Let Me Choose

Advice for pregnant women

Life goes on and on again brings Retno and Prabu to the happiness of the household they are enjoying, also the pregnancy of the fruit of love both as the first moment in life they went through with great happiness.

The 5-year wait they have been through and they have found their true love back and now they have officially become husband and wife in the age of marriage which is lived in the sweet bliss of honey love in the years first age marriage.

All the trials and obstacles seem to have passed, but for Retno life is still full of struggle and must be fought to achieve true happiness, he said, and household happiness must be fought by looking after each other, understanding each other so listeners and respect each other.

In the household, Retno felt she had to position herself as a wife as a friend and also a listener and also a comfort giver as a person who always asked her opinion in all matters.

A wife should be a place that a husband always misses to go home

One saying or advice Kangjeng Mother who always held Retno, 'Make your husband comfortable at home, because if you do not get comfort at home he will seek comfort elsewhere.' It seems that it makes a lot of sense for Retno, anyone, for sure, if not comfortable, will find a comfortable place anywhere.

One more thing, 'Buy your husband's stomach until it can't turn away the same thing that's on the outside' this means that a wife must be able to cook her husband's favorite food so that her husband will become addicted and look for food outside, a wife's cooking will be something that is considered when his wife is not at his side.

All human beings are fundamentally imperfect but everyone can perfect what each partner sees and feels.

Sometimes Retno has to give up and be a winner also in certain situations, advice Kangjeng Ibu always carefully Retno live with all her heart. Retno considers her household as a sacred container that does not want to be disturbed and entered without anyone's permission.

Although Retno needs a lot of learning in everything, nowadays it is easy and a lot of services that we can do including ordering finished food, but it is not a solution.

Retno tries to dive into what her husband likes and dislikes including food and habits, because it will be a reference for herself.

If you are bored, there are times when you are bored with the situation and home food may we eat out to please each other.

Like his Father Retno Raden Haryo Atmojo until now could not eat the food that was outside unless the same touched his own wife.

I admire everyone who heard the story.

So strong the braid and attachment of the parents' husband and wife makes Retno amazed by the love and affection that both parents modeled on her children.

Retno's phone always looks active and very busy receiving the phone as a greeting and happiness support especially from her parents Kangjeng Ibu who is very worried about her, almost every day contact Retno just ask the condition of her pregnancy and hear the voice of her favorite Princess.

Just want to hear the good of the household and pregnancy, parents do not expect more or demand anything from their children the happiness of their children will be the happiness of parents.

Like that morning when Dr. Prabu had left for work Retno who took an early leave of absence sat relaxed on the front porch at the friend of Bi Iyah who was sweeping the yard. Retno is receiving a call from Kangjeng Ibu from Pekalongan.

"Sir, don't have a mind Mom bring it for your safety and also Mother's grandchild too, Kangjeng Romo who always reminds Mother every day must be your Father reminds Mother, has he called? what yet? ask your Father. How is he healthy? as Kangjeng Romo mu Nduk asked, he was so worried about you being pregnant away from our parents." said her mother Retno was very happy to hear the word healthy and fine from the soft voice of her daughter.

"Mother, just as Romo does not have to worry we are in the middle of the medical world, Ajeng feels safe and comfortable also sincerely undergo if until later giving birth there is no Mother also Romo near Ajeng, Ajeng, only do'a safety and blessing Mother's same Romo for grandchildren who are so in waiting for the family Mas Prabu as well as Raden Haryo Atmojo's extended family, but Mas Prabu has been considered as Mother also Romo in addition to being a husband who is so affectionate and caring," replied Retno spoke so subtly and slowly.

"Sorry Mother, not Ajeng intends to oppose but there are far more entitled to Ajeng now namely Mas Prabu, please Mother convey understanding to Romo and apologize Ajeng all this time."

"Yes, have you eaten Nduk breakfast? do not forget to take breakfast now in your body there is one life that needs nutrition in addition to healthy food as well as so much calmness is needed from a calm mind also will all provide comfort, it feels like you are already in the eye of Mother Nduk, and your Father now has a new habit of reminding Mother that Mother has called you Nduk what not? always has been." Her mother's last words make Retno sad, Retno can only entertain by saying what she feels if Retno is now happy to enjoy the desired household with the person she loves.

Retno rubbed her stomach when her fetus contracted, Retno became pensive when she finished talking and closed the telephone connection.

"Doctor why? is there anything in taste? Aunty get me a drink first huh, has the milk been drunk already?" tanya Bi Iyah surprised Retno who again looked uncertain direction.

"Oh it's okay Bi, I just miss my Mom and Romo, maybe like my miss Mother, Father and my family in Pekalongan there." sahut Retno is from marriage and stated pregnant Retno has never visited both parents should the sense of longing it must be there.

Aunty Iyah went in and soon came out again while carrying half a glass of milk that had not been used up in drinking Retno. Put it on a small table in front of Retno.

"Mother is pregnant, do not be sad, do not be angry, should be happy always possible if later the doctor's mother has been born Mother the same Romo can come here, or if later the baby's Dedek is strong, the doctor can take it there must be all happy." Bi Iyah's simple answer made Retno nod and smile.

"Intan's awake Bi?"

"But Ma'am, maybe the night has run out with the doctor and finished the morning prayer sleeping again at this hour has not been up."

"It seems like the night has run out to meet his future father-in-law Bi."

"Oh, alah Alhamdulillah, hopefully quickly catch up with the doctor."

Retno smiled while keeping an empty glass on the table.

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