MY HEART DOCTOR

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Bryan left question after question in the hearts of friends. The consequences of his jealousy to the friend make himself dominated by anger.

Well Bryan was angry at Dillah, according to Bryan Dillah, Dillah never said that Dillah would never fall in love with another girl before he found the girl who had stolen his heart.

But the current reality, Dillah did not know his feelings. His heart led him to draw closer to Mimi. On the one hand, Dillah still wants to fight for the heart of the girl he met for a moment but on the one hand his heart wants him to bring himself closer to Mimi.

"Dil, what did Bryan really say?" reno asked when Bryan had left this room

The four of them sat together inside this room, which they usually used to!discuss about the course or even about campus activities or also about the bimbel module.

But this time they discussed the problem of two human children who have a heart for one girl who is new to know.

"Dil." call Satria, Dillah just stared at his friends one by one.

"What's Bryan really doing?" ask Yogi.

"Yes." replied Dillah.

"Yes?" said the three of them (Reno, Satria and Yogi)

"Yes this morning I went with Mimi, rather I drove her to the traditional market" said Dillah. The friends are still silent to hear the continuation.

Dillah looked at the face of her best friend and she understood that the companions wanted her to explain further.

Dillah also told her everything she did this morning with Mimi to her best friend.

"So you like Mimi?" ask Reno.

"That's Ren, I don't know" said Dillah.

"Keep what about that Sumatran chick?'' ask Yogi.

"I don't know Gi either." said Dillah in frustration.

"Why not know Dil!!" satria.

"Yes, I know myself too. I still want to keep seeing that Sumatran girl but why is my heart leading me to Mimi" she said.

"I don't know if Bryan meant what he said the other day" Dillah said.

"Well, we don't know where to go when our hearts like someone that's normal" said Yogi.

They continue to discuss and find solutions to calm Bryan's heart which is dominated by anger and rage. For the time being they agreed to allow Bryan himself to calm himself down and to allow Bryan to think maturely.

Arriving at Bryan's apartment Bryan let out all his anger, all his annoyance !piled up on his chest. He's la!piaskan all her to the items in her apartment so that the apartment is snaking into a broken boat apartment.

"Achhhh whyaaa. Why must you be the Dil who must be !liked him too. Prang." Bryan !take out all her junk and slam a vase of flowers on her guest table.

"Why did I become like this anyway, why when I want to change the person I like is also liked by my own best friend." Frustrated with him, Bryan sat under his couch and pulled his hair and rubbed his face.

Bryan has never really liked women since he was in the living by his girlfriend while in the house!a first. Yes Bryan was left cheating by his lover and since then he just wanted to play around with every girl.

Bryan is a sincere person when he likes someone but he will be very heartbroken if someone he likes betrays him. And now he is heartbroken to Mimi not because he was betrayed by Mimi but he feels betrayed by his own best friend.

Frustrated Bryan opens a closet at his mini bar, where he picks up an alcoholic drink!a takmlernah in that gulp.

Bryan gulped it back, like a thirsty man bryan memknumnya until a bottle of the drink was exhausted.

Bryan vented his frustration at the alcoholic drink until it ran out of three bottles.

"I like you Mimi.. I promise I'll change if I can have you." Bryan messed up.

We are encouraged to as much as possible resist anger when ridiculed or received treatment that is not wearing. Instead, we are also commanded to forgive those who have made mistakes.

And we recommend as much as possible to hold back anger in addition to making the soul more calm, also has many priorities in the side of Allah SWT.  

In the Qur'an, Allah SWT says:

الَّذِينَ يُنْفِقُونَ فِي السَّرَّاءِ وَالضَّرَّاءِ وَالْكاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ الْمُحْسِنِينَ

Meaning: And hasten to forgiveness from your Lord and to a heaven as wide as the heavens and the earth prepared for the pious, (i.e.,) those who forgive (his reward), both in the field and narrow, and those who hold their anger and forgive (error) people. (QS. Ali Imran: 134)

Ibn Kathir explained the meaning of the verse that when they experience emotions, they hold them (i.e., hold them and do not remove them); in addition they forgive those who do evil to them.

Mentioned in part asar which says:

«يَقُولُ اللَّهُ تعالى: يا ابْنَ آدَمَ اذْكُرْنِي إِذَا غَضِبْتَ، أَذْكُرُكَ إِذَا غَضِبْتُ فَلَا أُهْلِكُكَ فِيمَنْ أُهْلِكُ»

Allah says, "O son of Adam, remember Me if you are angry, I will remember you when I am angry with you. Therefore, I will not destroy you with those whom I have destroyed. This is according to Ibn Abu Hatim.

