
Preparing for marriage is not an easy thing, when in fact as long as there is a bride-to-be couple, the guardian of the bride, two male witnesses, ijab qabul, and dowry can be married, too, it's just that according to custom and custom always held a thanksgiving or a party. There is a simple party, there is also a magnificent party aka large depending on the ability of each.
This is also what is now a burden on the mind of Naz, who had only wanted a simple party, but his family wanted a grand and grand party. Not only that, even though the marriage contract and the recipe had been agreed to be held in the building so that it was safely controlled without any further struggle for place among the four Naz parents, he said, but this time there is debate again because it is fighting over a place for recitation and watering before the wedding.
Naz instead of divorcing or giving a middle way to overcome the struggle for the place even angry at the attitude of his four parents who did not want to give up each other. Finally Arfin intervened, now Arfin and Naz are sitting in the living room with the four Naz parents to discuss this. Naz sat flanked by his Mother and Mama, while Pa Syarief, Mr. Rizal, and Arfin sat in different chairs.
“Before I apologize, instead of wanting to join set up, it's just that I heard from Naz that there has been a fight for a place again like when will be engaged first,,, just that I heard from Naz that there has been a fight for a place again like when will be engaged first,, so I want to express my opinion and hopefully it can be a solution and a middle ground for both parties”, he said opening the conversation, “Begini Om, if in my opinion, maybe a lecture event that will invite the neighbors and relatives of the executor can be here”.
“No, Arfin also agreed”, said Mr. Syarief felt supported.
“Ya ,, can not do that,, anyway I stick to my stance, his show at home I”, Mr. Rizal did not accept.
“Sorry Om Syarief, Om Rizal, I have not finished talking,, “, said Arfin.
“Dengerin first Arfin oruh hey, do not cut the conversation so atuh, let's continue Ar”, Mother also commented.
“So like this, if in my opinion for the study should be held here, also at the Mother's house, because both of them are Naz's parents and would like to get a lot of prayers from everyone for the smooth running of our marriage and happiness later, ”, Arfin continued his words.
“What does Ar mean? Where might be held in two places at once?”, asked Mr Syarief confused.
“I mean that the study is held on different days, for example here on Friday’at and at Mother's house on Saturday, so both are equal, after all, your residence is adrift a bit far, different districts anyway, but maybe if for a flush event should be in one place, if of the two no one wants to give up, but maybe if you want to, already all her flush in the building that will be used for marriage and reception later, how about Om?”, said Arfin explained.
“I think it's a good idea, it's just that for the flush, usually at the bride's house, not in the building, Ar”, Bu Rahmi also spoke.
“Then, maybe it's good we hear the opinion of Naz, he wants what “ is like, Arfin again gives advice.
“Yes, Arfin is right,, what do you want, Dek?”, asked Mr. Rizal.
“Actually for me the implementation of the flush anywhere is the same, be it in this house or at Mother's house, but I do not think there should be a flush event it feels better”, Naz expressed his opinion.
“But Naz,, no apdol if before the wedding there is no flush,, we want you to feel every detail of the process to your wedding just like people in general”, we want you to feel every detail of the process to your wedding, said Ms. Rahmi.
“Iya Deck, Mama you right”, Mommy agrees.
“But, I don't want to just because of the scramble for a place, causing another squabble between you,, I want my happy day to be accompanied by your happiness too, too, without any dispute in the preparation of my marriage is”, said Naz.
“So how is this?”, asked Mr Syarief.
“Naz, want yes there is a flush event,,,”, persuade Bu Rahmi .
“Iya Dek, right it's a rare moment tea, it's up to you just want where...we do not follow, yes Ma'am?”, Mother also gives freedom of choice to Naz.
“Iya Naz, whatever you want where, the important thing is that the sirman event is still implemented”, Bu Rahmi also becomes devastated.
“Yes up to me?”, asked Naz to make sure.
“Iya,,”, said Mommy and Bu Rahmi together.
