
After returning from the house of Rani's brother, Syahril and Ryan's brother sent Mimi and Di'ah as well as Rendi's brother sent Emma, Sila and Novi, did not miss Erwan bang and Ridho bang beside him.
"Sister mqmpir used to not" said Mimi when she reached the front of Mimi's house.
"No need to deck, brother went straight home yes sultry sister." he replied.
"Yaudah if so, lazoh already delivered home" said Mimi sbari regretted by kissing the back of his hand.
"Yes, equally dear. Brother went home right away? Assalamualaikum." he said and said seyelah mimi got out of the car.
"Waalaikum greetings, be careful." replied Mimi and nodded by kaka Syahril.
Mimi immediately went up to the house and went to clean up because she felt sticky.
After taking a bath mimi sat with uncle and shortsighted and Nyai.
"Where's Mi? what is the ijab of Rudj?" ask uncle.
"Alhamduliah Cik, once said." replied Mimi.
"Alhamdulillah means he is already nernjat in his heart and really will miduk household ark at a young age" said uncle.
"It's true that usually many people who are groggy and anxious first so that they can say qabul up to many times." said the shortsighted.
"Emang there are yes miss people who say sampe many times and continue the limit how many times?" ask Mimi.
"There is a Mi because the prospective bridegroom is groggy and worried, well the limit is up to 3 times" replied the uncle.
"If up to three times what is the law and what should be watered?" ask Mimi again.
"There are also doused or bathed people if it fails but According to Imam Shafi'i, if the groom-to-be fails to pronounce lafadz qabul, it must be repeated.
If it still fails, repeat again up to three times.
If after repeated as many as three times still failed, then the bride-to-be is ordered to ablution.
After ablution, the groom is allowed to try again once.
If it still fails, the marriage contract of the day is considered a failure and should not be continued. Should be replaced another day and start from the first qabul ijab again." uncle explained in detail.
"Oh that,." said Mimi with a beard.
"Yes Mi because marriage is a sacred and sacred event. A ritual to open a new page of life, as well as open the doors of the reward of new worship practices. Such is an extraordinary marriage, that ALLAH promises a special great reward for a husband and a wife.
After marriage, there are great changes in man. The relationship of men and women who were previously illegal turned into halal. It becomes worship, it is vile to be holy, it is free to be responsible, even lust turns into love and compassion.
A HEAVY AGREEMENT
However, ALLAH refers to the marriage contract in the Quran as ⁇ Uthusa-Khalidha (mitsaqon-ghalidha) or a heavy covenant. A solid agreement. ALLAH says this word three times :
When ALLAH made a covenant with the Prophets and the Apostles of Ulul Azmi (Q.S. Al Ahazab 7)When ALLAH raised the hill of Tsur on the head of the Children of Israel and told them to swear allegiance before ALLAH (Q.S. An-Nisa 154)When ALLAH declares marriage (Q.S. Lisa :21)
This is because after marriage, a husband will be fully responsible to his wife. Even all the sins that his wife committed, the husband also took responsibility. On the contrary, a wife is commanded to obey her husband, as long as the husband does not order immortality.
Well IJAB QABUL iru itself has CONDITIONS in which the terms of the marriage contract are very strict. Marriage certificate becomes valid if his ijab qabul meets 3 conditions :
One Time, between the statement of the guardian of the bride-to-be (ijab) and the statement of the groom-to-be (qabul)One Place, between the bride-to-be's guardian and the bride-to-beMuttasil or concatenated, between the bride and groom, the ijab of the bride-to-be's guardian must be directly followed by the qabul of the groom-to-be. It can't be interrupted by anything.
Even using the word Insyaa ALLAH is prohibited. So do not be surprised if there are only grooms who fail or are not legal in the qabul ijab. Even though he had memorized lafadz ijab qabul far away." explained oakcik back.
"There continue to be tips ndak Cik so that ijab qabul smoothly." asked Mimi again.
"Tips directly there are no only tips on facing marriage is the closer to the wedding day, usually both the bride and groom will be more nervous.
