, then turned my gaze towards the front, "Alhamdulillah yes Ustad. "

For a while Ustad Fariz was silent and continued to walk with me with a little distance between the two of us.

Not long after that I and Ustad Fariz arrived at the living room.

Ummah immediately pulled my hand slowly to immediately sit next to her. Ustad Fariz sat next to the mosque. Ummah looked so happy because I and Ustad Fariz had officially become a married couple. So too with Abi and Enjid. Turns out they all called me and Ustad Fariz to give me a message.

"Today is a happy and historic day for both of you. Abi, Ummah and Enjid are very grateful to be able to take the steps of your life journey to the level of marriage, hopefully to open the gate to the happiness of your life later. May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala continue to bless and bless you both, " said Abi while embracing the shoulder of Ustad Fariz and patting her softly.

"Aamin ya rabbal alamin, " replied Ustad Fariz while nodding his head and smiling at Abi.

Then, the housekeeper in the Imandar family brought a warm drink and some small snacks placed on the table and then left. Meanwhile, I tried to find the whereabouts of Bik Siti and Pak Budi that I did not see.

Where they are, my mind while sitting quietly.

Then Abi continued his speech back to Ustad Fariz, "My son Fariz. You have made the choice to be your life companion to ananda Nur'aini azzahra, and set him as your life partner in building a household mahligai. Know, son, that the whole family has high hopes that the household you build with Rani will be able to become a strong master, like an unfettered coral in the heat and rain, and not hit by the waves. The hope of Abi in particular, may the marriage of the two of you become a household that always reflects the light of Sakinah, Mawaddah wa Rahmah as well as the household of Prophet Muhammad Adam Alaihissalam and Siti Hawa, Yusuf and Zulaikha, respectively, as well as the Prophet Muhammad Shallallahu Alaihi Wasallam with Khadijah Al-Kubra. That is an example of a household that brings longing at a distance, and peace and affection at a close time and shares feelings at will, and comforts each other in grief."

Ustad Fariz listened intently to all the words of Abi, as did I, Ummah and Enjid.

While patting Ustad Fariz on the shoulder, Abi continued his advice again, "Son, as Abi had said earlier. Where you have chosen the spouse who will accompany your life is Rani, to whom you will depend your hope to carry out the circumcision, which is to get a pious and godly offspring.Know my son Fariz, that marriage is not just finding a life partner for biological needs only.But in terms of sociological has a definition to unite and unite two large families into a unity in the whole bond of a large family. Let the two of you be able to unite the differences between the two of you in a solid foundation.Abi's message is to look at and take the positive sides of both parties, the couple,to cover the negative sides of each side between the two of you. Because Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will bless and bless all his servants who have a positive view or khusnu dzan.Disini Abi, Ummah and Enjid will only provide do’a and blessing to you and Rani, respectively, may you both always get along well in building this life and may the blessings and mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala always cover both of you. "

"Aamiin ya Rabbal 'alamiin, " said myself together with Ustad Fariz, Ummah and Enjid.

After Abi finished giving his advice to myself and Ustad Fariz in particular, it was now the turn of Enjid to give his advice. Ustad Fariz moved to sit next to the Enjid.

Enjid drank a cup of fresh green tea that was still warm before he began his advice to Ustad Fariz.

Ustad Fariz was ready to listen to Enjid's words, who had finished putting a cup of warm green tea back on the table.

Then Enjid's eyes looked at Ustad Fariz who was also staring at him.

"By your decision to choose Rani to be your life companion, then can Enjid conclude that the choices you have made include two meanings in the interpretation of Enjid, among others,that's the first one where you've joined two great families which means you have two parents, your biological parents and your wife's parents, although we all know that Rani has been orphaned and has no relatives or anyone else in the world. Then increase your responsibility to Rani, son. "

"Iya Enjid, Fariz understood and InshaAllah Fariz will take care and protect Dek Rani as well as possible, " said Ustad Fariz.

Enjid smiled as he rubbed the head of Ustad Fariz, "The second one means that you and Rani have been determined to live as a life partner, as a couple, then it is obligatory for both of you to close your eyes in unison to subdue your eyes, which is clearly no longer as free as the time before the marriage of the two of you is fulfilled now. So, Enjid asks to hold fast to your oath until death separates you.Therefore it is the teaching of the religion that we embrace and glorify the religion of Islam.

Do’a blessing Enjid accompanies the journey of the two of you to paddle the ark of your new life that has just begun. Sail my grandchildren Fariz and Rani, paddle your ark both towards the shore of hope, and remain conscious by the two of you, the further you both take off the beach, the more,then the wider the living ocean that stretches before you later.And know my grandchildren Fariz and Rani, the wider the ocean that stretches, the horizons of your views will be even wider. Likewise with this ocean of life, which is in harmony with the sound of nature. Like the proverb, where it sounds more and more above your level of life, the greater the temptation will come your way. Enjid advised be careful both of you.Where later the waves hit you will also get bigger, even sometimes accompanied by storms and typhoons. Remember once again, my grandchildren Fariz and Rani,when waves and storms come upon you in the ocean of this life, then no one can help conquer that obstacle but you two alone can pass through it by working together the two encountered such conditions, then the firmness of faith, patience, trust, mutual understanding, mutual understanding, mutual understanding, mutual understanding, mutual compassion and mutual care, become a very valuable force for both of you.Enjid advised the two of you always ber’a in your meridajat, ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to be kept away from all the bad things that disturb your household.

