
The marriage contract is the core event of the entire set of wedding process. The marriage contract is interpreted as an agreement between the guardian of the bride and the bridegroom with two witnesses who meet the conditions according to religious law. With the marriage contract, the relationship between two people who have agreed to live in a household is inaugurated before man and God.
In Islam, for a legal marriage procession there are five things that must be fulfilled. That is, there are prospective brides, prospective brides, the guardian of the bride, two male witnesses, and the last is ijab qabul. If the five conditions above have been met, then marriage can be said to be legal according to religion. But, marriage must also be through the KUA party to be legal in the eyes of the law. The procession of the marriage contract begins with the opening of the reading of basmalah by the pengupulu, followed by the marriage sermon can be by the guardian, the religious leader, or by the pengulu, then the ijab qabul, after it is declared validly continued with the wedding prayer, and the last is the signing of the marriage book and documents from the KUA by the bride, guardian and two witnesses.
Arfin and Naz's marriage, which has been going on since 8 am, is now entering the core event, the marriage contract procession. After Naz accompanied by bridesmaids arrived at the place of marriage contract, then welcomed by Arfin, they also sat back with the ruler and two witnesses in the chairs that had been provided surrounding the square-shaped table. While behind the bride stood the three companions of Arfin, behind the witness of the bride, stood Mr. Rizal, Bu Rahmi and Mommy who used a wheelchair, while behind the witness of the bridegroom, while behind the witness, stand Mr. Latief and Ms. Hinda, if the photographer stands at will to document the procession of marriage contracts.
Naz, who had just sat down with his head down and smiled after hearing the words of praise from the future husband who was missed so much, then re-enforced his face and looked towards Papa and his father who were standing next to each other.
“Why was Papa sitting up so he stood up,, ? is this what Dad meant yesterday, do you want to be my marriage guardian?? Hopefully there is no more struggle here”, Naz murmured inwardly with anxious feelings, but when he saw his Papa sitting back, he felt calm, then again lowered his gaze. But unlike the person sitting next to him, the tension had started to hit and sweat had started to wet his forehead, occasionally wiping sweat with his handkerchief.
Penghulu asked for one more seat for the KUA officer who then sat next to her, then he opened the file carried by the KUA officer along with the marriage certificate that will be handed over after the marriage contract later, “The name of the bride, Rheanazwa Eleanoor Harfi, aged 18 years, status girl and unmarried, right”, asked penghulu.
Naz nodded, “ Iy”, he answered briefly in embarrassment.
“Did sister marry by force?”
“Not”.
“The name of the bridegroom, Al Arifin Naufal Akbarsyah, age 27, unmarried status, right?”, asked the ruler again.
Arfin nodded, “Iy i”, he replied nervously.
“Did anada get married because of coercion?”.
“Not”.
“The name of the marriage guardian Razan Syarief Harfi, and the witness of the bride named Andi Khairul Shaleh, a male witness named Burhan Rahmatilah”, he said again to match the data listed.
“Yes, right Pak”, replied Mr. Syarief.
“Alright then, we should practice for a while before doing the actual contract so that later there will be no mistakes, because if you make a mistake as much as 3x then the marriage contract cannot be done today,,,".
"So this is how later the marriage guardian will say the ijab and the groom pronounces the qabul with guidance by me, after the guardian said Cash, Cash, brother Al Arfin immediately replied I received his marriage,, blah blah blah , understand, “, ask her and the two men nodded, then the ruler said a sentence that the guardian and Arfin would say, after which he asked the two to repeat what he had said earlier.
“Ananda Al Arifin Naufal Akbarsyah, I married Ananda to my biological daughter named Rheanazwa Eleanoor Harfi bint Razan Syarief Harfi with mascawin 500 grams of gold rods and a set of salat paid in cash”, said Mr. Syarief.
“Tunai”, said Arfin loudly, suddenly it invites the laughter of people who are at the akad table and the three friends of Arfin who stand behind him, lucky his speech was not wearing a microphone.
