MY HEART DOCTOR
stay at sumbang house
After shopping for materials for Sewah at the house of Mimi and Sewah went home. Mimi pulls out the car to get home, as Mimi is unable to walk because her head hurts again.
"Because we're going home in a car?" mimi said by pointing at a pickup car.
"It's up to you to dok." replied the sewage and they went home together.
Arriving at the intersection out of the market area Mimi saw a restaurant and a pharmacy, Mimi stopped her car.
"Pak stop first." said Mimi, the driver also deposited his car.
"Where are you going ndok?" ask Sewah.
"Bentar Mbah." replied Mimi and immediately went down and passed to the Padang restaurant to buy 4 packs of complete rice and bebepa wrap side dishes for dinner.
While waiting for his order to be prepared, Mimi oergimke the pharmacy that was beside the restaurant to buy some medicine that she needed.
After all she got, Mimi went back to the car she had in her notebook.
"Do you buy rice from ndok?" ask Sewah.
"Yes Mbah let it be later if you don't bother cooking first hehee." replied Mimi.
"You haven't changed. Then Sumpah saw you to the pharmacy buy what?" ask Sambarah again.
"Mimi bought some Mbah medicine" Mimi replied with a smile attached to her pale lips.
"You sick?" ask Sumpah by putting the back of his hand on Mimi's forehead.
"Badan mu angel ndok." said Sewah, Mimi just smiled.
During the trip Mimi fell asleep because she could not bear the headache that attacked her again.
Two hours drive they finally arrived, Simbah woke up Mimk who was fast asleep.
"ndock, ndok. We have arrived." said Sewah by patting Mimi's shoulder.
"Hmmm we have arrived Mbah." Mimi's hand with a raucous voice and eyes narrowed.
"Come on down." replied Sewah, Mimi nodded and immediately went down.
Mimi saw the Sewah house that walled part of the board and bamboo. Mimi also saw around her planted coconut trees and there was also this garden, corn and chilies.
Mimi stretched out her hands and breathed in the fresh air from the village of Sewah.
"Come on, come in." invite Sewah, Mimi nodded.
"Bent on Mbah." said Mimi,
"What's wrong? rice for drivers has been Mbah kasih." said Sewah.
"Oh yes hehehe." replied Mimi with a cry.
"Jaudah let's go inside" said Sambarah and invited Mimi in with Mimi's hand.
"This is how the shack sewah" said Sewah when his house was open.
"Rapid and clean." murmured Mimi inwardly as she looked inside the clean and tidy Simbah house.
"Let's wash our hands and feet first back, after that we just eat." Invite Sewah, Mimi also said.
Mimi walked along Simbah towards the kitchen, the kitchen Simbah her fall position was next to the rear like most houses.
In the kitchen Simbah Mimi observed every corner of her neat and clean, there was amben, there was a table, there was a table, and there is a furnace of fire made of clay and in the form of mounds where there are two holes on top of it (the shadow itself is not known, yet, for the villagers must know this furnace ).
Wandering until opening the exit. Mimi continues to follow Sambarah. The place that Mimi guessed was a place to shower and other activities here.
There are wells and there are traditional water pomoa which if you take water must be in the genjot first out of the water, there is a barrel that Mimi believes bhat wudhu.
The place is also still open without any roof covering it.Eround it was only covered by mangkokan leaf plants that have been tight in the form of a high fence. In the corner of the little booth that Mimi believes it is wc.
Sewage ramped up the water pump and housed it in a large basin. When full, he told Mimi to wash her face and feet.
"Let's wash his hands and feet" Sewah said and told Mimi to wash his hands and feet.
"Yes Mbah." answered Mimi and washed her hands, face and feet.
Fresh water comes from direct springs, the cool that Mimi felt plus exposed to the breeze that hit make the book of Mimi crushes cold.
"Then if you want to shower do not immediately take a cold shower should use hot water bjae not cold. Your body's still anget." Said Simbah.
"Yes Mbah." replied Mimi.
"Let's go in, we eat first" said Sewah.
"Emm Mbah Mimi wants to pray first to eat, because it is legitimate to enter Dzuhur" said Mimi.
"Yes also ndok, yo wes we berwudhu dana pray aja first." replied sewah.
"Well if you want to wudhu here, if the water runs out kamjnisi aja take from inside this closed barrel and you put it into this ablution place" Sewah told Mimi.
"Yes Mbah." replied Mimi and Mimi immediately took the wudhunya.
"Not ablution?" mimi asked at the sewage because Mimk did not see Sewah taking ablution.
"Mban nanginqja berwudhunya, Sewah want all the hot baths" he said
"Let's go in Sewah tau kiblanya" said Sewah invite Mimi in.
After cleaning their hands and feet and Mimi, who had been ablution, they both went inside. Now it is Simbah Lanang's turn to clean up.
Sumpah wedok directs Mimi in a place that is specifically for them to pray.
