MY HEART DOCTOR

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Mimi returned to boarding almost midnight, her three best friends had fallen asleep. Although now his heart became distraught and worried about the request of Ummi Fatmah and Ummi Fatimah at least today he can be entertained by the vomelan Roofiq youngest child ummi Fatimah.

The family doesn't have to be blood, maybe that's what Mimi can say. They are the family of the lover but they also love Mimi as much as they love their own children and nephews.

A request that Mimi must reconsider, a request that !makes Mimi confused about what to answer. They know everything about Mimi.

"Poooh." Mimi continued to let out her breath when she thought of their request.

"Why Mi?" ask Irsyad next to Mimi who is focusing on driving.

"Hmmm" Mimi simply said deheman.

"Write not in the damper itself, later it can be tight in the chest" said Irsyad who has the right.

"What should be Syad?" ask Mimi.

"If it's best for everyone why not." replied Irsyad as if ambiguous.

Mimi felt that there was something they were hiding from her.

"Tap Syad." said Mimi directly reproached by Irsyad.

"Mi. you two love each other, understand each other even you two fill each other. Umma and Babah also like Mimi. This is all for your good." said Irsyad, Mimi just lowered her head to digest the word for word said by Irsyad, even those words were also spoken by Ummi Fatmah and Umm Fatimah earlier.

"Oh my God, what's wrong with all this? enslaved MU instructions." muttered Mimi inwardly.

"Well, come Mi." said Irsyad.

"Hmmm, shad's poor." replied Mimi.

"Yes together, think carefully, do not be rash to make a decision. Irsyad said goodbye, assalamualaikum." said Irsyad and he also said goodbye.

"Greetings" replied Mimi.

Mimi!open the fence and after locking it to!Bali Mimi walks towards her boarding with gontai.

Mimi saw the cost is dead lights in the living room sign that the occupants inside are asleep. Mimi saw the clock in her hand already showing at 10:30 p.m.

Before opening the handle, Mimi closed her eyes for a moment to reduce her fatigue. Slowly !this opens the door handle, with the lights dimly lit from the outside and from the room, Mimi goes into the room. He forgot to say his greetings slowly.

"Assalamualaikum" replied Mimi although no one answered because the three girls who were in her dorm had fallen asleep.

"Waalaikum greeting "Mimi answered herself with a smile.

Mimi locked her boarding door and she walked towards her room, Mimi opened the room door handle. It seems that the three friends have fallen asleep.

Mimi entered slowly approached her closet to pick up her nightgown and after that Mimi came out of her room not forgetting Mimi closed it back.

Mimi walks into the bathroom to wash her face and brush her teeth and change her clothes. After that he entered the room of brother Syahril and he returned the folding mattress.

Mimi slowly broke down the body that felt tired, not only her body was tired but for and her mind was also tired.

"O Allah, what shall I answer." murmured Mimi.

Mimi remembered!Bali will talk with Ummi Fatmah and Ummi Fatimah and their husbands earlier.

Flasback.

Mimi had reached the mansion of Ummi Fatmah, there was already Ummi Fatimah with her children and her husband.

"Assalamualaikum" said Mimi and Irsyad !e!aauki.

"Waalaikum salam." they answered simultaneously in the living room.

Mimk and Irsyad walked to the living room, there was already crowded by Roofiq and the two other children Umm Fatimah.

Roofiq who was new to walking was limped walking closer to Mimi.

"Tatak tatak." he called Mimi and simultaneously mocked Mimi.

"Eh there is Roofiq" said Mimi, capturing the little puffer.

Mimi showered a kiss on the kingpin Roofiq.

"Hahahaaa gelyi." Roofik laughs and lethargy.

Carrying Roofik Mimi approached the elders sitting on the sofa and greeted them by kissing the backs of their hands one by one.

"Have you been so long?" ask Umm Fatimah.

"Yes Ummi, sorry." Mimi replied with a smile.

"Ummi been here a long time?" ask Mimi again.

"Well from this afternoon." replied Umm Fatimah.

"Mimi, how are you?" ask Umm Fatimah.

"Thank God as Ummi saw" replied Mimi.

"Tell me what's up." asked Mimi to Ummi Fatimah's husband.

"Alhamdulillah good Mi." replied Abi her husband Umm Fatimah.

"Mimi ate, son?" ask Umm Fatma.

"Alhamdulillah already Mi, before here eat first Samma Irsyad.

"Ckk basic tuh son, Ummi was told he invited Mimi here to open up together. Mimi satisfied today?" ask Umm Fatmah.

"Alhamdulillah, yes ummi." replied Mimi.

"Was Ummi good at making Muso cakes?" mimi said as she looked at the table for a Muso cake.