“Not Cash Mas AL arifin, but , I accept the marriage,,, as I said earlier”, Penghulu also rectified.
“Relax Ar,, don't strain that, we also all know that you buy her mascawine cash not in cicil”, whispered Dandy while chuckling.
“Iya lo Ar,, that you say Cash what Tonight? I just used to be Brother Ajarin, about later tonight do not imagine first”, Bisik Nervan while giggling, while Arfin who seemed tense and sweaty continued to wipe his sweat with a handkerchief.
“Then we repeat the exercise ya”, said penghulu.
“Ananda Al Arifin Naufal Akbarsyah, I married Ananda to my biological daughter named Rheanazwa Eleanoor Harfi bint Razan Syarief Harfi with mascawin 500 grams of gold rods and a set of salat paid in cash”, said Mr. Syarief.
“I received the marriage of Rheanazwa Eleanoor Harfi bint Razan Syarief Harfi with a gold standard and a 500 gram cash” prayer kit, Arfin's speech again invited laughter.
“Back Mas Al Arifin, it should be 500 grams of gold and a set of prayer tools, “, penghulu back to pray.
Ms. Hinda approached her son, “Pacify yourself Al,,, Take a deep breath,”, she said trying to calm down, then turned to Nervan, “Abang,, please get me a drink,,,, please,,, pity this your sister is so tense until the trembling gini”. Declared.
“No need Mi, I have started to calm down Kok”, said Arfin and then the ruler again asked them to repeat his qabul ijab, and Arfin could say it correctly.
“Alright, because it has been training, let's start the marriage contract procession with the same words basmalah, bismillahirahmanirrahim,”, he said along with others, he said, then continue with the marriage sermon by the ruler.
During the wedding sermon, Naz continued to shed tears and continued to be wiped with the tissue that he had been holding, the taste of haru and degdegan mixed into one, and then the, the three mothers of the bride who witnessed it were the same, they shed tears of tears because they were moved.
After completion, the pengulu went on to the next event, namely the pronunciation of ijab and qabul, “Please the marriage guardian with the bridegroom hands shake hands to pledge ijab and qabul”, said belau, saying, then Mr. Sharif put his hand on the table, and Arfin did the same thing with a shaking hand, their hands shook.”Remember yes Mas Al Arfin, after the marriage guardian stated cash, Maz Al must immediately say I accept the marriage, there should be no pause, if able to pledge the qabul can be done with one breath”, take a break, after being embraced by the two, the penghulu also brought the microphone closer to the guardian's mouth, while the microphone for Arfin was held by Nervan.
“What is calm is Arfin, Take a deep breath first”, Bu Hinda again calms her son.
“Ananda Al Arifin Naufal Akbarsyah, I married Ananda to my biological daughter named Rheanazwa Eleanoor Harfi bint Razan Syarief Harfi with mascawin 500 grams of gold rods and a set of paid prayer tools cash”.
“I received the marriage of Rheanazwa Eleanoor Harfi bint Razan Syarief Harfi with mascawin 500 grams of gold rods and a set of prayer equipment paid in cash”, Arfin uttered it with one breath as fast as lightning, then he immediately took a long breath.
“How is the witness, legitimate?”, yanya penghulu.
“Sah”, answer both witnesses.
“SAH....”, said the penghulu on the microphone with a thunderous voice and heard by everyone present.
“Alhamdulah,,,”, everyone thanks.
Arfin immediately stood up, “Yesss”, he said as he lifted and then pulled his hands that clenched as if he had just won a victory, immediately inviting laughter from everyone who attended the wedding ceremony.
“Arfin,,, sit, make shy ih”, whispered Mami annoyed.
Arfin, who had just realized his ridiculousness, then sat back down with a smile in shame, while Naz kept his head down, either hiding his laughter, either because he was embarrassed.