Naz fell silent as he rolled his eyes at his four parents in turn, then he let out a long sigh, “Since I was a baby, I lived, grew up and grew up in Dad's house, the house holds so many wonderful memories for me that I will never forget in my entire life, so I chose Dad's house for the show,, If for the same lecture as Kak Arfin said earlier, I hope you can accept my decision, even though it was hard for me to choose, I hope you can accept this decision, and I hope there is no more disagreement between you, because you are still my parents and I don't want any of you to be hurt…. One more thing, I chose this with full consideration, because I knew that when I got married, Papa would be my guardian, not Dad, instead,, so for the flush show I chose at Dad's house, I hope Papa and Mama can accept this, I want to be fair to you guys, because I love you guys so much”, I love you guys, naz said while bowing his head.
“Honey,, we also love you very much”, said Bu Rahmi while rubbing Naz's head.
“Iya, Naz,, Honest Dad was embarrassed because we were already acting tight-knit, and I'm proud that you can act like this,”, you can, said Mr. Rizal who was happy with Naz's decision.
“So, now you have a way out, right?? Fix yes there will be no more debate, and hopefully everything can run smoothly until day H without any obstacles”, said Bu Rahmi.
“Amiin,,,”, everyone agrees with Bu Rahmi's words.
After the discussion was over, Arfin said goodbye to go home, as well as Mother and her husband also agreed to go home.
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The next day, since the morning Naz had been preparing to wait for Arfin who would take him to go to KUA to register their marriage. Naz has provided a photocopy of his KK and KTP along with the original for the completeness of registration, he was deliberately not allowed to enter school, because it had not studied anymore aka free days and just waiting for graduation. Arfin only arrived at 9 am, because he went to the penghulu where he domiciled to make letters NA (male marriage introduction), and, and when he immediately invited Naz to go to the nearest photo studio to be photographed and print it according to the instructions he got from the penghulu when he made the NA earlier. Stelah finished Arfin with Naz and went to KUA where Naz domiciled for the marriage register with the requirements they had prepared earlier.
Arriving at KUA they immediately entered and met the officer for registration. After seeing the completeness, it turns out there is still less.
“This should register to the penghulu in the village or village of the bride, because there must be a signature from the head of the hamlet and the head of the village/lurah local, and this also there is still less completeness”, as well, said the officer.
“Oh so sir, sorry we do not know, we think directly register here,, sorry sir what completeness is lacking?”, asked Arfin.
“This should have a certificate from the Pak” Midwife, the officer said.
“What?? From Midwife? For what, huh? is the certificate healthy?”, asked Arfin again.
“You only meet the Midwife of the village or village where the bride-to-be will be explained by the Midwife, after which you register with a certificate from her midwife”, after which you sign up, the officer explained.
“Oh, so sir, then we excuse ”, said Arfin, then they went to follow the direction of the KUA officer.
“Aa,, we must go to the Midwife of all, like to check the content,,,”, said Naz who was already in the car with Arfin.
“No idea, I'm also strange,, it turns out that there are such requirements”, he said then drove his car to the practice place of the nearest Midwife to the residence of Naz. and after arriving, he said, they also seemed to be confused because they met some patients, there were even patients who were giving birth in the delivery room there.
“Iya ih serem that,, you later do not like that dear,, have to pray a lot”, said Arfin, while Naz instead chuckled. Then they signed up to consult with the Midwife there, and after waiting for two queues, it was their turn to enter.
“Please sit down,, can I help you?”, the Midwife asked.
“Emm,, look ma'am, we will register our marriage to KUA, but he said we need a certificate from the Midwife for the completeness of the requirements”, Arfin explained the purpose of their arrival.
“Oh, yes ,, I understand, briefly ya”, he said then took something from inside his desk drawer, “This,,,, he said,,, please Ma'am go to the toilet to pee and fill this plastic cup with urine Mbak, and later bring here the results" he explained.
Naz got up from his seat and followed what the midwife said, and after a while he came with a cup of plastic containing his urine.”This is Bu...”, he said handed the plastic cup.
“Yeah Ma'am, kok until full of gini, but a quarter is also quite”, said Budan while accepting it, then he took out a tool and put it in the urine was only the tip.
“Hehehe,, Bu Midwife did not say the hell just now, I am afraid of being wrong, so yes it has been to the full course”, he said who then used the handsanitizer available on the table Midwife.
