Pariban So Rokkap

Refusing to Hold an Indigenous Party

It was Nettalah who forced Edo to come home, there was no intention to introduce his wife to the family, but with the support of Candra and Netta, Edo forgave his aunt and brought his wife to Bali.

The family's disappointment can be treated as well, because the father will soon be the oppung, he will get the first grandchild, I think Candra was going to be disappointed because Edo had children from him first, but he was a good brother.

“Apayang mutely.” We sat in the front yard of the villa.

“Molo adong na parjolo, means adong na dilumbana, molo adong na uppudi means adong nai paimana”

(If there is a first, it means there is a chase, if there is a later it means there is a waiting) said Candra

“What does that mean?” My toot.

“He was given fast means he is ready to be a father, while we are both still waiting, wait ready to get to know each other, waiting for the blessing of his papi and waiting for the readiness of all two-party families”

“Oh cool ”

“I learned to be patient like a brother,” he said again.

“Woven with Edo, he dared to break the ridiculous rules that apply in the family, we are always leading his children who are married to a partner who has social status, and who has,  measure by rank and title.

Aunty did not approve of marriage with her partner, because it is not a civil servant and not from the rich, but she chose a simple woman from Samosir, Edo dared to marry even without the blessing of aunty, Edo, that's an amazing achievement in my opinion”

“Yes, why I used to not like that huh Bang”

“Do not regret what happened. Tivani is a soul mate who is destined for you”

“True Edo said, happy we determined, but I hope I also find that happiness,” Candra said again.

After Edo brought his wife to Bali, that day also increased our new family, Because Edo had no reception for the wedding, the family offered to be held but he refused.

“Why not want?” I asked as we sat down to relax tomorrow.

“No need Bang, all our families people who bother I don't want to be dizzy from hearing their words, besides pity him I'm afraid later he is too tired.” Edo refused to hold a reception for all of our extended family.

“What will our family say if we tell them that you are married,” said mami.

“Don't listen to people who don't understand the state of our family Mi, sometimes not all families really care, they just just ask”

“I agree with the word Kak Eva, the family who cares about it .. the family who wants to cover up the disgrace of his family instead of just indulging it in others.” Arnita commented.

“How about we just have it here, if they come good, if not come it is okay, the important thing is we have told them,” said Tivani, said,  give feedback that we can accept all.

I thought he was going to be quiet when Edo came with his wife, apparently Tivani, acting as the first daughter-in-law in the Candra family who would help them later.

“Truely one of our ways to avoid family scorn, we hold the recipe in Bali, let the old mak more repet, so,” said Eva's older sister mamak who he said the woman who was fighting with aunty while at home mami.

So we agreed to hold a meal in Bali, invite all the families of Manurung and Nainggolan who can attend, we do not want people who are violent to come.

“Let me pay the ticket, new bones yes lae if you come just say,” my word with lae Rudi when he comes home tomorrow because he will work home.

Lae Rudi came back to Bekasi while we were all still gathered in Bali, eating and welcoming events for them were only done in Bali.

“Depart us to make a custom for you after your mother-in-law came out of the meditation room from prison ”

“No host, let your prayers be with us,” said Lyra.

“Bah .. boata, biasana boru Batak, apa lasma rohana molo di baen adatna”

(Wah .. why usually Boru Batak, happy if in making a custom party) said mami again.

“We have agreed not to hold a custom party mamak Tua.” Edo sat down again beside his wife, as if he was afraid that my mother would ask this to anggi boru.

(Boru Fig >Female sister-in-law)

“It does not mind his family?”

“No more, right, no more amang-in-law and mother-in-law, who lived his father-in-law two, and his father and one name, and even then they are not near”

“Mama and Father have died and I'm the only child, why do that, I don't want my father who received my sinamot later and sit in the guarantee, I don't want to, whereas all this time my father and I lived miserable life did not care about them, better money for the cost of making a custom party, we used to buy a house for us,” said Edo's wife.

Smart thinking, it turns out his father-in-law Edo also does not want his son to make a luxurious custom party while living, he just wants his son in blessing only.

True also, as a Batak girl must not be willing his evil father to accept his sinamot, whereas all this time according to the story Netta Lyra and her father were always expelled from their own village.

I agree with the thought of Edo and Lyra, actually if not able to make a large customary feast only blessed it can, those who do a great feast end-to-end sell all their property.

Learn from Candra's extravagant customary party, but who are in debt, so at that time the father's pension pay each month to pay the installments.

This lesson is also for Batak mothers wherever they are, if not able to make a luxurious custom, quite simply do not need to use a luxurious souvernir as in the aunt at that time, auntie wants weddings like the luxurious Aurel and Atta and her expensive perfume covenant.

Want to follow the style of the artist to be praised people to say rich people.

If you want to be like an artist, if you are a luxury souvernir artist, there is usually a company that sponsors, aunty only in her theme that sells perfume as a wedding souvernir.

So the message is also for friends from Batak, traditional parties are not a must, if you feel able to do, if you run out of luxury parties langung contract houses and have to borrow money to survive, if you feel able to do so, better not do it.

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