"Well you pray here, it has been Sewah pairs of prayer mats." said Sewah by holding a prayer mat facing Kiblat.
"It's the storm" said Sewah by taking a new mukena from a small closet not far from the amben.
"No need to, thank you. Mimi has brought me a mukena." Mimi said by rejecting the new mucena that Sumpah gave.
"Judah if so, you pray first. Sewa wants to take a shower" he said and Mimi nodded.
After returning to her bathroom, Mimi took her face from her backpack which she had put over the amben.
Well the room of this waste house is elongated, in this room there is a chair and a wooden table, behind the side of the table chair there is a wide-reasoned amben mat and there is a folded relaxing mattress.
Beside the amben there is a small closet that Mimi saw at a glance containing mucena, prayer mats, sarongs and Koran. Next to this closet stranded mats that Mimk believes a special place for them to pray.
The back or beside where Mimk stands for prayer there are three rooms lined up. The kitchen is on the side, not the back.
Mimi performs her prayers with khusuk, a calm and quiet atmosphere makes hatinadem and twnangblula in the worship service.
After praying and taking care of her prayer equipment, Mimi again looked at the Simbah house. On the right side if the entry position into the house there is also one more door. I don't know what place is on this right. If the left side is the kitchen.
Between the two rooms in the middle there is a teak closet, as well as next to a door that Mimi does not know what place it is, there are also two teak cabinets containing.
"Have you finished praying?" tanya Sewah surprised Mimi.
"Yaudah if so wait until Simbah shokat just ate, or if you want to eat duku is also okay.'' said Sewah.
"Yes Mbah, just wait for Sewah." replied Mimi.
Mimi saw Simbah wedok and Simbah Lanang praying together.
"If tau gini delicious was waiting sobah aja so that can pray for congregation." murmured Mimi.
While waiting for Sumpah finished Mimi prepared dishes, cups and spoons and washed her hands. Mimi went to Mimi's kitchen to see Sewan cooking water on her face.
Mimi brought dishes, cups and spoons to the house room. Mimi also took her rice wrap and Mimi put it on the plate.
Mimi also poured drinking water into a cup, some of the side dish wrappers she bought earlier would heat up after eating.
Sumpah wedok dsan Simbah Lanang has finished praying, they also had lunch together.
After eating Mimi immediately took her medicine, Sumpah saw her just smiling.
"Don't get used to taking drugs" he said.
"Mimi's head is dizzy, Mimi has had a fever for a week" Mimi replied.
"Later Sewage Iuk ya." said Sewah, Mimi nodded and smiled.
"Come ndok, we take a nap first so that his body is desperate for rest" said Mbah wedok.
Mimi nodded, Mimi looked over at the amben Simbah Lanang was already sound asleep.
"Let's go in the room" said the sober, Mimi oun just nodded and followed him.
"This is a room for you" he said, Mimi saw this room was clean and the mattress was neat.
"This was once the room of the Simbah children, before they married and wander." replied seimbah with a soft look.
"How long have they not been home?" ask Mimi.
"Their early marriage, and early they had one or two children they often went home even if only every Eid. But after these fifteen years they have no one to go home even they also seem to have been reluctant to know Simbah as their parents." replied sembah with tears.
"I'm sorry Mimi ya Mbah." said Mimi felt guilty and wiped away Sumpah's tears.
"Nothing ndok, huum huh hence the children's room Simbah always Sewah clean, Sewah hope they go home their room is clean and neat." said Sewah implied memorization in his eyes.
"Emm Mbah if Mimi knows, where does Simbah's son live now? or do they have a phone number?" ask Mimi.
"The first and second son of Sewah migrated to Kalimantan, the third child of Sewba in Sumatra, the fourth child of the last Sewah is still on this island of Java after that Sewah ndak tau." replied sewah.
"Didn't you know their address or their phone number?" ask Mimi.
"Their address Simbah do not know ndok, there used to be their number after that their number was not active all" replied sobu.
"Oh Allah is insolent indeed the son." murmured Mimi growled.
"If you succeed in your education do not forget your parents, without their sweat, without their prayer what you achieve is nothing dok." Saying sumbaran.
"Any busy you, however far you do not even ignore even your parents meluoan." added Sumpah.
"Find a husband who can understand and understand you and your family as well, do not look for a husband who only wants you tetali do not want your parents" said Sewah.
Mimi felt overwhelmed, so cruel was a child who did not care about her own parents. What else if they only feel offended by the parents' words which parents say are spicy towards them.
We as evil children, our parents should never ignore it. If you are able to give him material or your energy then give your attention, with your attention then his heart will be happy no matter how little attention you give.
If your parents were rude or spicy-eyed towards you before you came back to want to treat them the same. Meditate on their scathing remarks because they convey the message behind their scathing remarks.
Never instill hatred in your heart against your parents, because if that you instill believe me every step you achieve will never be achieved, even if your steps are achieved then there is no blessing in it.
