God's Choice of Mate

Wedding feast.

As a devout Muslim, Kak Rafa and all his family members want everything wrapped in Islamic breaths. Including when the wedding is going to be held, Rafa and his family members in particular want the event to be designed as well as possible using the religious concept of Islamically. So that in the selection of clothing, for wedding dress Wirda really get extra special attention, because in the concept of Islam aurat is a very mandatory thing to be covered in accordance with the guidance of Islam. Muslim fashion is polite and covers all parts of Wirda's body except the face and palms, which is the right choice of dress.The wedding dress that Wirda wears made of full embroidery fabric material, which is very good, which is still made luxurious and elegant with layering accents, cape full sequins and sparkling crystals with a natural and soft pastel blue color tone, giving the impression of simple and inconspicuous. Wirda's dress is combined with a hijab that dangles to cover the chest, after which plus a long veil. The embroidered accents on the underside of the sleeves and the underside of the shirt make Wirda look sweet. Simple, elegant, and charming. The dress that Wirda wears also does not form curves, so it tends to be wide but still simple. Up to the makeup and hijab was simple not excessive. With the added veil makes Wirda impressed graceful. Meanwhile, Kak Rafa wore Belanga Bay Shirt which consists of pants, clothes and side cloth and head cover.Where on the neck has a collar and button cover. The buttons usually amount to 5 pieces because it symbolizes the pillars of Islam.

And on the arm is made a long size rather cover the wrist so that it looks more polite and suitable for use a bride like Kak Rafa wear now. For the side cloth using a typical Malay songket cloth mounted on the thigh to the knee limit, which folded sirih front with the upper right side Then, then,for the head of Kak Rafa using skullcap or songkok.

This will make the appearance of Kak Rafa and Wirda look more harmonious and attractive even though simple.

With the concept of Islamic wedding decoration.The place was decorated with a reflection of the religious concept with the theme of rustic wedding.As per the name rustic, or rural. Rustic wedding puts forward a simple side, fused with nature but does not eliminate the elegant side and luxury in it, in accordance with the wishes of Kak Rafa and Wirda is not excessive, simple but still there is a sacred element.

It seems that the decoration on the coating is dominant with wood elements, brown or golden color, then sweetened with a touch of natural elements such as reeds, various kinds of flowers, even synthetic tree roots.

The gebyok as a backdrop or background pelaminan selected with a symbol or symbol of Muslim places of worship, namely mosques. Gebyok decoration that has been combined with several green plants, so that it gives a cool effect inborn and inner when looking at it.Where the effect of cold outwardly can be seen from a variety of green plants that adorn gebyok, and, and the cool effect inwardly can be seen from gebyok itself which is a symbol of a place to worship in achieving peace of mind. In addition, there is also a combination with a variety of colorful flowers. The flowers chosen in rustic decoration are also different from the flowers used in other wedding themes. Usually, the rustic theme uses such as flowers that are white, yellow, red, and pink so on, namely wild flowers, such as wild rose, hortensia, and others. But in the rustic decorations at the wedding of Rafa and Wirda, I can also see gardenia flowers, marigolds, roses, and Peonies that are also combined for decoration.

The selection of the colorful flowers can also be a separate wisdom for the life of Kak Rafa and Wirda, because in wading through the ocean this life will be full of color. Then, seen at the table under the pelaminan there are many Islamic accessories used as souvenirs or mementos for invited guests who have attended the wedding of Kak Rafa and Wirda. As the eye cendra, Rafa and Wirda chose key chains with various words of wisdom, the writings of Allah, the Apostle and Asmaul husna in Arabic. In addition, there are also prayer beads that become a medium for remembrance to the Khalik when finished praying which also became an eye cendra. And to add to the impression of warm and sparkling, added small lights lined up lit and hanging lanterns in several corners of the venue and also a row of beautiful light bulbs with yellow bulbs, so that really beautify the wedding of Rafa and Wirda, who look increasingly romantic.

