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Bridezilla Virus Is Starting to Afflict

A week has passed after the engagement of two lovebirds Arfin and Naz held in the hotel ballroom owned by Opa Harfi. Arfin who returned to Surabaya was sure this Saturday he did not return to Jakarta. But they always communicate either by phone, video call or just chat if both are busy, Arfin is busy with his work, Arfin said, while Naz is busy with his school not to mention added 2x week.

This Saturday Arfin accompanied the Mami went to a hospital to consult with a doctor who had been scheduled before. They went into a special room for infertility treatment, the Fertility Center, then they signed up. After completing the form, Ms. Hinda whispered to the nurse on duty to ask for help if she would call Arfin who was called was the name of Hindayanti, by saying that his son was afraid to run away when called to check because he had been traumatized by a doctor, well it does sound ridiculous, but he had to do that and of course Arfin did not know about it.

Now Arfin and Bu Hinda are sitting in the chair available in the room to wait for a check turn. It just so happened that the doctor had come and entered the examination room. There were also some patients waiting.

“You are looking for treatment, Mom??”, asked a mother-mother to Miss Hinda.

“Iya,,,”, she replied with a smile.

“To whose doctor is Bu?”, he asked again.

“Ke Prof's. DR. Tisto Sudibyono ,SpOG(K) M.Kes”, replied Bu Hinda.

“Oh,, Yes, the same if so,, Mom or Mas her who want to seek treatment?”, the mother kept asking.

“I want a consultation, used to have surgery because myoma so want another consul, because my husband is busy so delivered with my son, Mom, hehe”, hehe, said Miss Hinda explained what is not the truth.

“Oh, his son, his sister, Kirain, said the mother chuckled.

“Hehehe,, people also like to say so”, Ms Hinda was flattered as if she was said to be young, but either mother thought Arfin was already umuran.

“Where's mom from?”, ask the mom again.

“I am from Jakarta, Bu”, replied Bu Hinda.

“Wah, the same then, I am also from Jakarta, this is my son who has been married 6 years still has no offspring, has been medicated anywhere but has not succeeded,, uh said my friend here the doctor is good and many succeed, so we came all the way here”, the mother explained when there was nothing and no one wanted to know also keleus.

“Oh, that's it, ma'am... Where's the kid? I think mom alone”, said Bu Hinda.

“That's my daughter-in-law left in the car and all of you want to buy a drink he said, they've returned”, he said pointing to a couple who had just entered, then he waved his hand and they came over, “Well this child is my son-in-law”, he said again.

“Loh,, Aunt Hinda, why is Aunt here?”, one of the couple greeted and was surprised by the presence of Bu Hinda, who was, Arfin who had been serious about his phone raised his head and looked at the person, then he looked down again.

“Mampoos,, why must meet them here anyway, even though I have deliberately treated in Surabaya so as not to meet people who know", Arfin murmured in his heart.

“Eh,,, you,, emmmm,,”, said Bu Hinda remembering.

“I Sinta Aunty, and this is Dino my husband, we are his schoolmates Arfin and Nervan,”, he reminded.

“Oh, yes, yes, yes, Sinta and Dino, her high school friends Arfin and Nervan yes", Miss Hinda just remembered.

“Hai Ar,, you are here also”, greet Dino who saw Arfin then approached and sat next to him.

“Eh, lo Dino,, you why here?”, asked Arfin.

“Gue would like a consultation here, you know I'm the same Sinta has been married for a long time, but has not had a baby, yes we try to make efforts here, he said the doctor is good and many are successful,,, he said,, you yourself why here?”, Dino asked back.

“Arfin again nganter Aunt want to consult,,”, Bu Hinda directly nyamber.

“Loh,, what's sick aunt? Up to Fertility Center”, asked Sinta wonder.

“Tante used to have myoma, and now wants to consult a doctor,,”, he explained.

“Oh, that's it Auntie, hopefully the results are good" said Sinta again.

"Amiin.".", said Bu Hinda.

“Eh,, he said you're engaged, yes, when's the wedding plan?”, Dino asked Arfin.

“Iya,, insha Allah in early June,, later you come to ya”, replied Arfin.

“Siap,, marriage is in Jakarta right?”, he asked to make sure.

“It is in Jakarta, yes time in Africa,, my candidate is a Jakarta person not a nigger,, haha”, Arfi even joked.

“Hahha, yes I also know, you want to marry his sister Dandy right,, gile lo si Nadine chasing you since High School, uhh it turns out you like High School children,,,,,, you have,,, basic AADB Lo", he said mockingly.

“Yes the name is also a soul mate,, can not be guessed, I also do not expect,, what is it AADB?”.

“Aki Aki Doyan Boy.hahaha ". replied Dino and laughed.

"Damn Lo,,", Arfin's curse.

