MY HEART DOCTOR
Reno and Arindita
Day H has arrived from last night Mimi and the group have been staying at a hotel that has been boking by the Reno family.
Today there will be a reception at this hotel. Early in the morning Mimi, Muthia, Irma and Selfia have been in make over. Irma and Selfia stayed at this hotel.
At 10 noon, the event was only attended by relatives and the closest people.
Silence solemn and full of haru when Reno began to say kabul ijab.
With just one speech and one breath Reno has become a husband after the sound of the legitimate speech of the witnesses.
Kabul's Ijab has been carried out, Mimi and the others accompany Arindita to get out of her room.
Arindita who has a proportional body in a white kebaya wrap which is combined with a red songket cloth. Elegant simple white kebaya with sprinkling swarovski and wearing a traditional Sundanese headdress, the crown singer.
Arindita of Sundanese Javanese descent, the grandmother asked her to wear Sundanese customs because Dita was the first grandchild in her family.
After the two bride and groom sungkeman to both parents, then the next session is to take pictures with relatives and their close friends.
After the photo session, relatives and close friends began to eat the dishes that had been provided.
The look of happiness on Reno and Arindita's face. The relationship that has long been established since they sat in white ash until they graduated from his lecture and now has been united in a bond of love that God willing Samapi Jannahnya Allah SWT.
"Congratulations, may you be a sadinah family mawadah warahmah" said Mimi !congratulate the newlyweds.
"Thank you Mi, when are you the same Dillah?" ryan answered and asked back.
"Just pray, brother." replied Mimi with a smile.
All of Reno and Mimi's best friends congratulate Reno and his partner.
The evening of the reception was also in the title, so many invitations were present from Reno's friends and coworkers as well as relations from his parents.
The door opened wide as the bride and groom entered the room behind the Bridesmaids and followed every step of the bride and groom sending the two brides up to the top of the coat.
The two brides have sat upon his throne, tonight they meet like kings and queens a day.
At this reception they both wore traditional Javanese Keraton and international clothes.
While the event began, from reading the holy verse lqurna and an ustadz giving marriage advice to the bride and groom.
although the invited guests were not all Muslim but they also heard what the ustadz said. Because what is delivered is also a good thing for every person who sails the ark of the household.
"Marriage is a lifelong worship that must be lived by a married couple. They will experience the joys and sorrows together in sailing the household ark. Therefore there are five pieces of advice that we should really meditate on and practice together." said the ustadz KH, Mustafa B's.
KH Mustafa B also gave five marriage advice to Reno and Dita.

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MUSLIM DAILY
Five Wedding Advice from Gus Mus for New Brides

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Annisa Nurul Hasanah's
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August 24th, 2020

Prayer for the New Bride
BincangMuslimah.Com – Marriage is a lifelong worship that must be lived by a married couple. They will experience joy and sorrow together in sailing the household ark. Here are five marriage advisories from KH. Mustafa Bisri or commonly known as Gus Mus is very worthy of our reflection and practice together.
First: Intention. The first thing to consider for newly married couples. If the intention is well laid out, then God willing the journey of life will be well lived. Marriage intentions for worship and following sunnah kanjeng Rasul shallahu ‘alaihi wasallam. Intention to be durable and do good not only to the couple, but to anyone.
Second: Be human. It means your partner is not an angel, let alone a demon. The angel is never wrong. The devil is never right. But humans can be right and wrong. Humans can remember and forget. So, because it views its partner as a human, then we can understand if there is khilaf and forgetfulness.
Third: Must understand the proposition of each as a husband or wife. Don't flip. According to Gus Mus one of the postulates of a wife to her husband is ayat Ar-Rijaalu qawwaamuuna ‘alan nisaa’ (Male (husband) is protective for women (wife) (Q.S. An-Nisa’/34). While the proposition that must be held by the husband in order to always respect his wife, among them is Maa akraman nisaa’ illal kariim wa maa ahaanahunna illal laiim. The one who glorifies women is only a noble person, while the one who despises women is the one who insults women. Same with insulting God's wrestling swt.
