Pariban So Rokkap
Mambosuri (Seven Monthly)
As scheduled, I picked up the host-in-law and Lae from the airport, Netta stayed at home, I asked Eva's sister to accompany her at home, not daring to leave Netta at home alone.
As we had planned for Sunday to hold a mambosuri, I wanted to ask the office driver who picked up the host to the airport, after I thought ... it's not polite to be the same hula-hula if you ask super to pick them up, so I'll pick them up myself.
“The mother likes to be confused when traveling, so just go faster to pick them up, "say Netta reminded me.
“Kan, no Lae Tika”
“Ito, have never boarded plane”
”But that bao host right, can”
“I don't know about eda, because he also once told me that he has also never wandered far, only around Medan , that means he has never boarded a plane”
'Waduh can they later when disembarking the plane, let alone the vast Soekarno Hatta airport' said in my heart.
"All right then "
I left early from home and sent a message to Juna.
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Arrive at the Airport.
Hearing Netta's story I asked Juna for help, asked for the help of employees who served at the airport, Juna's business is now growing, he opened a freight forwarding service company abroad, he said, at every airport, he has a team.
“Good Lae, take it easy my men have found the lae, have been helped to take the baggage, "say Juna, relieved it feels.
“Makasi Lae”
“Jo ...! Let's hang out once in a while, we never have another drink with ”
'Juna is indeed lae kampret ... still call the same name hula-hulanya, he forgot soon I will get the nickname father of two children’ said I in my heart.
“Got able”
“Kok can't?”
“You are yes .. already”
“If eve of week how”
“Laecu ... My wife is pregnant big, so I will always be next to her, so husband standby”
“Oh .. oklah,” Reply Juna again.
Indeed, already have a kampret lae like the Juna, the hula-hula was invited to hurrah, did not know the custom of this Juna.
After waiting for a few minutes, the four of them finally came out of the airport escorted by Juna's men.
“Welcome host lae, host bao”
“Bah le do pick up hami”
“Wah ... lae turned out to pick us up) said Lae Saut sumringah face.
“Ya Lae, it just so happens that there is not much work in the office, itomu do not pick up”
After pleasantries brought them home, when they arrived home it turned out that my mother and my two bones were already at home welcoming their arrival, for some reason. Every family gathers in our house, I feel very happy, I always hope our house is always crowded.
After sitting at home half an hour later Lae Rudi, his wife and Gres came too, saw Rudi and his wife came my in-laws were immediately happy, it turned out to be true, said papi.
The old man not only wanted treasure to be happy, the proof ..my in-laws saw the child and his daughter-in-law coming and could gather, he was very happy.
Moreover, hearing the wife of lae Rudi was pregnant he was getting happier and called the host family Nely in the village.
Later that night, the family discussed about the seven-month plan to be held on Sunday.
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Sundays.
Finally the time came for the event that we had planned; mambosuri or seven months, where the arrangement of this event, the female family who will feed her daughter-in-law and her pregnant child.
Indeed in the discussion that night the Gres bone and the Twin bone as a woman's side or the wife's parents asked me,
"How many people will be invited?"
Because our outpouring of gratitude is the same Netta and we want to get a lot of pots (blessings) from our family.
"Alright Bere"
Sure enough, when the event began the guests who came so amazing, fortunately, papi had anticipated before, asking to set up a tent outside, and, the Nainggolan family and the Situmorang Party family met back at our house, it's like a customary wedding party.
The seats that were arranged outside were almost full, Eva's sister Arnita, aunty Ros was the busiest person of the day.
Finally the show started and I'm really excited for today, because I've never been in person
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Netta and I were sitting on a matting mat that my mother-in-law brought from her own tired village from the bayun (woven alone)
“Kok .. I hang ya Pi,” whispered me the same papi sitting next to me.
Because in this mambosuri event, the parents of the men sit with us and the family of women who come to bring fish and ulos to our foreground.
“Why the hangers are not told anything just bribed,” whispered papi.
“Disapin?” Ask again.
“Yes, the meaning of the mambosuri is in full feeding, so there is your energy for delivery later,” said papi.
“Oh , so”
“You the hell time your sister Mama Arkan seven-month event you stir somewhere,” said papi.
True, Eva's sister also during pregnancy Arkan held a seven-monthly event with our family, but at that time ....I, again her bandals, the same former, ah have continued the same party.
Not long after my in-laws lae Saut and Bones Gres as the Netta family came to our front carrying a plate of three whole goldfish and rice one plate, rice in a plate.
“This is my host, mama, itomu, the same father you came to your house, brought goldfish, to feed you
In this mambosuri or seven-monthly event, your mother, your father, and your father will love you both a lot of food to be strong before you go out, "said the In-law.
But when my mother-in-law said those words of gratitude, I burst into tears at her testimony.
“Inang .. after you said that night, you were already pregnant, after a wait of almost seven years. Mama went to your father's grave with aoppung, mama cried there, mama thanked them, for praying for you from heaven.” My mother-in-law cried as she pleased.
“People cry ho Oma, so cry ito i”
(Don't cry you Ma, so cry ito this) said Lae Saut patting the shoulder of my in-laws. The position of their hands held the sides of the goldfish plate and the hands supported each other until the opening because many families from Nainggolan came.
“Already Brother, bribe our drill it, do not cry again, this we are happy again,” said bone Gres.
Netta also cried to see the host expressing her happy feelings.
“Alright .. this only expresses my happiness, healthy you ya boru hasianku(My beloved Boru) healthy you to the birth,” said Mother-in-law again.
Then the host-in-law fed us both three times starting with me. Then followed from lae Saut as a substitute for the father, the bone was requested, but the bone refused, he asked Lae Saut as a replacement for Lae They.
“Ito, I'm not very good at words, but you know what's in my heart... I love you so much itoku naburju, I love you, be healthy until you give birth yes ito” then he feeds us again three times as well.
After being fed to all the families, then sown rice on the head three times as well, then given also three ulos. namely; i.e;
Ulos Pangiring
Ulos Suri Ganjang
White Ulos
All the names of the ulos, have their own meanings.
After being fed until full, and they love the fish Mas the same Situmorang, now it is Situmorang's turn to love them splinter(meat) exchange, Nainggolan love carp Situmorang love pinahan.
Wah .... unique Batak traditional this, before marriage I did not know at all with Batak customs, but, after marriage and lived, it feels very interesting and beautiful custom Batak.
From this seven-monthly event, we were able to reunite with the Nainggolan or Lumbanraja and the Situmorang family.
The family who came also brought rice, even when I turned my head, the rice was almost half a sack.
Seeing the number of our families who came, I asked Tiara for help my secretary, to add money in the envelope again, before I had prepared several tens, but it was calculated that many came. Actually in custom there is no sharing of envelopes and parcels. This is just our initiative, as our joy, because it has been given the most beautiful gifts in our family, even our own mother did not tell us, if there are parcels and envelopes as gasoline brides.
If you know for sure the hassle of business, repet at length, eating her sister Eva and Arnita is always the key to the guest room, so that you do not see, after the end of the event and when to go home. We share our family's face that came so happy to get the parcel, actually the price is not much, but our joy, our family comes to feel and they will pray.
So the mambosuri or seven-month Netta event runs smoothly and is full of blessings.
Seriate