“Yassalam, what he said last night was true,,,, he was really crazy, manaudah was already husband”, Naz murmured in his heart.
“Gosh, an Arfin can gesrek also his behavior”, Hardi shook his head.
“Please the audience in please be calm, because it will be continued with the marriage prayer”, said the penghulu then one of ustad recited the marriage prayer and after it was completed in amenable by everyone.
The event was followed by the signing of documents by the bride and groom, the guardian, and two witnesses, as well as the signing of a marriage license which was then handed over to the bride and groom. After that the event was handed back to the MC, both brides were asked to stand, then the groom handed over the dowry to the bride, followed by the exchange of rings, then the groom, and all of that is perpetuated by photographers.
“Kiss her husband's hand”, said the photographer when Arfin had pinned the ring on the ring finger of Naz's hand, after kissing Arfin's hand then Naz pinned the ring on Arfin's hand ring finger, ”kium his wife Mas”, he said again.
“Kium what?”, Arfin asked like a plain person either bego.
“Kiss on his forehead Mas, if you kiss the other one later tonight”, the photographer's speech is able to invite the laughter of everyone who hears it, he said, then Arfin attached his lips to the crown of siger sunda because the siger covered the forehead Naz.”Hold a piece of Mas”, he said again then took some pictures, “Iya, good, now show the ring in his hand”, snap snap,,”one more please show the marriage book and held by each”.
After the marriage procession is completed, the, the bride and groom are allowed to descend from the altar where the marriage contract and stand behind the guests at the bridesmaid damping and umbrella holder behind it and then continued the event with a series of torprize coupons accompanied by nyayian kawih sunda of a sinden,, wurr,, wurr,,,. After that, a balloon release event was held together in the air.
Next the MC instructs the bride to enter the building and sit in the hallway there, but only the groom who went with the parents of both parties and accompanied bridesmaid up to the terrace of the building and made everyone ask questions including the bride and groom.
“Kok gini anyway? We are legal to be husband and wife, why enter the building separately?”, asked Arfin.
“Already follow the instructions of the MC, this is Dad's request, you are only separated until the front of the building, later the entry of both kok”, Mr. Rizal explained, and Arfin also obeyed him, he said, then he walked with bridesmaids to the front of the building, then stopped and Arfin turned while the bridesmaids lined the edges. Naz who was standing looking at her husband who was standing waiting for her, was suddenly carried bridal style by her father and made her surprised. He walked slowly and then Naz put his hands on his neck, but at his age that is not young anymore must be a heavy thing for him.
“So this is Dad's request ?”, her question whispered.
“Yes, because with this hand I received you first from the late Mira, and with this hand I will hand you over to your husband”, he replied.
“I love you so much dad”, Naz said with tears in his eyes.
“Don't cry, your makeup will wear off”, she said she released her daughter's embrace, and Naz wiped her tears with a tissue, then Arfin continued carrying Naz until he entered the building accompanied by his parents and bridesmaids, also followed by family groups from both sides.
When he passed the entrance of the building, the MC stopped them, to the next event, the sunda custom ceremony ‘Mapag Panganten’ led by uncle Lengser with the Ambu by speaking Sundanese language and their style and behavior are funny, funny, accompanied by a dance of four jaipong dancers alternating with two bridal umbrella dancers accompanied by kawih sunda by sinden with gamelan degung repertoire music.
After that the bride and groom are herded to walk on the red carpet until they go up to the stage with the parents of the two brides, the bride and groom, after the stage continued the sungkem event to the parents with poetic sentences voiced by both MCs and made the bride and the parents of the two brides again cry, Mr. Rizal with Mother also participated in the event, so his parents numbered 3 pairs.
After the sungkeman continued with the wedding photo event and also photos with family and relatives, then entered the family congratulation event, relatives and invited guests who have begun to arrive and queue to greet the bride and the parents of the two brides, as well as the bride and groom, they are also allowed to enjoy a buffet meal along with a dissertation available at the stands at the wedding event accompanied by romantic songs sung by the wedding singer on stage next door pelaminan stage.
