Let Me Choose

Application Preparation

Her night...

The Javanese custom application event will be held. It feels like a dream that is far from expected, it will be this easy everything goes, sometimes all the unexpected makes Dr. Prabu stunned.

Long before the departure of Dr. Prabu

be prepared for all the possibilities and unexpected things like this.

Ready with his best clothes, with the ring as a serious sign, also with financial as a handover material as well as others.

The happy face is seen on the face of Retno as well as Dr. Prabu and other family members, all seem to rejoice with happiness.

All family members and relatives are busy many times with their respective duties.

His father Retno called back his daughter and Dr Prabu to the living room, to be briefed a little because the event was so sudden without preparation from both sides.

Also because from the side of Dr. Prabu as who will be a suitor only himself.

"Please sit. Romo wants someone to ask you both."

Retno and Dr Prabu sit side by side opposite her Father Retno.

"The journey to marriage for each couple is different, one of which is to hold a fiance first before stepping into the guarantee."

"Yes Romo."

"The fiancee's ceremony is generally done as a form of commitment of both partners, to steadily continue the relationship to a more serious stage. Also, this engagement is a meeting place for the families of both parties to get to know each other and be the beginning of building a greater family bond in the future."

"Yes Romo, I'm sorry I don't disrespect the family here, but it's unexpected, but I'm sure my parents approved my engagement to Retno."

"Yes, although it seems strange that it is okay, maybe the Family of Rome will soon visit the family of Nak Prabu to find a deal to find a good date and day with the family of Nak Prabu."

"My family must have welcomed the good news, Father, I will tell my parents."

"Before doing this event, there are fiance requirements that must be known by both parties. What are the requirements of the fiancee that need to be obeyed?"

Dr. Prabu and Retno listen to his Romo speech.

"The "engagement ceremony is often known as the ring exchange event between the two partners. This ring exchange as a form of commitment bond between the two partners to step into the guarantee. Therefore, the male party needs to bring an engagement ring as one of the conditions of the fiancee. Has Nak Prabu prepared?"

"Here, Romo."

"In some traditions, the engagement ring must be a pair because it will be embedded on the fingers of both women and men. However, some other traditions believe that the engagement ring is only worn by women because the jewelry is considered as a form of acceptance of the male proposal. Nak Prabu can determine the number of rings and the parties who wear them according to your reference and your partner later."

"We prepared two Romo rings, one for me and one for Retno."

"Yes, before the engagement, each of the two prospective brides must be single or not married. If one of the two parties is a person who has been married, make sure if the previous marital status has ended and he has officially become a single widower or widow. If his separation with his previous partner is still in the process, it means he is not yet an official single. It's good to talk about this first before having an engagement."

Dr. Prabu was stunned for a moment by the position of himself that had caused problems with Alya. It is a boon for him when he will enter the sacred moments of the wedding sheet.

It remains a burden and maybe one day it will be a time bomb for her and Retno, as well as her marriage.

"I'm a free man Romo, there's never been a bond and commitment with anyone, so I'm ready to propose to Retno." Dr. Prabu glanced at Retno with a smile.

"There is a condition, and this is optional, some couples there include a surrender and give it at the time of fiancee. That way, the male side does not need to bring another gift on the wedding day, what do you think about Nak Prabu?"

"Where's the good darling, and what do we want us to be like?"

"I don't know how good it is according to Mas Prabu." Retno's father smiled.

"It looks like I'm so Romo, for lack of preparation."

"Yes, not only proposals and weddings, there is also a tradition in holding a fiancee's event. Each region and tribe has a different fiancee culture, If Nak Prabu and the couple decide to use the customary culture in carrying out the engagement, make sure all the necessary components are there and ready in the day."

"What should Romo prepare for?"

"For example, Nak Prabu uses fiancee with Sundanese culture, the male party needs to prepare a belt to be given to the female side because it is included in the engagement process, If using Javanese culture, if you use Javanese culture, the male side needs to prepare offerings because it is included in a process called Peningsetan. There are many more cultures of engagement from other regions and tribes. So, prepare carefully so that the engagement process runs smoothly and solemn."

"Well, I really don't understand, I just follow how Romo, which is important my core and goals are conveyed and accepted."

Dr. Prabu feels dizzy himself.

"Haaaaaaaa.baru so dizzy, not to mention the wedding ceremony later Javanese customs, with all the processions that must be lived." Romo laughter so delicious see his future daughter-in-law began to be confused.

"Because the engagement is also often a meeting place for two families of the bride and groom, it is desirable that the nuclear family comes with a complete. This is also a testament to the good faith of each side to build new relationships more closely.all while there is none and Romo understand."

"Yes, Romo."

"In some religions, there are no religious leaders who must be in the engagement event. The religious leader is responsible for leading the prayer and helping to determine the good day for the next major events, such as applications and/or weddings. He can also give a short talk about household life and wise tips on the bride and groom who will just strengthen her heart, maybe it's our one trust right Nak Prabu?"

"Yes Romo, I understand."

"That's the fiancee requirement that you need to know, each condition can change depending on the beliefs you profess and the traditions you use. However, the main requirement in fiance is a ring. Because basically, the engagement is the exchange of rings or the giving of engagement rings from the male side to the female side as a form of bonding and commitment before proceeding to the marriage."

"Drink Mas tea don't have to be tense." Retno nudged the hand of Dr. Prabu who was still a bit confused.

"I'm just handing over to the family here, I'll come along."

"Yes, Romo expected it to be like that, haaa..."

Retno and Dr. Prabu laughed too.

"Romo, we say we want someone to buy for the completeness of the event later."

"Oh, Monggo please."

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