"Oh yeah, you know how you didn't see the time at Dandy's wedding? At Nervan's wedding you don't exist, where have you been all this time? Doyan was very good at the surface", asked Dino again.

“Patients on behalf of Mrs Hindayanti Akbarsyah”, suddenly sisters call.

“Eh, I've been called ,, excuse me, ", said Ms. Hinda, then turned to Arfin, "ayo Al,,, Temenin Mami”.

“Iya Mi,,,,,”, said Arfin, “Gue stay first ya”, he also said goodbye to his friends, then the sisters let them into the check room, then the sisters let them go, they sat down with the doctor at his desk.

“Bapak Al Arifin Naufal Akbarsyah,, here you have erectile dysfunction due to an accident 8 years ago, why the consultation now?”, you know, Ask the doctor while looking at Arfin's medical records.

“Actually my son has been on medication and teraphy for four months after the accident 8 years ago, Doc, just haven't been fruitful, so never do any treatment again, so never do any more, because soon want to get married so my son is going to seek treatment again”, even Bu Hinda who replied.

“Before what treatment has been done?”, ask the doctor.

“Usually asked to keep the diet in order to eat a healthy and nutritious balanced diet, regular exercise, adequate rest and regular checkups once a week, because it has not also got results, because it has not yet got results, then it was injected into hormone therapy, but still did not produce results, until the doctor suggested surgery to implant the device or take drugs but must be accompanied by intercourse,, until the doctor suggested to implant the device,, But at that time my son was not married so he refused, and the doctor said he would not be able to recover, so my son gave up and did not want to seek treatment again,,, but now because it will soon be married so the urge to recover is very large, Dok”, Ms. Hinda explained at length.

“Oh yes ,, Look yes Mom, to do treatment in patients with erectile dysfunction does require several stages that are adjusted to the cause of erectile dysfunction. As I said earlier, the treatment process is like that, but from maintaining a healthy diet and living the results are indeed quite long, can be up to years in fact,, The mother also said the mother's son had an accident and caused him to suffer from erectile dysfunction,, there is a possibility that the blocked blood vessel channel so that the blood flow that should flow to the sensitive area of your son does not run smoothly and to find out the blockage occurs next to where should be done ultrasound examination, have you ever been?” before, asked the doctor.

“Iya already, Dok”, replied Arfin.

“Alright, let's see check again”, the Doctor invites Arfin to be examined in the patient's bed by performing an examination using an ultrasound device.

After completion, Arfin was allowed to sit back in the chair he had previously occupied.

"From the results of the examination just now, I see no blockage of blood vessels, meaning there are other causes, have you ever taken drugs?”, asked the doctor.

“Never , Dok”, replied Arfin for sure.

“Smoking?”

“Not”, Arfin shook his head.

“There is a history of diabetes from your family?”.

“Nothing, Dok”.

“Have you ever had depression?”.

“I had a major depression one year ago, Doc?, replied Arfin honestly.

“How bad was the accident you had?”

“I had a paralysis and even my legs to limp, Dok”.

“According to my conclusion, erectile dysfunction that you experience can be due to psychic factors, as a result of an accident that you experienced, you think too much about your condition and know you are affected by erectile dysfunction plus the doctor says you can not recover so that it makes you mentally down to make you stressed, it is so influential that any treatment you do will be hindered. So you should do psychic therapy and accompanied by regular exercise such as yoga so that it can make the mind there rilex and relieve stress, diet should also be maintained”, explained the doctor.

“Oh, so so yes Doc... can not be given medicine so doc?”, asked Bu Hinda.

“It is better to do psychic therapy by meeting a psychological expert, and do yoga and maintain a diet first Mom,, if it still does not work , then I will prescribe medication,, if it still has not succeeded can also be done vacuum pump even until the operation planting tool, So the treatment process is gradual, Mom,,,,, so the process of treatment is gradual,,, but if for the administration of the drug it is better after your child is married, because to find out the reaction of the drug to erection or not on the vital organs of your son, yes by having intercourse”, because to find out the reaction of the drug to erection or not on the vital organs of your son, yes by having intercourse, The doctor explained.

“But, can I recover, Doc?”, asked Arfin expectantly.

“That is the question that can cause you stress, fear can not be cured, it is human, but we as humans can only strive and pray, still the decisive is the Almighty, the Almighty, but we must remain optimistic, because there is no disease that cannot be cured, instill in you that you can be healed, so that there will be a big boost from yourself to try your hardest to fight for recovery, rest assured”, said the doctor gave motivation.

“Iya , Dok”, said Arfin smiling.

“Thanks, Dok”. Said Miss Hinda who then stood up and shook hands with her doctor alternately with Arfin, then they came out of the room. Lucky after himself, Dino and Sinta enter, so he does not need to face the two school friends who will certainly invite him to continue chatting. After completing their administration, they returned home.