“Loh, why is it kayaking in tespack anyway Bu? I am not pregnant and not here to check pregnancy as well”, asked Naz who was surprised by what the Midwife did.
“This is indeed to make sure the mother is pregnant or not, and this is the procedure in making her statement report, try I borrow KTP and KK along with photocopy”, and, he said then Naz also handed over what he asked, then made a certificate based on personal data and urine check results just now.
Shortly the Midwife also handed over her certificate which was inserted into an envelope, then gave it to Naz along with KK and KTP original Naz, and after completing the administration, then gave it to Naz, they also left the Midwife practice clinic and went to the Penghulu house to register and submit all the requirements.
After everything was done, Naz asked Arfin to wait for him to come to Mother's house, while Arfin went home, because there were some items he wanted to take from Mother's house. Then Naz contacted Mr. Udin to pick him up to Mother's house, because Arfin would be preparing to return to Surabaya.
“You sure you don't have to wait?”, asked Arfin to make sure.
“No need, anyways I have called Mr. Udin just now, he again picked Raline up to his school, continue to pick me up to the house of Bunda”, said Naz while tying his hair that had previously unraveled.
“Udah until now, I got off yes, Aa be careful on the road, don't speed-jumping loh”, Naz then got off his car and after Arfin drove his car, he said, Naz entered the gate, and without realizing it from across it, there were those watching Naz.
“Mbak Iyem where?”, asked Naz who passed by Mbak Iyem on the terrace.
“Mbak want to go to the fruit store, asked to buy fruits, Neng", replied Maak Iyem."Nang.... ",,uh,
“Oh, yaudah if so, I go in first yes, kebelet nih,, hehehe”, Naz then go into the house and go up to the second floor, then he went straight to the bathroom.
“Ahh, relieved to feel,, the feeling had already peed in the midwife's place, kok already kebelet”, he said dialoguing alone then out of the bathroom and into his room. Naz took things from his closet, including the smile he had left behind.
Ceklek , heard the sound of the door being opened, then Naz turned his gaze towards the door that had now been closed and locked.
“Why didn't you say you were getting married?”, asked the man.
“Nga why enter my room?”, asked Naz surprised to see his arrival that arrived.
entering his room, he approached the man.
“Why can you do this to me, Naz”, he asked again while playing the door lock of Naz's room with his finger.
“What do you mean?”, Naz asked back and rounded his eyes.
“Do you know, since I was in school I have fallen in love with you, but why would you marry the man who brought you that, hah”, he yelled.
“Get out of my room right now !!”, said Naz who began to feel fear.
“I'll stay here with you”, the guy is even closer to Naz, and Naz steps back.
“Go....!!”, shouted Naz while pointing towards the door.
“No,, I will not go, I will not let go of you again”, he said, who then wanted to hold Naz's hand, but was immediately booked by Naz.
“Well, if you don't want to go, then I will go, give the key to me”, Naz said annoyed.
“Take it if you can”, he said with a sneaky smile, then Naz was about to grab the jar, but the guy put it in his pants pocket instead, then Naz attacked him but that person was able to resist the attack of Naz, Naz continued to attack but still the man's strength and martial skills were stronger than Naz, so Naz did not wrench, he said, and the man dragged Naz over to the bed. Naz who was in a lying position continued to rebel, then both of Naz's hands were gripped on his head and pinned to the bed, his legs continued to kick but the person was still able to hold it.
“Lepasin breng*ek,,,”, shouted Naz, but the man even stronger clutching Naz's hand.
“Silent,, you better shut up,, if I can't have you well, then only in this way can you be mine”, , he said he then pulled the shirt that Naz wore to tear some of it.
Cueh …. Naz spit on that guy's face, “Lepasin me,,breng*sek... pelin,,, please,, please,, please,,,!!!”, Naz keeps yelling.
Plaque,, that guy slapped Naz
“Huaaaaaaaa,,,,,, please don't do this ,,, don't, I beg,,,, please, please, please..!!!”, Naz keeps shouting as loud as possible.
Gebrakkk.
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