Then, the chair for guests who are brown into a very attention-grabbing detail, by pinning lace or a contrast-colored ribbon knot behind the chair only, by pinning lace or ribbon knot, so with natural colors this will give the impression of warm and calm.

There is also a place to place a variety of flower arrangements, with a variety of vases and wildflowers deliberately placed on the stairs, thus adding a natural and simple impression, but still beautiful, located adjacent to the wooden photo booth with added colorful lights, romantic quotes, and beautiful white flower ornaments. It makes the atmosphere more romantic.

Near the pelaminan Kak Rafa and Wirda side by side, not far from them there is a small wooden long table, on which there is a crumb coat cake that has an unfinished appearance such as unfinished coated with icing. But it looks charming, with the addition of fresh flowers or fruit on it.

From a distance where I stood, Wirda smiled happily while holding onto Kak Rafa's arm and holding a bouquet of fragrant dried lavender flowers, while undergoing the shooting process by the photographer.

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Entering a friendly event. Alternately invited guests are present and limited in number, so not too much to congratulate and greet Kak Rafa and Wirda who are in the guarantee. Well, the wedding of Rafa and Wirda is limited and closed. Because it is only attended by the closest people, close friends who are very close only and only nuclear family. The atmosphere is warmer and more intimate. Even as a place to introduce the family of each family Kak Rafa and also the Wirda family.

Seusia gave a greeting and shook hands with Rafa and Wirda, the invited guests who attended, then directed to enjoy all the dishes that have been served on the dessert bar table by applying unfinished wood. Wooden dishes, signage, and dining equipment are also rustic-themed so that makes the dessert bar look very interesting unique.

While enjoying the dish, then the guests will be presented by entertainment or music that has been prepared.

And before leaving the reception, all invited guests are welcome to take photos together with the bride and groom, Kak Rafa and Wirda.

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I pulled over a little from the crowd, deliberately doing so to let Wirda and Kak Rafa unite with the invited guests and their families. My view is directed at the flower decoration found in the photobooth, a beautiful flower with a variety of beautiful colors, namely purple, white, orange, bright red and many more.

I walked closer while holding the flower. I've never seen this flower before, my inner self in my heart.

Out of curiosity, I drew my nose closer to the flower, and want to know whether the flower that looks beautiful is fragrant or not.After I observed it turns out this flower has a distinctive fragrance is not owned like other flowers.

When I was alone looking at the beauty of the flower, it sounded someone greeting me who indirectly surprised me a little. I immediately turned and returned his greetings, which was none other than Ustad Fariz.

She smiled at me with her eyes not fully looking at me. I smiled a little while looking at her. By wearing a Malay dress that has a batik shirt with long sleeves, Ustad Fariz looks more charming when making it.

"What are you doing here alone Ran, kissing the Garbera flower?, "asked Ustad Fariz.

I wrinkled my forehead.

" Did Ustad Fariz, have long noticed what Rani is doing?, "me turn back.

"Hmm, not really. I saw you from a distance, then out of curiosity I came to you Ran, to make sure you were okay, " said Ustad Fariz with a smile.

"Alhamdulillah, I'm fine Ustad. Why Ustad is there something strange about my actions?, "many more.

Ustad Fariz squinted his eyes slightly. "It's not strange, but it's not uncommon for me to see someone present at a wedding instead aloof and smell a flower."

I felt a little embarrassed, seeing Ustad Fariz smiling little at me.

"Rani, just curious about this Ustad flower. Somehow this flower attracts Rani here, because Rani has never seen this flower before. Oh yes Ustad Fariz, if you may know what the name of this flower was."

I asked while holding the flower.

"The name is garbera, " answered Ustad Fariz.

"Oh, garbera, "my word repeats the name of the flower.

" You know Dek Rani, the garbera flower has the meaning of love as a form of true love. If we give to someone, for showing seriousness of a very serious affectionate relationship."

I listened and watched what Ustad Fariz said and did.