Both are now on their way to Arfin's house,

“Al, remember the doctor said earlier, you do not stress, do not think much, and rest assured can be healed,, you must be enthusiastic, if not for yourself, then the spirit is for your future wife, and you must be happy, Naz”, said Ms. Hinda cheering.

“Iya, Mi...”, Arfi replied briefly while driving.

“Pantesan aja earlier Mami suddenly want to ask the nurse when you called to use the name Mami,, uh it turns out we even met with your schoolmate,,, and thankfully Mami has a reason for Mami's disease that was,”, he said again.

“Hehe,, yes,,, thanks yes Mi...”.

“Oh yes Al,, do you also want to try alternative medicine?”, asked Bu Hinda.

“What alternative is Mi?”, Arfin is back.

“That said there are still who like to treat impotent name Mak Erot if not wrong, but with the sequence he said”, Bu Hinda also explained.

“Ih,, do not want ah Mi, time yes ntar have Al sorted by mother-mom, mending same Naz aja “, Arfin immediately refused.

“Astaghfirullah Arfin, you are not sane, yes, even though Naz is his son is still innocent and has become your future wife,, and,, not that you can casually tell him to hold on to you huh,, don't be a cheap man deh you tuh,", Bu Hinda even insisted.

“Hahaha, yes not now also Mi time, yes change if you are married”, Arfin even laughed.

“Oh, kirain”.

“Al has not been that crazy, Mi”, he said while continuing to drive his car.

After a while they reached Arfin's house. Mami went straight to the kitchen while Arfin went into his room, then he took a cell phone from inside his pants pocket and it turns out that when opened he got a message from his future wife.

My Naz

“Aa,,, consult already?”

“How does the doctor say?”

Arfin only read the message without the intention of replying, but he immediately contacted Naz through a video call connection while sitting on his bed.

“Hahaha,,, wa’alaikumsalam my future wife”, replied Arfin with a laugh.

“Kok laughs anyway?”, asked Naz wonder.

“Abis you talk funny”, Java Arfin.

“Yee, I'm funny from the first time,,,”, Naz is narcissistic.

“Where is it? how many are there?", asked Arfin

“Again in mall”, replied Naz.

“There is no timetable? Why even go to the mall?”, asked Arfin astonished.

“Bimbelnya later at 2 Aa, I'm not a vague wandering kok, abis nyari book to Gramedia, yes while waiting for the time bimbel, we play first here,, besides this is only half one, and the bottom is not far from here”, Naz also reported.

“Oh,, that,, who goes there?”, asked Arfin.

“Normally the same trio bontot, but they again to the rides game”, replied Naz.

“Tumben you do not follow,, usually like to be tested all rides game”, asked Arfin who again felt surprised.

“Gakah ah tired, want to sit syantik aja while waiting for them, anyway will have to learn to be an adult, because soon want to marry and will become a wife”.

“Cie,, who is already an adult”, Arfin even teases.

“Iya,, Gede wadul kasasaha,, hahaha”, replied Naz ngasal

“Hah, what does it mean?”, asked Arfin confused.

“That's a pun in Sundanese, which means a lot of lies to everyone”, explained Naz.

“Ihh, don't mind, when you become a liar”.

“Not that,, that means a joke doang Aa dear”, Naz again explained.

“Oh, train,,”.

“Oh yes, how was the consultation, smoothly?”, asked Naz.

“Yes,,,”, replied Arfin with a somewhat lethargic face.

“Kok kayak not that spirit answer? Aa no why, right?”. asked Naz worried.

“No,,, “.

“How did the doctor say?”, asked Naz again.

“Yes so, the same as before, must maintain a diet to eat a healthy and nutritious balanced diet, exercise routine such as yoga so as to relax the mind, do not stress,, do not stress,, even suggested psychic” therapy, he explained.

“Oh so,, easy or if it's that mah,, why not from the first?”, Naz even underestimated.

“Instead precisely because it is easy to be a long heal, if it does not work also later recommended operation he said”.

“Hah,, operation?? Can't take that medicine?”.

“Doctor says he can take medicine, but preferably after marriage, all his therapy is assisted by wife”.

“Oh,, yasudah atuh,, later only if we are married”.

“But,,,,”, says Arfin.

“But why Aa?”, asked Naz.

“But, what if later after marriage Aa still not healed?”, he asked with anxious hope.

“Ehh,, don't say that, only once consul is desperate that way,, don't give up before fighting baby,,, no disease that can not be cured,,,,, no,,, Aa who is sure that Aa can be cured, I always support and pray for the recovery of Aa”, Naz said encouragingly.

“Thank you dear...”, he said smiling.

“Udah Aa follow the doctor's advice, keep not much thought too, let the healing process can be faster, do not forget to pray also”.

