Pariban So Rokkap

Pariban So Rokkap
Children Program Plan Welcomed by Family



Still in our house.



Bali at night.


That night we actually had no intention of unpacking about the checks we were doing. But because of our initial talk about Tivani not being able to get pregnant.


Seeing mommy so worried I was forced to tell them our plan.


“Actually a few days ago before you guys came here, I'm the same Netta already met a great doctor who will be our doctor for baby tube program later”


“Really ... when?” Ask Papi with teary eyes.


“Next year Pi, but I'm the same Netta has consulted langung with her doctor, no problem me and Netta healthy”


“Makanya papi patiently .. do not listen to the word people, look ito just calm down, because they believe God will give it,” said Sister Eva.


“Lagian Netta is also young Pi, let us enjoy the courtship we missed first, until this year, in the future if you have children there will be no time alone again”


“True bangat ito, look at me, if you already have children, boro-boro alone sometimes time for yourself is not there,” said Kak Eva.


“What it will be able to succeed?” Ask Mami.


“Successful Mi, we just need preparation and need consideration first”


“What else are you considering, do not be long papi impatient”


“Papi or mami that does not taste good to people?” Cletuk Sister Eva.


“You are as I blame mami, I am never right in your eyes”


“Not Mi, sometimes mami is wishy-washy, sometimes make people so confused, later say let it go first.


 Later, it's someone's turn to offend when your child has children, mami immediately carelessly unclear .. whereas ito sam Eda is fine”


“All parents are like that too, Mama Arkan,” said mami defended herself.


“Not all just mami,” said Sister Eva, mami can not talk much in front of sister Eva.


“If the constraints about the cost of papi can help Mang,” said papi.


“Not a Pi” charge issue


“Then?”


“It's about the time, December will be lae Rudi want to marry we must be home”


“Oh, means party out?”


“Actually there is a lot we have to think about Pi, Netta wants to go to school again to get a specialist degree”


“Holan na sikkola, lalap sikkola molo dung family marhuabe pattern sikkola”


(School continues, school continues, if you are married again to do school) Mami said back to repet.


Mami does not like if Netta is in school again, she does not want the position of Netta or her salary is higher than me, she said pamali, can be husband under the armpits of the wife, like aunty Candra.


“Mami .. it's new discourse, parbada kali mami here,”ujar Kak Eva again.


“Not Parbada, but if you are married enough to take care of the house, husband, children to make money, let the husband's business be the duty of a man wife at home.” Mommy stays with her stance.


“The mind of ancient mami, today many women are leaders, women are not ancient anymore, who can only take care of the house and children,” reply Kak Eva do not want to lose the debate, he said,


“Later, if Jeni can walk, I will also work, want to make my own money, want to go with friends, every day see my mom bored also”


“Bodat ..!” mami said annoyed.



While Netta was silent, she was not angry nor defended herself, she was only a listener of the child and mother debate, her face was flat again, I was always afraid that Netta would be quiet like that, I don't want him to be angry.


“Netta gets a recommendation from the hospital now, as they see Netta has the potential, time to complete the practice exam of the late Nando Netta who completed his last practice test with the best score, and, they know that Netta both studied in Germany as well”


“Kan, already a doctor, what else do you want?”


“Netta new general practitioner Mi, to have special skills will have to go to school again”


“That's what mom said, keep school, then when's the time to take care of you”


“As husband I support Mi, for me it does not matter , Netta is smart, love her cleverness if not utilized”


Mami began to furiously not clearly babble at length, papi just shook her head.


“Then what are the preparations Mang?” Tanya papi ignored the mami who fussed.


“All his files have entered Pi, it happens that senior doctor Netta who in Jakarta was transferred to be deputy director at the hospital here, he knows Netta from the past college, he mentors Netta also”


“OH ... file has entered, eat it I'm the same Netta it stay ready Pi, ready not a matter of money, we have set aside our savings for it”


“Then what donk is the problem?” Ask Mami in a high voice.


Papi glared at mami. “Mami can be silent no!”


When the temperature was instantly silent, that's what I like about papi, he was different from the man and husband out there, papi it's a husband and father who can be joked with, but there was a time, he was firm on his wife.


“I'll just want the best for them Pi”


“The best same mommy has not been certain best for them, they are adults, already know which is good for their life”


“Yes, do not mami to kayak aunty, all the lives of her children are arranged, now pity Candra's life she is like eating simalakama fruit. Forward wrong backward wrong”


“Means?” Mami squinted both of her eyebrows.


“He wants to survive for the sake of the household, but his father-in-law asks Tivani to leave Candra, he wants to leave everything, but pity uda's father who is sick from thinking about his marriage. Try to imagine how difficult the position of Candra, she must be confused”


“Yes, that's the result if parents are too meddling in the life of their children,” cletuk papi he glanced at mami.


This time I was also shocked, I did not know that Tivani instigated her papi to leave Candra.


“Kok sister knows? If Papi Tivani asks to leave Candra?”


“Tivani herself whose story is the same we did Eda” Netta nodded.


“Papi Tivani said that the aunt destroyed her relationship with his wife”


“Actually the aunt did not cause her mother Tivani to leave, her cheating papa was with her secretary, the aunt only saw her and suppressed her with the secret of the affair.


Her mother Tivani should be happy because her husband's affair was exposed due to her daughter-in-law who was drunk. Try Candra was not drunk at that time, maybe they will lie to her family forever,”.


“Iya it's true pity is actually the same Candra, This is a lesson for mami Yes, never interfere again what ito same Eda did, the mother was better to support and pray for it, she said,” said brother Firmly.


Mami was immediately silent, papi and I just held back a laugh, only Eva's brother was the only one who dared to speak firmly like the same mami, mami, I hope that our plans for next year can be implemented so that our parents do not worry anymore.


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