And remember that religion places marriage as "mitsaqan ghalidza" which means "great covenant" or "strong bond".

So remember for both of you, that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala only three times use the words "mitsaqan ghalidza" in the Qur’an, the first: when Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala made a covenant with the Prophets of Ulul Azmi namely the Prophets Noah, Abraham, Moses and Isa as described in the letter Al Ahzab verse 7 which reads;

Wa iz akhazna minan-nabiyyina misaqahum wa minka wa min nuhiw wa ibrahima wa musa wa ‘isabni maryam, wa akhazna minhum misaqan galiza.

Which means:(Remember) when We took the covenant from the prophets, from you (Prophet Muhammad), from Noah, Abraham, Moses, and Isa the son of Maryam. We have taken from them a firm covenant.

The second mitsaqan ghalidza is used when Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala raised the hill of Thur on the head of the Israelites and told them to swear allegiance to Allah,as in the letter of An Nissa verse 154 which reads;

Wa rafna fauqahumut tura bimisaqihim wa qulna lahumudkhul-baba sujjadaw wa qulna lahum lahum la dua fis-sabti wa akhazna misaqan galiza.

Which means: We have lifted up the mountain (Sinai) above them to (reinforce) their covenant. We commanded them, "Enter the gate (Baitulmaqdis) while prostrating". We commanded them, "Don't break (the rules) on the Sabbath."We have taken from them a firm covenant.

And the third is Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala stated that the marriage relationship is mitsaqan ghalidza as in the letter An Nissa verse 21 which reads:

Wa kaifa ta'khuzunahu wa qad afda ba'dukum ila ba'diw wa akhazna minkum misaqan galiza.

Which means: How are you going to take it (back), when you have hooked each other (as husband and wife) and they (your wives) have made a strong agreement (marriage bond) with you?.

So, my grandchildren Fariz and Rani please keep in mind that the marriage covenant between husband and wife as Enjid said was aligned with the covenant of the Prophets, and the covenant of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala with the children of Israel. How great and heavy is the word of jab and qabul in the marriage contract that you both have pledged. By paying attention to it can directly reflect how sacred the wedding event is. Where Islam places how the event of "marriage" is in a great position, sacred and noble. When the ijab of the qabul has been promised, then that is when the husband and wife have been united in a bond that is more solid than iron and steel though. The bond that cannot be seen with the naked eye is able to link two different types of human hearts. In the book of exegesis Al-Maraghiy explained that by marriage, each party is part of the other. So, as if one party is part of the perfection of existence for the other.Therefore if one of you two is damaging the marriage rope, it means that it has damaged the mitsaqan galidza, where the two of you have disappointed relatives and relatives who have been present also give do’a blessing to you. Therefore, hold tightly to the rope "mitsaqan ghalidza" so that you both always get the blessing and mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

That's all you can order to both of you. Sail my grandchildren Fariz and Rani.Welcome to paddle the ark of life you two do'a Enjid with you both. Barakallahu lakuma wa baa raka ‘alaika wa jama’a bainakumaa fii khoiir .May Allah grant you barakah, and may He bestow barakah upon you, and may He gather you both in good. "

"Aamiin Ya Mujibassailin .Accept our prayer, O God who grants the request of the one who asks, " said Ustad Fariz.

"Aamiin, "I said together with Ummah and Abi.

Then it was Ummah's turn to tell the two of us, "My son Faruz and Rani. Please remember what Ummah told you both is that there are three communication barriers for beginning households like Dr. John Gray once wrote in "Men are from Mars,and Women are from Venus" that the brains of men and women are different,the path of logic and language skills are also different that can affect communication in the household.To avoid misunderstandings in communication should explain each other and understand what is the will and mind of each.The second obstacle is a problem therefore, build mutual trust and honesty between the two of you,keep each other's trust and honor in order to grow mutual trust between you.And the third is a financial problem, do not let this be a source of conflict.Therefore never keep each other's financial problems secret,build a sense of mutual responsibility and openness in terms of finances between the two of you and also in any case. So the point is you two have to be open and trust each other. "

"Well, God willing, "I replied.

Ummah then rubbed my head slowly and rubbed my back. Here I really felt the warmth of the affection of a mother from the attitude that Ummah showed me.

Then suddenly Bik Siti came and said to Ummah, "Mother Princess Nak Fariz's room is finished decorating. "

Ummah smiled happily, "Then Rani's belongings have been moved Bik Siti?. "

"Already Miss Princess, " said Bik Siti.

Ummah then looked up at me and Ustad Fariz, "Tonight and so on Rani slept in Fariz's room huh. "

Me and Ustad Fariz were shocked and shocked, even more so I was so jolted at Ummah's words. While Ummah, Bik Siti, Abi and Enjid look smiling.