"Gerbera colors also mean something and have a deep meaning. Flowers consisting of ray florets, a large lump that becomes a tree of two layers of the crown has a variety of colors, including yellow, orange, pink, and purple.

Colorful blend of flowers can be a symbol of cheerfulness and be the right gift to share happiness with loved ones.Oh yes Ran, it is a beautiful gift, garbera flowers are also very suitable to be planted in a pot and placed in the bedroom, you know, because this flower produces more oxygen than other types of flowers."

I looked towards Ustad Fariz with an expression of disbelief. How could she know so much about flowers, my inner being in the heart.

Ustad Fariz looked at me for a glimpse, then picked up a white garbera.

"Why Ran, why are you quiet?. "

"Akh, not Ustad. Rani was just wondering how Ustad Fariz could know about this flower. Moreover, sorry Ustad Fariz is a man who is generally a man that is rarely and never even Rani met who knows in detail about flowers. "

Ustad Fariz smiled again.

"Yes I understand Ran, you must be wondering about it. However, from where can I know and know this flower all from Ummah. Do you not see in all areas of the garden or in the house. Everything is on average dominated by various flowers of various types and also other ornamental plants. From childhood I have been accustomed to helping Ummah buy, care for and care for Ummah's flowers. So I know a lot about the type, and philosophical of the flower itself because Ummah always describes it for me, " explains Ustad Fariz.

I nodded my head, "Oh, it's appropriate that Ustad is no stranger, "I said.

Then Ustad Fariz showed each of the meanings of the garbera type to me. And I was more and more amazed at the unique other side of Ustad Fariz.

"This white Gerbera Ran, symbolizes the purity and sincerity of love."

Then, Ustad Fariz picked up an orange garbera.

"The orange garbera flower represents a new beginning to life, such as the new beginning of the life of Dek Rafa and Dek Wirda who have officially married and become a couple to start a married life. "

Then, Ustad Fariz took yellow and pink garbera flowers, as the others Ustad Fariz explained the meaning of the flower.

"Then the yellow gerbera has the meaning of cheerfulness and joy. While the pink garbera flower is a symbol of warm welcome and is commonly used when there is a baby birth."

"It turns out garbera flowers have such a deep meaning yes Ustad, "my mouth.

"Yes Ran, garberaarbera flower is interpreted as a love that has long been bound so that the use of this flower can be expected to be a hope of a new partner so that his marriage is surrounded by love and comfort."

For a while I and Ustad Fariz smiled, and chekrek....

Suddenly the photographer took a picture of us both. Me and Ustad Fariz were surprised, but there was a laugh of Bik Siti who looked happy. I'm deep in my heart, this must be the plan and wits of Bik Siti.

Me and Ustad Fariz shook their heads.

Then quickly Bi Siti walked forward and stood between me and Ustad Fariz, then embraced us both and asked the photographer to immediately capture our moment. Me and Ustad Fariz could not resist seeing the happiness reflected by Bik Siti's face, and with a big smile. The three of us look happy in the camera angle of the photographer.

Bik Siti then invited me and Ustad Fariz to take a picture with Kak Rafa and Wirda on the lap.

While walking slowly towards the pelaminan where Kak Rafa and Wirda are together.

Suddenly Ustad Fariz surprised me by giving me a bouquet of white garbera flowers that he took in a vase near the photobooth.

"Receive Ran, "smart Ustad Fariz seriously.

I looked silently at the flower of Ustad Fariz.

Bik Siti who saw also immediately told me to accept it.

In my mind all this is just a guyonan, so because of the insistence of Bik Siti I also took a bouquet of white garbera flowers from Ustad Fariz.

And Cekrekk....

Due to Bik Siti's request, the photographer took a picture of me receiving a bouquet of flowers from Ustad Fariz.

"Hmmm, Bik Siti, " I said as I glanced at Bik Siti.

Bik Siti laughed happily, while Ustad Fariz kept quiet with his serious-looking vows.