The longer the queue the longer with guests who continue to arrive, there are those who give gifts handed over to the reception desk as for those who give amlpop that is inserted into a special barrel box from duplex whose middle roof has been divided to enter the envelope into it. (The envelope contains money).
When the Adhan dhuhur bride was brought to a special room to change clothes, and this time Naz wore a modern dress with crown makeup on his head, arfin wears a suit with a bow tie around his neck. Arfin finished first, then he performed the dzuhur prayer and ate while waiting for Naz to finish changing clothes, then Arfin fed Naz, eating, after that they both went back up to the pelaminan and there the guest queue was much more.
Usually Naz or Arfin will sing if there is a party in his family, but this time they seem to have no chance, because of the number of guests and if the leisure was used for shooting by the photographer, and so after the bride changed clothes again even guests are still coming. Unlike the family who seemed to enjoy the party and contribute songs, even if there are members who sing, then the elders will give him a saweran.
The wedding party ended at four in the afternoon, everyone returned to the hotel as well as the newlyweds who had been given access cards to enter the bridal room at the hotel.
“Nih,, make the bridal room,, special already in such a way”, Hardi gives the access card, “And this car key from Nervan”, he said again while giving the key.
“Thank you kind sister-in-law,, not all of you in that chauffeur,, “.
“Yaelah,, you drive to the hotel next door will not be drained of energy let alone ngabisin lo energy, sister-in-law dear”, he said with a tinge of julid, then Arfin left with Naz who looked very tired. “Heh, wait a minute..”, cried Hardi who stopped his steps both.
“Moreover the hell?”, asked Arfin annoyed.
“Salim used to dong same sister-in-law”, Hardi thrust her hand.
“Najiss lo,, “, said Arfin ketus, “Dear, we go”, then they left Hardi and headed for the parking lot outside.
Mr Rizal came over, “Hardi, did you see Arsen?”.
“Arsen?? No, no, why, Om?”.
“Since morning Om did not see his whereabouts, when Om knocked on the door of his room was not opened, but the phone is active”.
“Maybe he's still sleeping Om”.
“Times anyway, she usually wakes up early kok”.
Hardi circled around and spoke quietly, ”Actually I saw Arsen last night drunk, Om, and I found him at Naz's door while rummaging indistinctly, it's a good thing he didn't bother Naz and woke everyone up, and I took him straight to my room”.
“Astagfirullah ,, the boy,,”.
“Maybe he still can't forget Naz that fast Om,, so he's still not willing to see Naz marry”.
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The newlyweds arrive at the hotel's parking lot downstairs, both getting out of the car.
“Aduh,,, “, Naz complained while stepping after getting out of the car.
“Why dear?”, Arfin instantly approached.
“My feet are sore,,, a day of standing where wear high hells again”, he complained while grimacing, grimacing, then Arfin immediately carried it ala bridal style again until they reached the door of the room that corresponds to the access card on them. Naz puts the card, and the door opens, and they enter with Arfin holding Naz. He walked slowly by dragging one of his legs which turned out the floor was filled with red roses, as well as his bed. The room was completely decorated with flowers.
“Darling,, I've been down, Aa must also be tired of kan”, love Naz, and Arfin dropped Naz right next to the bed.
“Before Aa want to lay you in our bridal bed dear”, said Arfin who then embraced Naz, “thank you dear, was willing to be my wife and live life with ku”, he said, he said and let go of his embrace slowly.
Naz bows his head and looks embarrassed, Afin then kisses Naz's forehead, then touches Naz's chin and raises him until they both look at him. Arfin stroked the face of the girl who had already become his legal wife with a gentle and loving gaze. Stabbed his lips Naz who was wearing nude lipstick with his fingers, he grabbed his head with a slight tilt closer, both closed their eyes, then he kissed Naz's lips.
