God's Choice of Mate

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Subhanallah, the holy of God will finally spread the seconds soon, soon, that is the process to a sacred marriage contract with a very thrilling feeling.Where will soon the realization of marriage and also the inauguration of the relationship between myself and Ustad Fariz in front of everyone and Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala especially. Where everything I thought would be difficult and complicated ,but with the permission of God also everything became not as difficult as I had thought and feared.There is the confidence and steadiness of my heart and the steadiness of Ustad Fariz also in following the orders of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and practice the sunah of the Prophet Shallallahu alaihi Wassalam. By expecting His pleasure, which has given way and ease to our relationship. In the walimatul the pledge of love based on our obedience to the Creator.

And also in accordance with the request of Ummah to accelerate the sunnah of the completion of this half religion. For the family Ustad Fariz marriage contract or ijab qabul is something very important process because as the starting point of the formation of a family, the, so it must be really thought out and run according to the sharia and religious regulations as well as marriage pillars.

Although the event of my marriage contract and Ustad Fariz impressed impromptu.But Ummah, Abi and Enjid really prepare all the needs of this marriage contract with very careful and detailed planning.

Ustad Fariz wore a white suit in tune with a satin dress that I wore but added a corsage or a jasmine roncean necklace as a decoration on her neck, also equipped with white squat.

And to start the process of ijab qabul Ustad Fariz met with the marriage guardians who faced each other.This is in the procession of ijab qabul. The magistrate became my guardian, because I had lived a long life and no family was left in this world.

After Ustad Fariz met my marriage guardian with Enjid and Pak Budi who was a witness of ijab qabul. Then, Ustad Fariz was always the bridegroom and the guardian of marriage as the ruler would prepare to read the sermon.

"Assalamu'alaikum Warahmatullah Westarakatuh, " said the father of penghulu.

"Wa'alaikumussalam Warahmatullahi Jabarokatuh, "answered everyone

Pengulu then continued his remark again,

"Bismillah, Alhamdulillah, "papak Penghulu said as he took a short breath for a short pause before continuing his speech.

"Alhamdulilbahirobbil Alamin, wabihi nastainu ala ageiddunia wa din.

Wassolatu wassalamu a la Sayyidina Wamaulana Wasyafi'ina Wahabibina Muhammad Rasulillah wala alihi washohbih, waman tabi'a sunnatihi wajama'atah min yaumina hadza ila yaumi nahdhoh.

To all of my parents and ladies and gentlemen, whom I respect.

Praise and thanks be to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala who created man from a drop of semen, and then made him a child in heredity and kinship. He is the Almighty God and has no allies whatsoever for Him.And I testify that Prophet Muhammad Shallallahu Alaihi Wasallam was His servant and messenger. O Allah, bestow upon our lord Prophet Muhammad Shallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, above all creation of creatures to be poured out upon him, for his family and his friends with ta'dhim abundant grace and abundant welfare.

After this, dear audience, I will commit to you and myself to fear Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, where Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said in His Noble Book: O you who believe, fear Allah with His truth, never die except in surrender to Allah (the religion of Islam).

Know that marriage is the sunnah of some sunnah of Prophet Muhammad Shallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. The Prophet Muhammad Shallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: As for me, by Allah, it is the one who fears Allah the most among you, and also fears Him the most. But I fasted and also broke my fast, I prayed and also slept and married women. Whoever hates my Sunnah is not of my people. And he said: O young men, whosoever of you has the ability (to endow the family), then let him marry, let him marry, since marriage is more subject to views and more able to keep *******, and anyone who is not yet able, let him fast because it will be more able to relieve his turmoil.

The honorable audience

Building a family is not easy, but it must be fought for. How the two of you as a husband and wife spend your days later by fighting for the household ark when there are trials and tests that come up. If done sincerely, join together in an effort and then rely on Allah Ta'ala. InshaAllah will all be given a quick and easy solution to solve the problem.If husband and wife work together and complete each other's shortcomings and advantages.

Thus, the marriage is likened to the dress as uttered by Alah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala in the Qur'an letter Al-Baqarah verse 187 reads:

Uhilla lakum lailatas-siyamir-rafasu ila nisa'ikum, hunna libasul lakum wa antum libasul lahunn, 'alimallahu annakum kuntum takhtanuna anfusakum fataba 'alaikum wa 'afa 'ankum, fal-ana basyiruhunna wabtagu ma kataballahu lakum, wa kulu wasyrabu hatta yatabayyana lakumul-khaitul-abyadu minal-khaitil-aswadi minal-fajr, summa atimmus-siyama ilal-lail, wa la tubasyiruhunna wa antum 'akifuna fil-masajid tilka hududulullahi fala taqrabuha, kazalika yubayyinullahu ayatihi lin-nasi la'allahum yattaqun.