There are 8 Hadith Prohibition of Anger and its Mainstay:

God Holding Torture

 عَنْ أَبِي عَمْرِو بْنِ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ "مَنْ كَفَّ غَضَبَهُ كَفَّ اللهُ عَنْهُ عَذَابَهُ، وَمَنْ خزَنَ لِسَانَهُ سَتَرَ اللهُ عَوْرَتَهُ، وَمَنِ اعْتَذَرَ إلَى اللهِ قَبِلَ عُذْرَهُ"

From Abu Amr ibn Anas ibn Malik, from his father who said that the Prophet Muhammad said: Whoever restrains his anger, Allah restrains His punishment against him. And whosoever restrains his tongue, Allah covers his law. And whoever apologizes to Allah, Allah accepts his apology.

The Strong Man

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم، قال: "لَيْسَ الشَّدِيدُ بِالصُّرُعة، وَلَكِنَّ الشَّدِيدَ الَّذِي يَمْلِكُ نَفْسَهُ عِنْدَ الْغَضَبِ".

From Abu Hurairah r.a., from the Prophet, who said: The strong man is not because of a wrestler, but a strong man is one who can hold himself back when he is angry.

Advice from the Prophet

جَارية بْنُ قُدامة السَّعْدِيُّ؛ أَنَّهُ سَأَلَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، قُلْ لِي قَوْلًا يَنْفَعُنِي وأقْلِل عَلَيَّ، لَعَلِّي أَعِيهِ. فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "لَا تَغْضَبْ". فَأَعَادَ عَلَيْهِ حَتَّى أَعَادَ عَلَيْهِ مِرَارًا، كُلُّ ذَلِكَ يَقُولُ: "لَا تَغْضَبْ".

The All Evil Society

عَنْ حُمَيد بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: قَالَ رَجُلٌ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، أَوْصِنِي. قَالَ: "لَا تَغْضَبْ". قَالَ الرَّجُلُ: فَفَكَّرْتُ حِينَ قَالَ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَا قَالَ، فَإِذَا الْغَضَبُ يَجْمَعُ الشَّرَّ كُلَّهُ.

From Humaid ibn Abdur Rahman, from a man from among the companions of the Prophet, who recounted: A man asked, "O Messenger of Allah, do me good." The Prophet replied, "You must not be angry." The man continued his story, "Then after I contemplated what the Prophet had said, I concluded that the anger gathered up all evil deeds."

Deeds of Satan

، عَنْ جَدِّي عَطِيَّةَ -هُوَ ابْنُ سَعْدٍ السَّعْدِيُّ، وَقَدْ كَانَتْ لَهُ صُحْبَةٌ-قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وسلم: "إنَّ الْغَضَبُ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ، وإنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ خُلِقَ مِنَ النَّارِ وإنَّمَا تُطْفَأُ النَّارُ بِالماءِ، فَإذَا أُغْضِبَ أحَدُكُمْ فَلْيَتَوضَّأْ".

It has been told to me my father before my grandfather (i.e., Atiyyah ibn Sa'd As-Sa'di) who was predicated as a friend, that the Prophet Muhammad once said: 'Truly anger is an act of Satan, and the devil was created from fire, and indeed it can only be extinguished with water. Therefore, if any of you is angry, let him be a fool'."

Fulfilled Faith

عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ أَبْنَاءِ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عليه وسلم: "مَنْ كَظَمَ غَيْظًا وَهُوَ قَادِرٌ عَلَى أنْ يُنْفِذَه مَلأهُ اللهُ أَمْنًا وَإيمانًا

Imam Abu Daud said, having told us Uqbah ibn Makram, had told us Abdur Rahman (i.e., Ibn Mahdi), from Bishr (i.e., Ibn Mansur), from Muhammad ibn Ajlan, from Bishr, from Suwaid ibn Wahb, from a son of a friend of the Prophet, from his father who said that the Prophet Muhammad said: Whoever withholds anger, while he is able to bring it out, he is able to, then Allah fills his sockets with security and faith. 

Get Angel

قَالَ الْإِمَامُ أَحْمَدُ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ يَزيد، حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو مَرْحُوم، عَنْ سَهْل بْنِ مُعَاذ بْنِ أَنَسٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ؛ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: "مَنْ كَظَمَ غَيْظًا وَهُوَ قَادِرٌ عَلَى أَنْ يُنْفِذَه، دَعَاهُ اللهُ عَلَى رُؤُوسِ الْخَلائِقِ، حَتَّى يُخيرَهُ مِنْ أيِّ الْحُورِ شَاءَ".

