MY HEART DOCTOR

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All the entourage of Rudi's brother has arrived in front of Rani's house.

So crowded in the house of Rani kqk, all neighbors, sqnqk squdara and relatives also gathered in his house.

They all welcomed us from Rudi's company with joy.

Kak Rani herself has siao in ornaments and waiting in her room with Emma, Sila, Novi dqn kak Jeni and brother of Rani herself.

"Sister, it's like kak rudi's entourage has arrived." Cousin Rani's cousin.

"Ah yeah?" ask kal Rani with a feeling of anxiety and deg-degan of course.

"Today my status will change" Rani said of the change in status.

"The group's brother has arrived." said Emma from behind the door.

"Well sure brother rani has no patience nih cie cie." Novi joked by continuing to tease Rani while Rani's brother blushed in embarrassment and her chest rumbled.

Outhouse.

"Well, the bride-to-be has arrived, let's go." Said one of the fathers who had been on duty to welcome the group.

"Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh." The entourage of Rudi said hello.

"Greetings" those in Rani's house answered our greetings.

"Let's go in please" said one of the fathers who were at the door of the house.

"Thank you." replied Babah and Abinya brother Rudi and we also want to go into the house of Rani's sister.

After all entered, shaking hands with each other and they were welcome to sit down, they also said hello to each other to ask each other the news.

"How's bean doing?" Babah melted the atmosphere by opening the voice.

"Thank God we are all good, what about besan?" replied Brother Rani's parents.

"Alhamdulillah we are also good besan." Answer Abi.

As they talk, Mimi sees Emma and Emma taking her steps and asks Mimi to come to Rani's room.

"Sister, Mimi went to Rani's room?" Mimi asked permission from Shahril in a whisper

"Where to go, see no way to enter, just here" replied Syahril in a whisper and showed towards the people who had crowded the room with the glare of his eyes.

"Emm yes too." Mimi and Mimi shake their heads at Emma.

Before long the event began from the greeting and praise of gratitude to Allah SWT and to the prophet Muhammad SAW and now comes the time for the core event of the pronunciation of ijab qabul.

Kak Rudi sat in front of the penguhulu and in front of his future father-in-law along with the family of Rani's brother who bwrada behind Kak Rani's father dwngan accompanied by Babah and Abi and Umma and ummi.

"All right, calin's the bridegroom is ready?" Ask oak penghulu.

"Ready sir." said Brother Rudi.

"Well then we begin, how will Mr. Mahmud what father will marry directly or represented by the judge?" said pak Penghulu and asked Mr. Mahmud the father of Rani's brother.

"I will marry my own son, Mr. Ustadz." replied Mr. Mahmud.

"All right, then. Mr. Mahmud please hold the hand of the prospective son-in-law of the father tightly and give a warning.

"Ready sir ustadz." Answer Mahmud.

"Alright let's start not to forget basmallah" said pak penghulu.

Mahmud nodded his head and held Rudi's hands with a handshake.

"Bismilbornrohamanirrohim.

"Ananda Rudiansyah Al haddad bin Ahmad Amir Al Haddad I married and I marry you to my son Rani Widya Astuti bint Ahmad Mahmud with his mascavin in the form of a set of prayer tools and a gold ring weighing 6.5 Gram Cash.” Mahmud loudly recited ijab to kak arudi and stwlah recited pak mqhmud snapping a little grip as a sign.

"I accept the marriage of Rani Widya Astuti bint Ahmad Mahmud with a dowry of a set of prayer tools and a gold ring weighing 6.5 Gram paid in cash." Kak Rudi also recited the Qabulnya with a seki breath out loud as well

"Where are the witnesses?" ask Pak Penghulu.

"Well"

"Well"

"Baarakallaahu laka, wa baarakallahu ‘alaika, wa jama’a bainakuma fii khaiir." sound ucaoan congratulations from everyone present.

It means: “May Allah bestow upon you barakah, may Allah also bestow barakah upon you, and may He gather you both in kindness.” (CHR. Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi and Ibn Majjah).

"Alhamdulillah" said Rudi, relieved after being declared valid by the witnesses and everyone present.

"Congratulations Bro." said Brother Syajril while hugging Rudi.

"Good bro good luck" said brother Rendi by playing his eyes and hugging lak rudi so puka with the others.

Kak Rani also expressed her gratitude, before long Rani was in pinta to go out of the room and sit beside Rudi.