Fourth: So that you can consistently do good with your partner, pray, fight, teach, and all kinds, then do not overdo it in all things. A man who loves to be excessive in all things, then surely he cannot do justice. Even since thinking. He cannot be Istiqamah, because the conditions of justice and istiqamah are not excessive in all things.
Fifth: When there is any difficulty, no matter how small, and no matter how big, ask God's mistress ta’ala. No matter what your ability and your greatness, never forget Allah." said KH Mustafa B.
"And for Reno if there will be problems in the household should solve with a cold heart and head, if you are still in an emotional state it is better for you to ablaze.
"And if you go out of the house to ask permission or say goodbye to your wife's pepper, if you're late to go home then tell her too."
"If you eat outside, remember your wife at home, don't let her cooking not touch. Honor him who has taken the trouble to make time to cook for you."
"Don't you ignore your wife's cooking when you come home and she's waiting for you to eat together and it turns out you've been eating out with your friends."
"If you see your wife's cooking is not as good as what you eat at the restaurant, at least eat her hard-earned food" said the ustadz.
Ustadz KH Mustafa also gives some wedding words for the bride and groom, including:
"Marriage is a process of accepting the shortcomings of a partner you did not meet when ta'aruf with him."
"Marriage is a young man's best solution because with him it completes half the religion and the journey of life."
"Truly marriage requires a long and long struggle, but it feels beautiful."
"The man who wastes his wife and children is the bad man of his life."
"The woman of Salihah is the one who keeps herself when her husband is not there because God has kept her."
"There is no beautiful courage in a man, except the courage to ask a woman."
"Home with religion, science, and the nature of mutual trust as its pillars. Stay away from jealousy and mutual suspicion because it will be a termite for even a solid building."
"A husband can be a door of heaven for his wife just as he can be a door of hell for his wife."
"There is no beautiful communication except communication and greeting each other between husband and wife."
"A woman can turn a household into heaven as she can turn it into an unimaginable hell."
"Marriage is half the journey of piety to Allah and part of the sunnah of the Prophet."
"The wife is your rib, she is not the woman you can tell. Treat her with tenderness, and she will be softer than you."
"There is no loveliest promise heard by women from the oral male, except the promise of a marriage contract."
"To demand this and that to your husband will not suffice your needs. Just be grateful for the husband's gift, then your needs will be fulfilled."
"Marriage is the longest and longest worship because by marrying you will complete half the journey of religion and your life."
"Trust Allah if you are a woman of faith, then welcome your husband with a smile when you are a devout wife."
"There is no way to unite two people who are in love unless they are married."
"Behold, without you knowing it, a wife always puts her husband first in everything. One of them in terms of eating."
"Don't demand this and that to your husband. Be a patient wife who is always by her side under any circumstances."
"Marriage is the longest worship in the journey of one's life. Do not waste the husband or wife whom God has entrusted to you."
"Be kind to your wife and never get tired of advising her with tenderness because she is made of crooked ribs."
"A husband is like a house. If you obey him, he will protect and provide for your needs. But if you betray him, he will turn away from you."
"There is no relationship between a man and a woman except that of marriage."
"Take an example from Khadijah of the value of his loyalty, from Aisha the value of his honesty, from Asiah the value of his patience, from Maryam the value of his fortitude, and from Fatima the value of his steadfastness."
"Have a wife's secret, then she will keep all your secrets. And keep the husband's secret, and he will glorify you."
"Building a household is like a small boat that must be rowed together. If the boat is rowed only by one of the husband and wife, then the boat will not be able to dock to the island of happiness."
"Your husband is the leader of your family, he is not a robot that you can demand this and that. Take care of his feelings from your words, and he will meet all your needs."
"The first obedience of a wife after her obedience to Allah, then the Apostle, is obedience to her husband."