“Iya Bu Haji,,,,hehehe”, he said chuckling, "You know what? Masa Mami nyaranin I seek treatment to an alternative he said to Mak Erot continue later massaged-massage with Mak Erot it”.

“Ihh,, kok Aa want to be massaged with grandma-grandmother,, do you massage what?”, asked Naz curious.

“Hahaha, don't know, you won't get”, Arfin seems embarrassed to talk about it.

“Dih, speaking with me if I do not know,, basir”, he said ketus.

“Hahaha,, later also ngerti”.

“Oh yes,, Mama already got WO for our wedding later,, continue to say later we will join the meeting with his WO party, continue to already be able to designer also make wedding clothes,, so later we go to the designer's place as well, if for the Mother's family uniform handle”, Naz reported.

“Wahhh,, has already started the preparation apparently...”.

“Iya dong, they are very passionate, we are the only ones who want to have a casual wedding on the beach, hahaha”, said Naz.

“Hahaha,, yes really,,, ",

“Emmm,, Aa said Mama later her theme wants what color?”, asked Naz.

“As far as you are aj”, replied Arfin.

“If I want pink silver, according to my favorite color, continue if I want to use sunda custom same as Teteh Indri wedding time in Bandung and later there is the custom ceremony that,,, if for the reception want to wear a dress dress princess ,,uchhh funny like”, he said while imagining.

“It is up to you aj”, replied Arfin.

“Keep later if change his clothes how many times?”

“As of you aja”,

“Emm,, continue later if the prewedding photos I want in the lake park, because there is a place that many memories for us,,, actually, I want our marriage contract to be held by the lake, but it is impossible, like, later berabe, not to mention if it rains,, but it is impossible,, so yaudah in the building let all reception”.

“It's up to you aj”.

“Emm, what would the souvernir do?? If I want it that there is a carving of our name or there is a photo of us, or what about A?”, asked Naz again..

“Yes, it's up to you aja”, replied Arfin.

“Iiihhh,, whatever the mu, Aa not very creative anyway,, ngusulin what it is, thanks to input that, this is our marriage is not just a wedding I”, Naz feel upset.

“Ehh, yes, that means Aa it agrees with all your proposals”, replied Arfin feeling shocked by Naz's complaint.

“Yes different or agree the same is up to mah ihh, if agree means fully support, if it is up to me between yes and no, and later when the implementation is protested”, Naz increasingly upset.

“Ya keep Aa should how?”, asked Arfin confused.

“Don't know ah,,, thought to yourself”, said Naz then disconnected his video call connection because he was upset…. Tut tut tut,,,,, that's,,,,

“Loh, ko is killed anyway??”, he said inquiring then Arfin again contacted Naz , but not lifted, until several times was not lifted, after 10 times, after 10 times, naz's phone so inactive so can not be contacted, “Yes,, he even crank again, maybe he again PMS time ya”, Arfin dialogue alone.

“Why Al..?”, asked Bu Hinda to come over and make Arfin surprised by his sudden presence.

“Eh ,Mami ngagetin aja,, when to enter?”, he asked in wonder.

“Then you were busy calling many times, until Mami opened the door you did not realize, what was it?”, asked him who then sat on Arfin's bed.

“This, Naz suddenly ngambek”, he said frankly.

“Ngambek why? There must be a reason, right?”, look at Miss Hinda.

“Iya Mi, he was talking about wedding preparations, he kept asking for Al's opinion, and Al answered it is up to you every time he nanya,, keep him hooked directly close his video call connection, ehh in contact again even not lifted up, until his hape is not active”, he explained.

“Oh, so anyway, it's natural that before the wedding you like a lot of temptations,,, you have to pinter– pinter to react to it and have to be extra patient because here you are much more mature than your future wife, maybe she is again attacked by the Bridezilla” virus , said Bu Hinda.

“Hah, Bridezilla virus,,,?? What kind of virus is Mi? Is that dangerous? Ko Al just heard the name of a virus like that?”, asked Arfin surprised.

“Bridezilla is another term pre-marital syndrome, usually prospective couples who will get married feel dizzy, sensitive feelings so that their emotional level increases when before marriage, because of course preparing for marriage is not an easy thing, so if someone makes you upset you will be angry like Godzilla,,,”, Ms. Hinda explained.

“Oh, so yes Mi, Al think he's PMS so much so,,,,”, Arfin thought.

“Each of him you must be patient, if he is angry you must be able to muffle him by being gentle, do not follow him ignited emotions,, if two-two stricken bridezilla can be canceled later your wedding plan”, Miss Hinda gave advice.

“Iya Mi, thank you Mi”, said Arfin smiling.

“Hemmmm,, yasudah there pray first, we continue to have lunch together, Mami wait at dinner table”, said he who then stood up and left the room Arfin.

“Iya Mi,,, “, he said then got out of bed and went straight to the bathroom.

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