Rudi's sister pinned her dowry on Rani's big toe, similarly, Rani pinned the wedding ring on Rudi's toe after that Rani kissed the back of Rudi's brother's hand and Rudi's brother rubbed Rani's head and recited prayers and kissed forehead brother Rani and their takbluoa signed the marriage book.

After the installation of the wedding ring kak rudi punta by pak oenghulu to read aloud the sighat ta'lik or marriage promise that is in the middle of the marriage book he has received.

"Son Rudi please read ta'lik sughat which is behind your marriage book" said pak pengulu and kak eudi also opened his marriage book and he also read the sughat ta'lik.

I Rudiansyah Al haddad bin Ahmad Amir Al Haddad promised with great care that I would take care of my wife named Rani Widya Astuti bint Ahmad Mahmud (mu'asyarah bil ma'ruf) according to Islamic teachings.

To my wife, I expressed the sighat ta'lik as follows:

When I:

Leaving my wife for 2 consecutive years;

Not to give him a mandatory living for 3 months;

Hurt my wife's body or body;

Letting (doesn't care) my wife for 6 months or more,

And because of my actions, my wife is not free and filed a lawsuit with the Religious Court, so if the lawsuit is accepted by the Court then my wife pays Rp 10 thousand as 'iwadl (substitute) to me, so my talaq falls to him.

To the Religious Court I gave the power to receive the money 'iwadl (substitute) and handed it to the local National Amil Zakat Agency for the purposes of social worship.

After Rudi's sister read the ta'lik sighat, the two of them did a condolence to their parents and after that they also greeted each of the elders and invited guests who were in this room.

Marriage is one of the stages of life for a pair of humans.

In Islam itself, marriage or marriage is collected and united.

For a valid marriage, there are 6 Marriage Pillars that must be fulfilled, namely Bride, Bride, Guardian, Two male witnesses, Mahar, Ijab and kabul (marital certificate).

Once legally married, there are some sunnah that can be done so that marriage becomes a blessing and that marriage becomes an equal family.

Here is the Sunnah After Akad, Various Prayers and Advocates Taught by the Prophet SAW to Samawa: 

Praying for the Bride

After the pronunciation of the kabul ijab is completed, it is circumcised to congratulate the two newlyweds with a speech and at the same time this becomes a prayer after the ijab qobul marriage contract.

بَارَكَ اللهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ وَجَمَعَ بَيْكَمُاَ فِيْ خَيْرٍ“

It means: “May Allah bestow upon you barakah, may Allah also bestow barakah upon you, and may He gather you both in kindness.” (CHR. Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi and Ibn Majjah).

Prayer Sunnah Two Rakaat With Wife

Sunnah prayer is something that is recommended and has been done by friends in the time of the Prophet was still alive.

About this is the sunnah prayer after the marriage contract, following the explanation of the history.

Abu Sa’id Maula (the freed slave) he tells that while still a slave he had a marriage. He invited several friends of the Prophet SAW, including Abdullah bin Mas’ud, Abu Dharr and Hudzaifah. Abu Sa’id said they also guided me, saying, “If your wife comes to see you then pray two rakaat. Ask Allah for protection and take refuge in him from the ugliness of your wife. After that it's up to you and your wife.”

Abdullah bin Mas’ud once told someone newly married,

“If your wife comes to you, then order her to pray two rakaats behind you” (HR. Abu Bakr ibn Abi Syaibah)

Sunnah Laying Hands or Holding Wife's Ubun-Ubun

After that the groom should put his hand on the crown of his wife while praying. As the Prophet Shallahu’Alaihi wa Sallam said:

“When one of you marries a woman or buys a slave then hold the crown and read ‘basmalah’ and pray with a prayer of blessing while saying: “Yes Allah, please read , I asked for his kindness and the kindness of the character he brought. And I took refuge from his ugliness and the ugliness of the habits that he brought“. (CHR. Bukhari).

Prayer holding ubun ubun wife after the agreement:

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَمِنْ شَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ

Allahumma inni as-aluka khaira-ha wa khaira ma jabaltaha ‘alaihi wa a-‘udzu bika min syarriha wa min syarri ma jabaltaha ‘alaihi

Means: O Allah, I ask for his kindness and the good character he brings. And I took refuge from his ugliness and the ugliness of the character he brought.