A kiss alone made both of them feel a strange rumble in themselves, not just a kiss, but, he also began to kiss the lips of Naz which for him was sweet with tenderness even though there was doubt when Naz returned his kiss. One of Arfin's hands clung to Naz's waist so that it docked to his body, while the other hand cupped Naz's neck, tilted his face and deepened their kiss. The heat ran all over his body.
Naz, who started to enjoy not knowing what to do, because her husband's kiss made her head feel dizzy after holding her breath for so long, then she pushed Arfin's chest with two fists. Their lips parted and Arfin moved away, their closed eyes slowly opening, Arfin staring at the reddened face of Naz. Their breath is equally roaring sharply, racing to breathe as much oxygen as possible.
Arfin's gaze dropped on Naz's reddened lips as a result of his kiss, then approached again on Naz's body, “Honey,,,”, he whispered with a sigh.
Naz opened his eyes wide because Arfin had brought his face closer again to repeat the scene, then Naz tried to step away from him, but Arfin immediately pulled his hand until it fell into his embrace, “Where to love,, we just started warming”.
Naz broke away from her husband's embrace, “A a a me, I'm sultry,, my body feels sticky”.
“Gerah,,,?? You can't wait to open your shirt, dear”.
“Yasalam,,, at this time the tea will now, ohhhh do not mind,, later I am not ready Aa”, cried Naz in the heart.
Arfin brought his face closer to Naz to kiss him again, but when his lips were about to hit Naz's lips, there was the sound of a mobile phone ringing that could disperse the turmoil of passion that had begun to smolder.
“Shittt,,, who the hell is bothering”, grumbled Arfin with annoyance, then he took the phone out of his pants pocket and picked up the phone that turned out from his brother.
Naz can breathe a sigh of relief, but his hand is held by Arfin as if he should not move even a little until Arfin finished talking on the phone.
“Sorry dear Aa down first for a while,, “, he said then kissed Naz's cheek then he moved away.
“Hufh,, selamet,, selamet,, yasalam,, my heart feels like it's going to be dislodged, gini it turns out it feels like a kiss, but it's good anyway, hihi”, Naz talk to himself and then giggle while holding his lips.
Naz circulated his gaze, and it turned out that there were two suitcases near the wardrobe, and one of them was his. Naz opened the suitcase and took out the kimono towel and makeup cleansing toner along with the cotton. Naz walked to the front of the drawer table above him in the mirror temple on the wall, he opened the lid of the toner bottle and wet the cotton and used it to clean his face.
After the entire face and eyelids have been cleaned of makeup, the toner is used up, and when Naz sees something on the table in the form of a black box and given a ribbon, the toner is used up,
“Hah, what is this?”, then Naz opens the ribbon and opens the packaging,
“Oh, this is a wet tissue anyway, what a coincidence,, can remove the lipstick mate stuck to my lips, but how different from usual?”, Naz opened the plastic packaging inside and then used the wet tissue to clean the lipstick from his lips, because it was somewhat gone, Naz continued to wipe the tissue on his lips until the lipstick was completely gone. After that Naz opened his dress then to the bathroom and took a bath with warm water.
When she came out, her husband immediately approached her, “Kok bathnya not wait Aa first anyway? Can we take a shower together, dear”, he said in a teasing voice.
“A,,, enghh, A”, suddenly Naz could not open his mouth to speak.
“Dear you why? Don't be kidding, not funny”. He said, then Naz held his lips that felt numb while shaking his head, then Naz saw the phone in Arfin's hand and grabbed it, and typed in the message column.
“My lips are numb, hardened as if jontor and I can't say”
“Hah,, time anyway,, you why,, ? yes abis kiss so that?”, asked Arfin astonished after reading Naz shake his head.
“So I removed the lipstick with the tissue on the table”
Arfin then saw the tissue, which read Magic Power Tissue, “Astagfirullah, this is not a regular wet tissue, dear, “, said Arfin surprised.
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