Pariban So Rokkap
Marhata Sinamot
Still in the village of Dolok Martahan.
Just this first time, I saw that there was a female side family that did not demand much when we wanted to party, what we thought about the family of Rudi's future mother-in-law, was all wrong.
Her future mother-in-law is a very kind and humble family, their family is also economically decent in my opinion, former teacher, children and her daughter-in-law are also a teacher.
The point is that they urge to accelerate the marriage just want to grant the request of their mother who wants to see her children all married, then she leaves peacefully.
“I'm sorry Eda, if my family is always urgent, Bang Rudi will be angry,” Nely said, he came to personally explain everything to Netta.
“Alright, I understand Eda, don't worry, ito Rudi is just tired, later he will talk to eda,” said Netta calm the heart of the wave-haired woman.
“Alright Eda, I went home first” He said goodbye, while lae Rudi was still sleeping, not because he was angry just that he was tired.
Netta and I sat in a lapo near the house.
“Reacted his family is good yes, Dek”
“Ya Bang, then that I was against ito Rudi when he wanted to give up, not many women like him , both the parents and the future mother-in-law, he said, I hope she doesn't change after they marry”
We all feel very grateful, because the women are not much in demand, they do not ask for excessive sinamot, they say that the important party can go well, he said, because the parboru family spoke politely and not neko-neko, our family became sympathetic.
“Already Lae, do not be angry again, pity the prospective host bao, he so feel bad all our family,” said I same lae Rudi, he just woke up
“Ya Ito, pity that eda, she also definitely does not want to rush like that.” Netta also advised Lae Rudi.
We were sitting in a lapo near the house.
“Alright, I am not angry anymore, I understand his position, "said Rudi.
“Then what about Eda kebaya, ito suit also not finished?’
“Later I'll talk again to Nely”
“If not yet Lae, let us find a boutique, I have friends in Jakarta later we order already, , easy, do not be a burden,” I said entertaining, I can already imagine that Lae Rudi's brain must be spinning around like a fan propeller.
But he was very lucky bones and papi took care of everything. So Rudi could feel relieved.
*
That day all our families shared tasks, contacted the party tent section, party tools prepare firewood, splinter, lucky from the women helped and provided support and input to us, he said, so the families of the male and female parties, compact and away from all gossip and problems.
“All families are busy, we do Deck?”
“I'm confused about what”
“Ask your future edamu Ma Paima, how about his clothes for martumpol later.” aunt Ros reminded Netta.
“OH, bou true”
Netta called the bride-to-be, because in Batak custom, ahead of the party, she should not go anywhere else as well as Lae Rudi they will be pinched term, stay at home , ' he said , if there is a new event, it can come out.
“How does kebaya eda for martumpol already exist?” Tanya Netta called .
“It's gone, I borrowed a newly married cousin sister”
“Oh well, congratulations one, now stay ito Rudi”
People who sew lae Rudi clothes also have not worked, because the plan is still a few months away.
*
Then the event martuppol also goes well, for the bride and groom are also friends Lyra, wife Aldo recommend her friend's boutique in Medan, for Kebaya and Jas Bride, and the, so all problems can be solved.
One event after another went well, starting from Marhusip, Martumpol Marhata sinamot and this is the most important, the most important, before the family came to our women's party's house the family discussion about sinamot or the price given to Nely.
In Batak custom, the higher the school of a Batak girl, the higher the price offered by the parents of the women.
Many Batak parents also think only about money rather than the happiness of their child's marriage.
Do not go far, mami first when Sister Eva married, she also asked for a very high price on the family of her sister's husband Eva, because she is a nurse.
I still remember my mom fighting with me about the sinamot. So mami one example of Batak parents who pecked the price of sinamot.
“They do not set the price of sinamot, so whichever one we love?” Ask Gres' bones when deliberating at home.
“Let's give five million no school, just a subdistrict smanya ... it's lucky he got the police, of all of us, ulos, fish they just stay present,” said mami.
“Don't be so mami, evil times this mami's mind, the same turn of people's children so, my sinamot you asked exorbitant, when only the nurse is usually me,” said Kak Eva mami directly hit by skatmat.
“You, just jump up everything," said mami annoyed
“Makanya mami do not just think about the feelings of the family of the female side," Reply papi defended Sister Eva.
“Do not judge the price of a woman from her school alone Bou .. She sacrificed her school for the sake of taking care of parents, it's an extraordinary devotion, not many people do that,” said Netta.
“Yes, right I agree with Eda Netta,” reply sister Eva again.
“But the request is not much mama Paima."Mami glanced at Netta.
“Namboru, if we make their families respectful, people will also respect us and respect the family of the future in-law of Rudi,” said Netta.
“True Bou, I do not want others to consider this mama one eye again, precisely at this time, actually I want to invite all this village and neighboring villages, I have agreed the same ito Netta ,” said Lae Rudi.
“Lae is right, Netta is a doctor, Lae Rudi police, prove to everyone that the family of Mama Saut or oppung Atika has succeeded,”.
My mother-in-law and Lae, who had been quiet, finally smiled.
Netta once told me that all the neighbors and people in the village had always considered the Netta family low, but now it was time, to prove that they had succeeded.
Not to show off, but this is one of the proof that my mother-in-law even though a widow managed to raise her children well.
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