Interact with the full of Softness and Awareness

About the soft weakening after the marriage contract, the following quotation of the history that describes the condition of the Prophet when displaying intimacy on Ummul Mukminin Aisyah Ra.

Asma’ bint Yazid bint As-Sakan ra, he said: “I decorate Aisha for Rasulullah saw. After that I came and I called him to give something to Aisha. He came and sat down beside Aisha. At that time the Prophet was presented with a glass of milk. After he drank, the glass he offered to Aisyah. But Aisyah lowered her head and was timid.“

Asma bint Yazid said: “I rebuked Aisha and said to her, ‘Take the glass from the hand of the Prophet SAW.”  Finally Aisyah grabbed the glass and drank the contents a little. (CHR. Ahmadis).

Pray before Jima

Sunnah the first night of the bride if you want to do jima to pray for God's protection from the temptations of Satan both for the bridegroom and the protection of her offspring later.

The prayer before the prayer is as follows:

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ، اَللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا

Bismilla. Allaahumma jannibnasy-syaithoona wa jannibisy-syaithoona maa rozaqtanaa.

Meaning: In the name of God. O God, keep us from the devil, and keep the devil from interfering with what You have provided us (HR. Al-Bukhari 6/141 and Muslim 2/1028 from Abdullah bin Abbas's friend radhiyallaahu 'anhu.)

The hadith says that if God gave birth to a child, then Shaytan could not harm the child. Al-Qadhi explained that his intention was that Shaithan would not be able to possess him. As quoted from Al Minhaj.

“When Allah predestines both to obtain a child, then the child will not get the harm from shaithan forever.” (CHR. Al-Bukhari and Ashabussunan except An-Nasa’i).

That is the Sunnah After Akad, the Prayers and Advocates Taught by the Prophet to Samawa.

After sungkeman and shaking hands, there came a photo, Rani and Rudi kak took pictures together with a marriage license that they hold each.

All family, relatives, and friends are not left behind to have photos.

Before long adzan ashar also reverberated, before enjoying yabg telaj food served the men go to the mosque to perform the prayers of Ashar merama'ah and after the completion of the prayer they return to the temple hajatan that is at the house of Kak Rani to eat the dish.

"Well cool, I once said without repeating." Emma chirped.

"Yes Rud is great" said bang ridho.

"Badahatan Rud, alu has been breathing water as much as before" said bang erwan.

"What's bang for, a bucket of water?" ask Mimi.

"Make Rudi nyiram if up to three times failed to answer ijab" said bang Idho chimed.

"Yes good luck Lo Rud hahaa." said brother Arfan.

Sehanis eat the food provided by the group from kak rudi also retreat.

"Mojon sorry before besan, because hqri already afternoon we and the family permission to resign" said uncle from Rudi's brother.

"oh good is besan, we are a family of mohin sorry pabila welcome and the dish we serve is less pleasing in the besan family" replied from uncle Rani.

"Alhamdulillah besan, we feel excited about the welcome and presentation of the house, we and our family say thank you" said uncle Rudi with a greeting and a hug.

"Well then we and our family also expressed gratitude." replied one of the words of Rani by receiving a greeting and returning a hug.

"Let's besan we say goodbye, assalamualaikum." Babah

"Greetings" replied the host.

"Come on Rud, go home first." take umma.

"Hmm ekang rudi doesn't live here umma?" ask Siska.

"Not to Siska, Rudi must come with the city first." replied umma.

Brother Syahril and the others are just meaningful smiles.

"Hold it bro." said Mr. Arfan.

"Si*alan Lo." answered Rudi.

"Hahahhaa" all laughed at Rudi's brother.

"Yaudah yank, aki go home first yes." pit kak Rudi to kak Rani.

"Yes be careful." answered Rani by greeting Rudi's brother's hand and kak kissed Rani's forehead.

"Ehem, it's halal not knowing where else" said bang Idho.

"Halalalin Jeni Dho's food" taunted Sisahril.

"Your style is Real, Real, replied bang Idho.

"Yaudah Rani we say goodbye, assalamualaikum" said bamg idjo and others.

"Waalaikum salam." answered Rani and the others.

Kak Rudi's entourage returned to Rudi's house with the back of a rantang and various wet cake parcels from Rani's sister.

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Alhamdulillah My Heart Doctor Update.sorry if the old Uo because the authore HP that used to make nulis again damaged.

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