After the advice and words of pearl were given to the bride and groom ustadz kh mistafa B also ended a piece of marriage lecture for the two brides, then mc delivered the next sessions.
Music resonates singing tones from pop, Malay pop to dangdut.
Dillah never let go of Mimi alone, where she was Mimi had to follow her.
Dillah is very worried and can even be said to be traumatized, Dillah does not want anything to happen to Mimi.
"Sir, you do not accept drinks from anyone other than me or Tia and your two best friends" said Dillah.
"Yes kang" replied Mimi.
To be honest, Mimi still has fear, when she is trapped, it always goes around in her mind. Mimi was always on the lookout even though she did not want to eat or drink food or drink from the hands of others.
Mimi seemed to be afraid if the food and drink had been mixed with drugs.
While Mimi was eating cakes and fruits, it was heard from the stage saying the name of Dillah and herself by mc to give a song offering for the bride and groom.
Dillah approached Mimi and extended her hand to Mimi, Mimi received the helping hand and they both walked to the stage with a spotlight.
Dillah merequest on the music player with the song angel love. So Dillah and Mimi chanted each note with their whole hearted appreciation.
Thanking God
'I have been found
A kind-hearted lover like you
Whatever you are
Kurela and accept
My whole body soul to you
Until the day comes to pick me up
'I always love you
Loving you
You are my rib
Until in His heaven God
I want to be with you
And become an angel of your love
Whatever you are
Kurela and accept
My whole body soul to you
Until the day comes to pick me up
'I always love you
Loving you
You are my rib
Until in His heaven God
I want to be with you
And become an angel of your love
Until the day comes to pick me up
'I always love you
Loving you
You are my rib
Until in His heaven God
I want to be with you
And become an angel of your love
And become the angel of my love
And become an angel of your love
When the song is finished, a loud applause echoes in this room. The mc asked Dillah and Mimi to sing a song back.
Dillah asked for Mimi's approval, Mimi lun nodded and smiled.
The second song Dillah asks the musician with the title of all love. Musicians also began to play with their skills. Every note sounded shahdu. Dillah also began to sing each of the lyrics and then Mimi also sang the lyrics with appreciation.
Look at your departure
Wailing, crying, unhappiness
Shown when together, pass the most beautiful time
When you hug me, speak love
You are the whole love for me
Which always pacified my feelings
You will always be by my side forever
You are like the breath in my body
Who can turn on all my movements
I will always adore you
Until we're together
I can't think of her anymore
Half my life is your cry
No more beautiful temples
Sounded melodious spoken
Seduce flattering me, calm the soul
You are the whole love for me
Which always pacified my feelings
You will always be by my side forever
You are like the breath in my body
Who can turn on all my movements
I will always adore you
Until we're together
There is no love as sincere as your love (your love)
No one can replace you
No feeling as beautiful as your love
Nobody can accompany me, ho-oh
You are the whole love for me
Which always pacifies my feelings
You will always be by my side forever
You are like the breath in my body
Who can turn on all my movements
I will always adore you
Until we're together
You are like the breath in my body
Who can turn on all my movements
I will always adore you
Until we're together
I will always adore you
Until we're together
For some reason when Mimi sang this song her heart was pierced with pain, wound but not bleeding. A longing for!Bali was in his heart.
Mimi did not know why Dillah chose this song, bahunmimi lagunini reminded herself of Shahril, while Dillah she felt how early she liked a girl only with a look and smile without knowing who the girl was.
After the event was over, they did not go directly into their rooms but they were sitting in the rooftop located on top of this hotel building.
They enjoy the night breeze and the view of the city of Semarang at night with altitude.
As the wind blew, Dillah opened her coat and put it on Mimi.
"Thank you" said Mimi.
Mimi sat down together, with Dillah and looked up at the star-studded sky.
In the bridal room Reno and sita also do not feel sleepy, somehow their fatigue disappeared instantly even drowsiness no longer they feel.
Finally they both followed lara best friend in the rooftop.
tbc