Remember what you achieved was the blessing of their sweat and prayer. Never speak harshly to them, a word from you inclines a wound in their hearts.
Later if we have a family or lost one of them then we will know what parents mean to us. When she is gone a mother who has given birth to us, then your life will be haunted by guilt if we ignore her.
Our parents he will not ask for what he has given us during our lives, they just ask you to be present in front of them, they just want to hear your voice when the feeling of longing blows the recesses of their hearts.
Being devoted to both parents is one of the worship that God commands of all people. The command to be devoted to parents has been explained by Allah SWT in various Quranic and hadith propositions
In Al-Isra verse 23, God has commanded us to worship him and to bear good fruit to both parents, mother and father. It is stated in the verse that we are also obliged to always treat our parents well, speak kind words and not to bully them.
The sound of the Quran in the letter of Al-Isra verse 23 contains an order for Muslims to always serve both parents:
وَقَضٰى رَبُّكَ اَلَّا تَعۡبُدُوۡۤا اِلَّاۤ اِيَّاهُ وَبِالۡوَالِدَيۡنِ اِحۡسَانًا ؕ اِمَّا يَـبۡلُغَنَّ عِنۡدَكَ الۡكِبَرَ اَحَدُهُمَاۤ اَوۡ كِلٰهُمَا فَلَا تَقُلْ لَّهُمَاۤ اُفٍّ وَّلَا تَنۡهَرۡهُمَا وَقُلْ لَّهُمَا قَوۡلًا كَرِيۡمًا
It means: “And your Lord has commanded that you worship none but Him and be kind to your parents. If either one of them or both are old in your care, then never say to them the word "ah" and do not shout at them both, and speak to them both good words. (QS. Al Isra: 23)
The Hadith Dalil on Being Devoted to Parents
In addition to being summarized in the holy verse of the Quran, the command to always do good and serve both parents has also been explained through a number of hadiths of the Prophet Muhammad. Here are some hadiths about filial piety to parents that we should practice:
Dedicated to Mother and Father
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَنْ أَحَقُّ النَّاسِ بِحُسْنِ صَحَابَتِي قَالَ أُمُّكَ قَالَ ثُمَّ مَنْ قَالَ ثُمَّ أُمُّكَ قَالَ ثُمَّ مَنْ قَالَ ثُمَّ أُمُّكَ قَالَ ثُمَّ مَنْ قَالَ ثُمَّ أَبُوكَ
Meaning: "From Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu he said; “A man came to Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam while saying; “O Prophet, who is the person I have the most right to be devoted to?” He replied: “Ybumu.” He asked again; “Then who?” He replied: “Ybumu.” He asked again; “Then who else?” He replied: “Ybumu.” He asked again; “Then who?” He replied: “Then your father.” (CHR. Bukhari and Muslim)
Including the Practices that God Loves
سَأَلْتُ النَّبِىَّ – صلى الله عليه وسلم – أَىُّ الْعَمَلِ أَحَبُّ إِلَى اللَّهِ قَالَ « الصَّلاَةُ عَلَى وَقْتِهَا » . قَالَ ثُمَّ أَىُّ قَالَ « ثُمَّ بِرُّ الْوَالِدَيْنِ » .قَالَ ثُمَّ أَىّ قَالَ « الْجِهَادُ فِى سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ » . قَالَ حَدَّثَنِى بِهِنَّ وَلَوِ اسْتَزَدْتُهُ لَزَادَنِى
Meaning: “I asked Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, ‘Amal what is most loved by Allah ‘azza wa jalla?’ He shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam replied, ‘Shalat in time’. Then I asked, ‘Then what else?’ He shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam says, ‘Then be devoted to both parents.’ Then I said, ‘Then what else?’ Then he shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam says, ‘Jihad in the way of Allah’.” Then Abdullah bin Mas’ud said, “Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam told me these things. Had I asked again, surely he would have added (the answer).” (CHR. Bukhari and Muslim)
Dedicating to Parents to Lengthen Age and Increase Nutrition
عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ ،قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «مَنْ أَحَبَّ أَنْ يُمَدَّ لَهُ فِي عُمْرِهِ، وَأَنْ يُزَادَ لَهُ فِي رِزْقِهِ، فَلْيَبَرَّ وَالِدَيْهِ، وَلْيَصِلْ رَحِمَهُ.
Meaning: “From Anas bin Malik radhiyallahu ‘anhu, Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda; “Who would like to extend his age and add his sustenance, so he should be devoted to both parents and welcome silaturrahim (relationship).” (CHR. Ahmed)
Those are some of the Quranic precepts and hadiths about filial piety to parents that we need to know and practice in our daily lives.
As a child, filial attitude is a must do as a form of affection and gratitude for the parents who raised him.
Hopefully a piece of hadith can be useful for all of us, Amin ya rabbal alamin.
Happy Friday to you
Assalamualaikum good morning everyone