"Yes Mi, Ummi MU is smart but there is less." said Abi Arsyad.

"What does bi mean?" ask Mimi.

"Snipp aja." replied Abi, Mimi looked at Ummi who pursed her lips because of the act of the husband who always protested from earlier.

"The name also learned Bi" Ummi said with a frown, Mimi smiled and picked up a Muso cake made by Ummi.

"Where's Mi?" abi asked when the cake had not yet entered his mouth.

"Hmm, Bi. Not yet entered the cake." replied Mimi and all laughed.

"Tell you this is Mi's habit" said Ummi. Mimi bit the Muso cake, there is nothing wrong with the shape Bahakan neater than Mimi, once a bite turns out the fault is in the brown and green dough on it.

"Where?" ask Abi

"Hehee, it's okay Mi. Long time Ummi can." Answer Mimi cengengesan.

"Hmmm huh.padahat Ummi had followed the recipe that Mimi gave." said Ummi.

"What Mi, tomorrow-tomorrow in many dikit coconut milk for the brown dough, well if the batter pandanya in liquidin dikit do not be too thick or dilute " replied Mimi and ummi nodded.

The children of Ummi Fatimah play in the playroom at the house of Ummi Fatmah with the art of Ummi Fatmah.

"Mi?" call Umm Fatimah who has been sitting next to Mimi.

"Yes Mi?" answer Mimi.

"What is your relationship with Shahril." asked Umm Fatimah.

"Alhamdulillah is good Ummi." replied Mimi, although in fact lately is not okay because Brother Syahril has no news.

"May I ask you something?" ask Umm Fatimah carefully.

"What Ummi?" answer Mimi.

"Gini Mi, as we go. Emm." Ummi Fatimah stopped her speech as if hesitant to express her heart.

"Mi, huh,?" call Abi Risyad Ummi Fatimah's husband.

"Yes bi." replied Mimi, Mimi already felt bitter with this family.

"Wouldn't you two just get married" Abi Risyad said to the point.

"I mean Abi?" ask Mimi.

"Yes Mi, should you two just get married." said Abi Arsyad.

Mimi is not getting !understanding them, knowing them suddenly suggested Mimi and Sisahril get married.

"Gini Mi, as we go. You guys have been in a long relationship, Mimi do not get me wrong" said Umm Fatimah when she saw Mimi did not accept if she was suspected of doing things that are forbidden by religion.

"The two of you have been in a relationship for a long time and we also see that you are very serious in your relationship. You should not just get married like Rendy and the others." said Umm Fatimah, Mimk still quietly listening to what they were talking about.

"Yes Mi, you two love each other, love each other even you fill each other and you two also complement each other." said Umm Fatimah.

"We want you to sacredize your relationship with the sacred bond." said Umm Fatimah.

"Yes Mi, Mimi would know in our religion is prohibited from dating, if you have complement each other what is wrong if you are !get married." said Abi Risyad.

"We do not forbid your relationship, but if it can be religiously validated you are free to step your feet" said Abi Arsyad.

"Mi, look at Andri, Rudi, Rendi and Arfan. They can really live their households and lectures" said Ummi Fatimah.

Mimk silently tried to digest their words.

"Oh God, what is this? have they begun to oppose our bhubjngan." murmured Mimk inwardly.

"Mi." call Ummi Fatmah who saw Mimi silent, Mimi looked towards Umm Fatmah.

"We just want your love to always be together without anyone bothering him anymore" said Ummi Fatmah.

"Tortuiting? what does it mean, God?" gu!am Mimi in his heart

"Yes Mi, think carefully huh? all for the good of you two for the sake of knitting your love all this time." said Umm Fatimah.

Mimi was silent, Mimi looked at them one by one from their faces expectantly.

"Ommy.. Abi.." said Mimi looking at two Ummi and two aebi.

"What's this really about?" mimi asked just like that.

They look flickering from their faces even though they are trying to be calm.

"Nothing, son? we only hope that you will soon be united in the sacred pledge. Not good for long" said Abi Arsyad.

"In religion alone we are prohibited from dating Mi, it would be nice if you love each other and fill each other, you immediately tie your love" said Abi Risyad. Mimi understood their meaning

"Because in Islam we never teach about courtship, because in reality two people of different types can not be spared both, seeing and touching occurs.

"This action is the same as approaching adultery, and it is clear that everything is illegal according to the law of Shari’at Islam" said Abi Risyad

"From Ibn Abbas. He said, I heard the Prophet preach, saying, "Never a man has a relationship with a woman unless there is a mahram, and not a woman does a traveler unless there is a mahram. ”(muttafaq alaihi).

The Prophet Muhammad directly gave signs to his people about the forbidden model of male and female relations.