Imam Ahma'd said, having told us Abdullah ibn Yazid, having told us Sa'id, had told me Abu Marhum, from Sahl ibn Mu'az ibn Anas, from his father, that the Prophet Muhammad. he said: Whoever holds back his anger, while he is able to carry it out, Allah will call him in the eyes of all creatures, until Allah tells him to choose which angel he likes. The Hadith is narrated by Imam Abu Daud, Imam Turmuzi, and Imam Ibn Majah.

Can Ridho Allah

عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "مَا تَجَرَّعَ عَبْدٌ مِنْ جُرْعَةٍ أَفْضَلَ أَجْرًا مِنْ جُرْعَةِ غَيْظٍ كَظَمَهَا ابْتِغَاءَ وَجْهِ اللَّهِ".

From Ibn Umar r.a. who tells that the Prophet Muhammad once said: There is not a band swallowed by a servant with a greater reward than the band of anger that is swallowed by him for the hope of Allah's Ride. 

Recipes for Overwhelming

The Prophet gave the recipe to His people if they are angry. Try to sit down when you are angry. If that doesn't work, lie down.

يَا أَبَا ذَرٍّ، لِمَ جَلَسْتَ ثُمَّ اضْطَجَعْتَ؟ فَقَالَ: إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وسلم قال لَنَا: "إذَا غَضِبَ أَحَدُكُمْ وَهُوَ قَائِمٌ فَلْيَجْلِسْ، فَإِنْ ذَهَبَ عَنْهُ الْغَضَبُ وَإِلا فَلْيَضْطَجِعْ".

At first Abu Zar stood up, sat down, and lay down. When he asked him, "O Abu Zar, why are you sitting down and lying down?" So Abu Zar replied, "The Prophet said to us (friends): If anyone of you is angry, while he is standing, let him sit down until his anger is gone. When his anger is not yet gone, let him lie down."

Bryan who was still controlled by anger and jealousy continued to gulp the alcoholic drink until he was unconscious.

Dillah and the others finally returned to their respective homes because there was no more discussion. There was a bad taste in Dillah's heart against Bryan, but she didn't know what to do either. Because he also felt he didn't want to even be able to distance himself from Mimi.

Dillah got into her car towards her apartment feeling erratic. His head was dizzy with this problem that had just happened.

"Yes, what should I do" he said alone.

"Do the account have to stay away from Mimi." he said again.

"Ah no, I do not want to stay away or take it off just like that" said Dillah again.

Dillah as if at war with himself so that he arrived at his apartment, Dillah went straight into his apartment building with slow steps but still looks his authority.

When she got to her apartment, Dillah went straight to her room, one by one the buttons of his shirt and the dirty shirt put in a special basket for dirty clothes in his room.

Opening his jeans and throwing them into a dirty basket, Dillah went into the bathroom wearing a boxer.

Dillah turn on the tap and fill the warm water into the bathup after it feels enough he put the therapeutic aroma liquid into it and after that he also soaked into it to relax the body that feels very tired and the mind is very tired tired.

Dillah soaked while relaxing the muscles of his body, Dillah enjoyed his soaking while closing his eyes, but suddenly flashed a smile, well a smile that came many times in his dreams.

A smile that always made him wonder who the owner was, Dillah opened his eyes and sat down while rubbing his face.

"Who are you!! why are you always in my dreams!! and why just smile." he murmured.

"That smile, that smile.." Dillah tried to remember it because she felt she had seen it before.

"Whoever we are, we may meet. But... My heart is only for him." he said softly.

Dillah still keeps her heart for the girl she meets for a moment, although many girls are beautiful and sexy but she is not interested. Somehow he also saw Mimi became interested and made her own craze. He always wanted to be close to Mimi.

Long Dillah soaking his stomach was hungry and finally he ended his vengeful activities. Dillah came out of the bathtub and she immediately rinsed under the shower.

After bathing and dressing Dillah casually, Dillah heads to her kitchen to cook but instantly the action stops because of !saw that there was no food stock in his apartment.

"Huh, forget that the stock of materials has run out." He muttered while !shut the refrigerator door.

Dillah returned to his room and took his wallet, after which Dillah immediately went out to the nearest market to buy groceries.

When he got to his car, Dillah opened the door and got into it. When going to put the key into the hole the car key fell and when going to take the key Dillah was silent to see something under the passenger seat beside him..

We hang yahh...

What did Dillah find under the chair?? Next on the next.

---TBC------