Means:It is to you that the night of fasting mixes with your wife. They are clothes for you and you are clothes for them. God knows that you cannot hold yourself back, but He accepts your repentance and forgives you. Now, then, mix them up and seek what Allah has ordained for you. Eat and drink until it is clear to you (difference) between the white thread and the black thread, the dawn. Then, complete the fast until (coming) night. However, do not interfere with them when you are (in a state) in the mosque. These are the limits (determinations) of God. So do not approach him. Thus did Allah explain His signs to men that they might fear Him.

From the above verse it can be concluded that building a healthy family must start from both husband and wife by maintaining affection and love, mutual understanding and respect for each other,and does not compare with the lives of others and must be done with things that can bring the pleasure of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

Finally, hopefully we can do it, especially for both prospective brides. With the hope that the two can form a family that Sakinah, Mahadah and warohmah so that it can be a model of good for all of us. Aamiin ya robbal 'namiin.

Audzubillahiminasyaitonirojim.

Tabarakal-lazi biyadihil-mulku, wa huwa'ala kulli syai'in qadir.

Almighty is the One who controls (every) the kingdom and He is almighty over all things,

Allazi kholaqol-mauta wal-hayata liyabluwakum ayyukum asanu ‘

'amala, wa huwal-'azizul-gofur.

that which creates death and life to test you, which of you is better. He is the Almighty, the Most Forgiving.

Barakallahu lii wa lakum fill qur’aanil azhiim wa nafa’nii wa iyakum bima fiihi minal aayaati wa dzikril hakiim. Aquulu qowlii hadzaa wa astaghfirullaaha lii wa lakum wa lisaa iril muslimiina min kulli danbin fastaghfiruuhu innahu huwal ghafuurur. "

After the ruler has finished delivering the sermon of marriage. Furthermore, Ustad Fariz prepared to read prayer readings, such as istigfar, shahadah, and shalawat.Before doing kabul ijab, as recommended by the Prophet Shallallahu Alaihi Wasallam Ustad Fariz read Khutbatul Hajah do'a.

"Innal hamdalillah Nahmaduhu wanasta’inuhu wa nastaghfireuhu, Wana’zubillahi min syururi anfusinaa, Wamin sayyi-ati a’malinaa, Man yahdihillahu falaa mudhillalah, Waman yudhlil falaa haadiyalah, Wa asyhadu alla ilaha illallah, Wahdahulaa syariikalah, Wa asyhadu anna muhammadan abduhu wa rasuluh.

Praise be to Allah only, we praise Him, ask Him for help and forgiveness, we take refuge in Allah from our own self-evilness and our wickedness. Whosoever Allah guides, then none can lead him astray, and whosoever Allah leads astray, none can guide him. I testify that there is no god that has the right to be worshipped properly except Allah alone, there is no ally for Him, and I testify that Prophet Muhammad is His servant and Messenger”.

After Ustad Fariz finished reading the do'a Khutbatul Hajjah.Lalu, Ustad Fariz said the istighfar three times in conjunction with two sentences of the creed. Where the purpose is to ask for forgiveness to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala before the marriage.

And before starting the procession of ijab qabul Ustad Fariz also read the do'a in order to obtain calmness and smoothness when saying the ijab kabul, as recommended by the Prophet Shallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

"Allaaahumma biamaaanatika akhattuhaa, wa bikalimaaatika istahlaltu farjahaaa, fain qadhayta lii minhaa waladan faj’alhu mubaarakan syawiyyaa, walaa taj’al lissyaithaani fiihi syariikan walaa nashibaa.

O God, I have made her my wife, and with Your words my honor be forgiven. If you decree for me to have offspring from him, make my descendants blessed and glorious, and do not make Satan partake of him. "

Ustad Fariz and the marriage guardian/judge or pengulu hold each other's right hand as a sign of the handover process and agreement.

"Ya Fariz Syarfan Imandar bin Iwan Syarfan Imandar. Uzawwijuka ‘ala ma amarollohu min imsakin bima’rufin au tasriihim bi ihsanin, yes Fariz bin Iwan, "said Pak penghulu.

"Na’am" replied Ustad Fariz.

Then, pak penghulu prepared to continue the speech of ijab, "Ankahtuka wa zawwajtuka makhthubataka Nur'aini azzahra bint the late Sugeng Widiyanto bi mahri mushaf Al-Quran wa alatil ‘ibadah haalan. "

Ustad Fariz then answered ijab qabul with, "Qobiltu Nikahaha wa Tazwijaha alal Mahril Madzkuur wa Radhiitu bihi, wallahu waliyut taufiq."

"How about the witness?, "ask pak penghulu while looking to the right and to the left.

"Well! Validly! Valid! , "witness said simultaneously.

"Alhamdulillah, " said Ustad Fariz glad and relieved.

Abi, Enjid and Ummah.

After finishing the procession of Ijab qabul Ummah immediately picked myself up in the room to go down to the living room so that it can be paired with Ustad Fariz.