The System In My Head

Alpha, beta, and the capitalists who betrayed us

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Beluga continues to educate Ben while his hunting dog sniffs the butt of another dog in the dog park. "You remember I told you once that most of our impulses are the immature remnants of caveman times?"

Ben nodded.

"Modern sexual dynamics have also evolved since then. Cavemen try to impregnate as many women as possible, as having more children maximizes the chances of survival from their genes. That's how men do it. Now, consider this: how do women spread their genes? "

"Hmmm..." Ben rubbed his chin, as if choosing his words very carefully. "Receive beans ..."

Beluga nodded. "True, peanuts are a universal factor.but it is more important to consider the process afterwards. A woman can only pass on her genes by getting pregnant on her own, which takes 9 months of her life, and leaves her helpless. At that age, this creates two important implications...

First, pregnancy leads to dependence on men. During pregnancy, a woman cannot do much; there is no way she has a reliable way of getting her own food. So how do women survive?"

Ben blinked. "Paleo diet?"

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Shaking his head, Beluga ignored him. “A woman survives by confining a man, who becomes a provider of food, protection, and other resources for her and her child. This is the root of the dependence of women on men. It also prolongs pregnancy to life as a whole, from the time a woman is born.it is physically weaker and less able to obtain food through hunting and gathering. This matter was made even worse if he had to raise weak children. Even in modern times, you still see this male-female dynamic where men are the breadwinners in a couple ... "

Listening attentively, Ben begins to better understand the male-female relationship.ips..

Beluga continued. "The first implication during the caveman days, the dependence of women on men, led to the second implication: it is not in a woman's best interest to have a free **** relationship with a random male. Pregnancy is and still is a serious danger to a woman's health and survival. "Likely. Getting pregnant by a random vagrant creates disaster. So, the risk of ****free for a woman is much higher than that of a man. Before birth control, a prostitute woman was stupid..."

Ben gained a new appreciation for science. 'God bless birth control...'

Beluga looked up at the sky for a moment as if saying his own prayers ...

Then he spoke again. "Because most women are not idiots, they are selective with their partners, healthy. This is also the original root why even today, there is a double standard for promiscuity in women vs. men. The need for prostitutes has always been there, but the interesting thing is that the majority who humiliate them are not men, but women! That's because prostitutes make access to**** easier, which hurts healthy women trying to ensnare men ... "

"How did they snare them?"

"The same way women do now, through a slow courting process; extracting their time, resources, and emotions in exchange for potential **** One of the reasons they do this is that they want those things. The other is that they want to get men to invest in them, making it easier to get them to commit to a relationship. That way he wouldn't just leave after sleeping with them. The women artificially inflated their self-worth!"

Ben shook his head. "Fucking greedy capitalism ..."

Beluga's eyes became serious. "Indeed ..they are like De Beers diamonds, limiting supply to control price ... They have built the foundation of lies and deception ...

Prostitutes fight the mold, which hurts the interests of the self-banking lobby...

That's why even now, humiliating a prostitute still survives ..."

Ben clenched his fists. "That's not true! Bitches should be celebrated!"

"You're absolutely right... Even so, the town hall continued to reject my petition to make prostitute day official..." Beluga... "But we put that aside for now. At the core of the story circles back to the initial problem there are different mating strategies for both males and females.

As explained earlier, a man's best strategy is to have as many partners as possible. However, for a woman, partnership carries a high risk, so she must be selective. A woman's ideal approach is thus to lock in providers who will stay during and after pregnancy. From the beginning, this role has been accepted mainly by one type of man..." Beluga frowned while his tongue formed words, as if it carried a disgusting taste. "Mamma..."

The dogs started barking!

The smaller, weaker ones shivered as if a fate worse than death would befall them!

"Look, Benjamin, alpha-male is the leader of the group, high-value male. It is they who have the choice of trash for their partner, often sleeping with many women. Look over there." He pointed to a large Pitbull that was walking through the dog park, sniffing all the females... "It was an alpha male, moving from female to female, doing whatever he wanted. Now, look at the little dogs over there. .."

Small dogs try to keep their distance from the pitbull, intimidated by its size and aggression. Because pitbulls are near all female dogs, as a result small dogs are also far away from them.

Beluga explained. "The "little dogs are a weaker beta and of lower value. They exist in a consistent status hierarchy among many social animal species, including primates and humans. Beta who have little choice of this partnership must become a provider in exchange for ***, often only after the alpha male has moved away from the female or he is old. It's even common to beta raise another boy. Or worse: the alpha impregnates the woman, while the beta provider raises the child, not even knowing he is not the father..."

Ben smiles. "The most cheating trick in this book ..."

Now this was a topic he knew ... She pondered it by imagining the face of Penelope's boyfriend yesterday when she looked at the photos ...

"Alfa-beta dynamics are also the reason why women like men they cannot have, and dislike men in need. Women prefer alpha and wanting a relationship is a beta status signal..."

"If women prefer beta as a provider, then why do they sleep with alpha first?"

"While beta provides security, women also have another genetic motivation: to secure a partner with the most valuable genes.

Such genes involve good looks, strength, health, intelligence, etc. They are often owned by alpha. When reproducing with such alpha, these valuable genes will be more likely to be passed down to female offspring.

Then, the child will have a higher chance of finding a mate later in life because it has a high-value gene. Because the child is a carrier of the female gene, this creates a cyclical incentive for her to find alpha... You'll see that this precious gene is the same thing that women look for in modern men..."

Ben now understands why it is so universal for women to like certain types of men...

Beluga continued. "Because of all this, women have inner conflicts. They prefer alpha, but can only have it for a short time. That is because the majority will not settle naturally because they have many options for women. That makes it an unappealing proposition to settle with just one because it contradicts their ideal reproductive strategy.It still holds true even today.

So what women often do is switch from alpha to alpha, until they reach an age where their sexual values drop, and they settle with beta. Although, many still cheat with alpha while with beta..."

Ben digests information...

"Benjamin, these are the things you need to know when considering if you really want that girlfriend. Monogamy is preferred for a woman .. but for a man, and at your age, it is not a good proposition. The reason most young men get girlfriends is experience and because they want regular access to*** In your case, by improving your pick-up skills, you will be able to get a girlfriend, it's not necessary So unless you're trying to start a family now, it's not going to be in your best interest .. ."

Knitting his brows, Ben pondered everything. That's a lot to think about.

Beluga looked at him with a stern expression. "I hope now, you understand that you have a choice. Many of the same rules that apply to animals apply to us, but we don't get stuck in our position like dogs do. We can change. We can fix ourselves. So, you can be the alpha by working on yourself and your game, or you can live as a beta.and let the alpha eat first."

Realizing Beluga was right, Ben nodded. He has made his choice. 'I'm hungry, I need dibs first...'

As he looked at the dog park, there was one last problem that bothered him. "I understand about alpha and beta, but which one is that dog?" Ben pointed at a restless stray dog outside the fence whose mouth was foaming.

Beluga frowned. "It was a woman's worst nightmare—omega that was deadly..."