As for tips for dealing with pernikaha namely:
Try to understand each other's obligations. Duties as husband and duties as wife.
Perform the Istikharah Prayer so that Allah SWT gives guidance, confidence, and strength to undergo marriage with your chosen partner.
Meet with family or closest friends to calm down before the wedding.
Keep trying to increase faith in Allah SWT. Marriage always has its own test. God is in all our actions.
Pour all restlessness upon Allah and beg His peace." Uncle.
"Well, later if mimi does not match Syahril look for a soul mate who is the same faith" said uncle advising. "Because in our religion before marriage there is a requirement for marriage in Islam and that condition is not only for women but also for men" he added.
"What is the word, Miss? ask Mimi.
" This is the Marrying Requirement for the Bride Candidate
A man is a Muslim, a believer.
The groom-to-be is not the mahram of the bride-to-be.
The groom-to-be knows the real marriage guardian from the woman's side.
The bride-to-be should not be in an ihram or hajj.
The groom-to-be gets married out of his own will, not the coercion or orders of others.
The groom-to-be is not in having 4 wives when married.
The prospective bridegroom already knows the woman who will be made a partner (wife).
"For Marriage Requirements for Bride Candidates are
A woman is a Muslim, a believer.
The bride-to-be is not the mahram of the groom-to-be.
The bride-to-be has been puberty (going through puberty).
The bride-to-be is not in a state of Ihram or hajj.
The bride-to-be is not the wife of someone, or is already in a marriage bond.
Itulqh Mi terms." Uncle explained.
"Well, there are so many people who get married, what is the law?" ask Mim again.
"In Islam, interfaith marriage is prohibited based on the word of Allah, Surat al-Baqarah, verse 221. Interfaith marriage is also prohibited by Law Number 1 of 1974 article 2. The main problem in this study is how the law of marriage is different religions according to the regulations in Indonesia, and how the law of marriage is different religions according to fuqaha . This research is a literature research. The sources of data in this study are interalain: the Quran and al-hadis, fuqaha opinion, UU No 1 of 1974 on marriage, and the Compilation of Islamic Law. To review the problem used literature research (library research ) and descriptive analytic. The results of the study showed that Article 2 paragraph (1) of Law No. 1 Year 1974 on Marriage (“UU 1/1974”) states that marriage is legal, done according to the law of each religion and its beliefs. Article 10 PP No. 9 Year 1975 stated that the new marriage is legal if done in the presence of a recording employee and attended by two witnesses. And the procedure of marriage is carried out according to the law of each religion and his belief. So, Law 1/1974 does not recognize interfaith marriage, so interfaith marriage can not be done.Article 40 KHI states the prohibition of marriage between a man and a woman is not Muslim. Fuqaha agreed that the marriage of a Muslim woman to a non-Muslim man either ahlul buku or idolatry is not legal. While the marriage of Muslim men with women of different religions opinion." replied Pakcik.
"This is to stay away from interfaith marriage because in addition to being forbidden by God because until anytime like tetao mengelkaukan Zina and kasian children in the future" Pakcik explained.
"Yes, it's too late" replied Pqkcik, pointing his index finger at the clock on the wall.
"Eh yes it doesn't feel like it's 11 o'clock" said Mimi.
"Don't forget to pray first swbwlum sleep." Remind mimi.
"Yes Nyai." replied Mimi and immediately went to the kitchen to ablution.
mimi carries out divine commands that 4 rakaat he sleeps.
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Early in the morning Mimi woke up immediately doing her activities after completing two rakaatnya.
After her daily routine is finished mimi mmberihkan themselves and ready to go in need of science.
Mimi went to school today with her best friend Di'ah. Once at school Mimi as usual gathered with her friends.
A full day of study on Saturday makes tired and dizzy because the day's departure drains the mind.
"Oh yes Mi? tonight at Rani's house?" ask Emma.
"Not knowing Ma." replied Mimi "Emma Rani's sister's place huh?" ask Mimi back.
"That's the plan." replied Emma.
"Emm Mimi doesn't know yet because Mimi plans to do Mimi Ma's bimbel job" Mimi said.