In Surat al-Isra verse 32, "And do not be ye. Zina, indeed adultery is a wicked deed and a bad path."

This is very synchronous with the hadith of the Prophet SAW which seems to explain the model of action that can bring someone closer in adultery.

Dating in Islam should not be unless it is meant after the marriage contract. In Islam it is taught to have a humbungan or to the stage of marriage it is through ta’aruf.

In ta’aruf there is no coercion, if it is not suitable one of the parties may refuse.

But when both are suitable, it can be continued to the next stage, the male party proposes and ends in marriage.

In the case of dowry, according to Islam the best dowry is cheap and easy, not complicated or expensive.

Indeed, dowry is a woman's right, but Islam recommends that it be easier and prohibit demanding high dowry.

Related to dating, is dating Islamic?

Most likely there is no courtship that can be said to be Islamic, all courtship is definitely possible to get closer to things that are adulterous.

So, the term Islamic courtship is more because of justification alone than those who do it.

Zina is a very big sin and hated by ALLAH SWT. Zina is a problem that cannot be underestimated.

The sins of those who commit adultery are even equated with that of a murderer and an apostate.

So someone who is now dating and is falling into adultery, has actually unknowingly committed a very heinous and sinful act.

One of the causes of courtship became a culture, and occurred in Muslims is because Muslim women do not apply the teachings of Islam in dress and behavior.

One of the things that can prevent us from the temptation to do a courtship or relationship outside marriage is to get married immediately if it is felt to have been able.

Whoever delays in getting married fears that he will fall into adultery.

Islam is perfect, has built good relations with the opposite sex. This relationship is arranged in the holy shari'a of marriage.

Through marriage this will be felt the true love and different from dating whose love is only love.

From Ibn Abbas, the Prophet of Allah shallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

لَمْ نَرَ لِلْمُتَحَابَّيْنِ مِثْلَ النِّكَاحِ

“ We never see a solution for two people who love each other like marriage. ”(HR. Ibn Majah. 1920s. It is said to be shohih by Shaykh Al Albani)

If you are not able to get married, refrain from fasting. Rasulullah shallalahu 'alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

من استطاع الباءة فليتزوج, فإنه أغض للبصر وأحصن للفرج, ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم, فإنه له وجاء

“Whoever can marry, marry. Therefore more will subdue the views and more keep ********. Whoever has not been able to, then be content because fasting is like a castration. (CHR. Bukhari and Muslim).***" Abi Risyad explains about dating Mimi and Irysad and Mbak Aish.

Mimi kept her head down, Mimi knew in her religion she was not allowed to date, what else she and brother Syahril had long been in a relationship.

Although they do not forbid it as long as Mimi and Sjahril are still within reasonable limits that do not make their relationship to the wrong path or to the wrong path.

Mimi exhaled heavily, Mimi was at a loss for having to !answer what. On the one hand Mimi is happy for their family to accept Mimk as it is and Mimi also wants this relationship to be bound by a promise before Allah SWT.

On the one hand Mimi hesitates, if she consents to marry. What about his promise to his parents and his family, how he will show to those who have insulted his family.

Mimi Maaih was silent with thousands of thoughts in her brain, offsetting everything. Mimi does not want to misstep and Mimi also does not want to make a wrong decision.

"Istikharah is." said Abi Risyad who saw there was doubt in Mimi.

Mimi looked at them one by one, for some reason Mimi's tears just flowed. Maybe Mimi also feels tired in addition lately the nightmare is always haunting and lately also the usual heart idol me!make his heart strong now there is no news.

Ummi Fatmah and ummi Fatimah knew that if Mimi was worried, they both approached Mimi and wiped Mimi's tears.

"We all love Mimi, we all want you to be together" said Umm Fatimah.

"Think son, for the good of both of you." said Umm Fatmah.

"Yes we are sure you can live it, do not you consider that you married your ideals can not be achieved" said Abi Arsyad.

"Yes Mi, at least you married first your college problems, later you can arrange how well" said Abi Risyad.

Mimi's tears grew louder in her ummi second embrace.

"It is Istikharah, ask Allah for guidance on what answer Mimi should answer, we will all wait and receive whatever Mimi answers. Even if you still want to postpone it is your right, we do not insist but rethink our request for the good of both of you.

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"O Allah, come down my steps to the path of MU, give your servant a fist." said Mimi, seeing that the clock is 11 p.m.

"On Friday night, O Allah, lead the servant to take a correct answer, wake the servant up in the third night." said Mimk in prayer.

Mimi recites verse 2qul, verse of the chair and prayer before going to bed, Mimi does not want the nightmare to be present for tonight. After praying, he closed his eyes and hugged the bolster and clothes of the lover.

tbc