God's Choice of Mate

God's Choice of Mate
Umah Advice.



The next day we all went home to Aunt Desi to leave her home.


Aunty Desi hugged tightly and rubbed my head that was covered with hijab khimar syari navy color.


Huhuhuhu... Huhuhuhu....


He heard her voice crying again. It made my heart tremble and hear it. I felt a deep sadness from the warmth of his embrace.


"Ran, can't you stay here any longer to accompany Auntie. Hix... Hix... Hiks.., "he said as he sobbed while removing his crib from my body and rubbing my face.


Ummah who heard the words of Aunt Desi immediately replied, "Bu Desi, God willing after we accompanied Rani to check the condition of her eyes so that she could immediately perform eye surgery. We will come here again to visit Ms. Desi and family yes, " said Ummah slowly while rubbing the shoulder of Ms. Desi.


Miss Desi nodded while holding the hand of Ummah leaning on her shoulder, "Hiks... Hix.. Hix.. Yes, my Princess understands. Forgive me for my attitude that cannot endure my grief. And thank you for all that Miss Princess did for me and also my late son Roy. I've had a lot of trouble Miss Princess, Nak Roy and Nak Rafa".


Ummah smiled slightly as she shook her head slightly, "Mrs Desi don't say that. We are like a family, no. After all, my two sons and I did not feel bothered. We are happy to help Ms. Desi. Yes, Miss Desi, then we all go home first. Ms. Desi take good care of herself and multiply my thoughts and pray to remember God".


"Yes Bu Putri, " said Aunt Desi slowly and then hugged Ummah's body tightly.


Ummah also let Aunt Desi cry to let go of her sadness.


Huhuhuhu..... Huhuhuhu......


The sobs of Aunt Desi broke again and grew louder. Ummah also replied to Aunt Desi's embrace while rubbing her shoulders slowly and praying near the ears of Aunt Desi.


"LAA ILAAHA ILLALLOH AL-‘AZHIIM AL-HALIIM, LAA ILAAHA ILLALLOH ROBBUL ‘ARSYIL ‘AZHIIM. LAA ILAAHA ILLALLOH, ROBBUS SAMAAWAATI WA ROBBUL ARDHI WA ROBBUL ‘ARSYIL KARIM. There is no god (god) that is worthy of worship other than Allah, the Greatest and Most Merciful. No god (god) is worthy of worship other than Allah, the Lord of ‘arsy, the Greatest. No god (god) is worthy of worship other than Allah.(He is) the Lord of the heavens, (He) the Lord of the earth, and (He) the Lord of ‘arsy, the Most High".


Ummah slowly released herself from hugging Aunt Desi. Then Ummah invited Aunt Desi to sit for a while on a chair not far from them standing. And Aunt Desi also according. Ummah took a slow breath while looking at Aunt Desi's face and grasping Aunt Desi's fingers.


"One thing that burdens man and fills his chest so that it makes him very sad is to multiply prayer and remember Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. For the remedy of a severe trial is to purify Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and to honor Allah by mentioning His name and nature, Ms. Desi was afflicted with grief and deep sadness because of the departure of her only son Desi, the late Ananda Roy. But Miss Desi should not be prolonged in sadness.Because the conditions of our lives are not always in mourning or sadness. But sometimes we will also feel a feeling of like or pleasure. Because the likes and sorrows will continue to change in our lives.And what Bu Desi needs to know is that the destiny of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is so very good. However, indeed if we look from one side of our view as a human being may feel bad and very unfair even painful, " said Ummah gently.


Aunt Desi and we all listened intently to what Ummah said. Then Ummah continued his words again. And we all sat down to hear the words of Ummah.


"As in the Qur'an the letter of Al-Inshirah verses 5 and 6 read:


Fa inna ma’al ‘usri yusraa.


Meaning: For after the trouble there is ease.


Meaning: Indeed, with the difficulty there is ease.


From the second verse we can take a lesson for our lives that behind every difficulty there will be so much ease.Yang Allah has subhanahu wa ta'ala will give. For one difficulty is impossible to defeat two conveniences. So that Miss Desi does not need to constantly grieve


it is not easy to recapitulate all that has happened.However, please say it all because Allah ta' ala.Because the way out is so close for those who fear Allah. And help from God will easily come if we are patient.So Bu Desi do not continue to grieve.By continuing to try to keep the heart, mouth and other limbs from complaining that can cause prolonged sadness.


Ms. Desi must be pleased with the fate of the Divine.


By making patience as a way to get help from Him.


Because the true calamity that comes to test us will increasingly mature ourselves to get closer to God ta'ala.Dan further elevate our degrees in the side of God.May God make sorrow and sorrow Bu Desi and family will quickly passed.


And may Allah make Missi a patient and trustworthy person.


May Allah repay the patience of Ms. Desi and her family with the reply of JANNAH".


" Aamiin ya robbal'alamiin," said we all at once.


After hearing the words of Ummah. Aunt Desi looked much better and stopped crying. He seemed to have tried to make love for the departure of Kak Roy and be patient to accept the test that Allah has laid out for him.


Ummah hugged Aunt Desi back gently and affectionately. And Aunt Desi also looks much calmer and not hysterical with her sadness.


Then we all left the house of Aunt Desi.


All dissolve in feelings that should leave Aunt Desi who is still overwhelmed with sadness will lose Kak Roy.


"We all go home to rest for a while. After that Ummah, Fariz and Rani will go to the doctor to the hospital to consult about eye donor surgery on Rani. And after that Rafa and Wirda can monitor Nak Rere to watch him, "Ummah told us all.


And we nodded in agreement to the advice of Ummah. After that, we all got into the car.


Me, Ummah, Ustad Fariz, Kak Rafa and Wirda were in a car driven by Kak Rafa. While Mr. Budi, Bik Siti and Bik Inah were in the other car.


The sound of the car engine roared away from Aunt Desi who was staring at the pain full of sadness while waving her hand let us all go to leave her residence.