Pariban So Rokkap

Family Greetings

 We arrived and will take a boat across Lake Toba to the port of Pampangan, from there to ascend again to Dolok Martahan.

“Bapak Paima still remembers you when we came to your wedding just like this,” said Auntie, reminding me of our wedding.

“Remember Tan, will not forget,” I said smilingly.

“Indeed back then why Bou?” Ask Netta.

“Ingin blur”

“Ha! You want to escape?” Netta glared at me.

“Kan, new hasian plan, but not so proof that you are still sticky to me until now,” said I showed his hand that was wriggling in my arm.

“Basic.” It tickled my waist.

Joking on the ship, people who saw, suspect we are a couple who will get married, because Netta's appearance looks still look like ‘ceken na badia’ like a plain girl.

This time sister Eva and lae came home, adding to the boisterous atmosphere on the way home this time, because how many times Kak Eva returned home, could not come.

But this time he could come, where there was Eva's sister there was a furore, this time like that, too, all the way from Jakarta - Silangit Kak Eva and mami who always make us laugh.

When the ship wants to arrive at the port, Eva's sister still had time to take pictures.

“Mi ... first hold the Jeny, I want to pose in the style of a titanic ship.”

She forces her husband to do so, and she is ashamed and reluctant to do so, but Eva's sister insists and her pedagogue is loh, godly.

“Na heppottan omak ni Arkan on, manabu maho anno tu na Lake toba, muruk annon namboru panjagani Lake Toba i”

(Repot bangat mama the Arkan, fall you later, angry later namboru keeper Lake Toba it) said mami repet.

“Tenim mi, I will be polite, it is impossible to name the inhabitants of this lake Toba angry, if you only take photos. Sorry yes namboru only take pictures,” he said again.

If I have memorized the behavior of Sister Eva, I am sure as long as we are in the village she will continue to update the status and make posts, he said, if he is in the village and all corners of the village want steep hills, want lobbang, want mud he will take pictures. Before the memory of his phone runs out, he won't stop.

What's more there is aunty Ros, they are both eleven twelve, always exist anywhere and anytime.

When we wanted to get off the ship, it turned out that the family was waiting for us at the port, we were greeted like big guests, there were my in-laws and all the Netta and Lae Rudi adek-adak came.

“Bah ... nian do halak eda!”

(Wah ... it's eda!” Shouted mami waving from the ship before we docked.

“Wah, their warm rame is already kayak kita's great guest”Kak Eva also waved his hand from the ship.

“To Netta …! Brother Rudi …! Ro Brother ... Nungga ro itokku sian jakarta”

(Nonsense Netta …! Brother Rudi …! Come my brother ... come my brother from Jakarta.” My little Parluhutan lae cried out in excitement.  When the ship stopped, he ran to the shore.

“Paima di sida unang roseko”

“Wait there yes, do not go up to the stairs of his ship,” said Netta gently, asking his little sister to keep waiting for him under the ship because it goes down must be one-on-one.

“Olo Kak .. Bang Maloppat maho tuson, asa huhaol ho, nungga stillol au”

“Ya Kak .. Bang Rudi, jump you here, let me hug, brother already miss me the same brother,” he said impatiently again, he looked up at the ship.

Everyone who went downstairs laughed at the innocent attitude of lae parluhutan.

“Do not mang .. later broken leg your brother can not walk, cancel us party,” said aunt Ros joking.

“Near ni Bang, higher branch lute in our field,” he said again, it seems he was serious with his words he can not wait to hug lae Rudi.

“Molo songoni takkupma bag son da, asa mngaluppat au”

“Then catch my bag yes let me jump,” said lae Rudi.

“OLo”

After descending, he actually hugged lae Rudi tightly, after descending Netta also directly hugged his mother, after greeting each other, we went home, we went home, before we were not in my village and Netta had rented three cars for us to use while in the village.

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The night the Nainggolan family and the Pandiangan family met, we came to see the future mother-in-law Lae Rudi, right, his condition was already seriously ill, everyday just sleeping on the bed.

At first our family felt goiter with their request, but we arrived at his house, the family was a simple family and not much demands.

“Sorry Hami Lae molo tung gabe mangarepoti sude family”

“Pardon us Lae if our request so make all the family bother,” said Nelly's biggest brother, feel guilty for urging to hold a party.

“Sebenarna dang pattern songoni nian lae, ala akka time do, si Rudi maol dapot leave na”

(Actually not so Lae, it's just a matter of time, the Rudi is difficult to get a leave of absence) said Gres bone, he ah who spoke directly.

Nelly was just silent, her face was so depressed, Lae Rudi was also initially very angry at her for continuing to be pushed, Lae Rudi said, but after we saw the condition of her parents and the guilt of the family on the part of women, our family finally melted down as well.

Frankly the Nainggolan family had time, had a bad mind on the prospective women.

"Maybe he urged, for fear of staying with Rudi, the police are afraid that there is another woman in Jakarta." Mami had spoken like blue in the car when we left for the village.

But this time, after Nely's house, we understood their reasons, it turns out long before Rudi became a policepu family from the women's side had asked them to marry.

" Retell hamu ma songondia na deggan amang"

(Bikinlah the best Amang, asalma Saut pestai, molo songon si namot, na parpatupa hamu ma"

(You set up how good it is, which is important to be a party, when it comes to sinamot or panic don't worry, just as you can, "said mama Nely in a soft voice.

" Nauli ito, molo songoni "

(Listen ito if it is like that) said bone Gres.

" In fact, Nely pe dang adong sae dope kebaya na, dituhoma naung so i"

(Actually the Nely is also not a danger, then buy the finished one)

" Ake boha hamu na two brides-to-be holan na sip hamu nadua"

(Then how you two, bride and groom, don't just shut up"

"Yes Father uda"

Finally Rudi was not angry anymore, because as long as we returned home, he was just silent, even the phone from Nely he turned off. But this time, everything was explained the reason. Rudi finally understood and agreed to continue the wedding as planned.

Seriate

" Mommy is wrong .. they are not a family that is crazy for wealth, not all women want property and wealth mami," whispered Sister Eva.

"Yes Mommy was wrong"