"Oh yaudah, if you go, you'll tell me?" emma.
"Siip." replied Mimi.
"Oh yes Nda, kemqrin kenaoa does not come to the house of Rani?" ask Amanda.
"Emm I was invited to walk bang Fadli" he replied.
"Manda Sydah is the same as Fadli?" ask Di'ah.
"Yes Di'ah." replied Manda.
"Congratulations Nda" said Sila.
"Yes, congratulations, don't repeat it again." said Novi.
"What a Novi means!" mamda ketus.
"Yes, do not repeat that already." replied Novi dak kah ketus.
"Let's go home." Emma broke up, we all went home.
Mimi herself did not break their conversation.
"Jaudah Ma let's go home." take mimi with his bag and books and walk his feet towards the door.
Arriving at the gate his soul Manda is picked up by his new girlfriend.
"I'm first." said Manda.
"Yes be careful." replied Emma and Manda directly berlalh with the Fadli.
"Emm Mi, Mimi is still angry with Manda huh?" ask Emma.
"Ndak Ma." mimi replied as briefly as possible.
"But why do you keep that distance?" ask Emma.
"Just feel Emma." replied Mimi.
"If alu becomes Mimi will also be angry with Ma if our number is given to every person" said Novi.
"Yes too" said Emma.
"Emm Mimi tumben ndak picked up in Syahril?" ask Sila.
"Yes Please, Tumben Mi?" ask Emma chimed.
"They've had the most to fall out all day." Celtuk Novi's.
"Novi kok know?" ask Emma.
"It's my brother Rendi chat if he apologizes not picked up because they just woke up all" explained Novi.
"Oo." Emma and Sila replied.
It did not feel they had reached the intersection of four and they were separated to stay Mimi and Di'ah.
Mimi walked together with Di'ah and did not feel reverberated had arrived at home coinciding with qdzan dzuhur.
Mimi immediately changed clothes and immediately berwudhu to carry out divine request 4 rakaat.
After the prayer mimi maberapnya prayer tool and immediately put his body on the mattress and soon he too asleep.
On the island of Java, five friends were having lunch at a restaurant owned by one of them.
"Eh roughly there has come yet the answers from the bimbel participants?" ask Bryan.
"There are but first and second stage participants in part" replied friend 2.
"Stage ruga belym anyone send back?" ask the student.
"Not yet" said Sahabat4.
"Emm have you checked the participant's data?" ask Bryan.
"It's just not met either." replied the student.
How to meet when registering Mimi using her photo while SD still looks bulky.
"Patience if the soul mate meets." said the friend4.
After they ate at the restaurant they entered the student's office to check the entrance and expenditure of the restaurant.
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Mimi awoke from her palace to coincide with the asar adhan and she immediately took ablution to perform prayers and after the shokat she began to wash her school clothes so that tomorrow she did not rush.
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Sunday reception day Kak Rani and Kak Rudi, as before Mimi participated in Kak Rudi's entourage.
At the house Rani sister in the morning held a study before sitting sanding. Similarly, at the house of Rudi sister swbnot down in this house also held a recitation and kak rudi also wearing custom jambi wedding clothes.
After the study the group immediately departed and this time they will go down at the house of brother jani who is a little away from the house of Kaka Rani because the groom will be in the wine with accompanied to the house brother Rani.
Ka Rudi in arak with the envy of kompangan and accompanied by us his entourage, after being close at home kal Rani sholawat accompanied by company and his dancing children began to act.
Local children have been busy fighting over the flag tucked in candy and two thousand dollars.
Compassion and dance ended then the elders accompanied the bride's handover. After that Rudi's sister is welcome to enter the house to pick up Rani's sister to be taken to the pelaminan.
Before sitting on the brides both through a photo session first in the room.
They both became queens and kings a day with music from a single organ.
May Samawa for brother Rani and Kal Rudi that's what ki said from his friends.
Alhdulillah uodate second today, sorry if long up because hp authore again broken and sorry turned out in the previous chapter a lot of his typo.
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