Pariban So Rokkap

Got the Stakes from the Aldo Family

After a few days in the village, Netta asked me to accompany her to come again to Aldo's tomb, even though before the party she had come there. But after their dream was successful he asked me to accompany him again.

I did not reject him and should not be jealous anymore of the dead, we came to Aldo's tomb, his grave is near, will pass through Aldo's grave before Netta's house, we had come quietly that Netta Samai's sisters knew, I was sure they would ask to come along and Aldo's grave would be like a night market.

Before going to the tomb, Netta stopped by Aldo's parents' house, because Aldo's house was empty yesterday, his mother again to his son's house in Medan, which is the house of his son, when we came mama Aldo or the host uda was already at home, saw Netta came he cried loudly calling Aldo's name.

“Aduh ... has come Netta Mang, has become her doctor, you should be both doctors,” he said again.

“Already Ma, later rose again the tension of mama,” said a man whose face looks like Aldo, I suspect he's Aldo's brother.

“Already Namboru, I want to go to his grave first, this is where the name ya”

“Gak, come with me, I also want to tell him something”

“Kan, yesterday uda Ma, time every day,” said the brother in a soft voice

“I do .. ikkon daily do au mamereng anakki. God alap want asa boi rap dohot anakkiii dohot pakanna .. ah tahhe matching pe au naing alapmu Lord”

“Ya .. I have to see my son every day. Lord hurry up I call so that I can live with my son and my husband .. ah, when I am you call God,” he said again crying.

“What host always come to his grave Bang?” my many.

“That's how anggia, since Aldo died mama sometimes like a dazed person, he always comes every day to this grave, but forgets to go home”

“What is senile disease?”

“That doctor in Jakarta he's like depression”

“Ah, she should have people guard every day Bang”

“I am Anggia who came home, I was living in Batam, opened a business there, saw the state of mama like that, as a boy I went home to take care of”

‘Wah, very filial brother ini’

The condition of Aldo's mother, after his death experienced pain that I think is concerning, he was like depressed, after losing his son.

The two of us were still walking behind, while Netta led the uda host towards Aldo's tomb, which was behind the house. Arriving at Aldo's grave, Mama Aldo cried again, along with feeling the pain felt, no one in this world is willing to lose a loved one let alone a child.

Netta also returned to crying while venting.

“Hai Do, I have made your dream come true, I have held a free treatment in our village, the health service will conduct counseling in remote areas as well, and will build a free treatment center later, the health service will be, the road in our village will also be repaired, I have done all our dreams .. rest in peace yes, pray Namboru from heaven, so that he is strong,” said Netta.

Hearing the curse of Netta's brother and sister-in-law Netta joined in crying, her mother increasingly cried and hugged Netta.

We just stand behind the two of them.

“Pah .. don't cry again the host will get dizzy again his head.” The late sister-in-law of Nando warned.

“Leave it, because there is Netta, let be satisfied all that is in their hearts”

After being satisfied to vent and sow flowers, Netta reached into her pants pocket to take out flower seeds, sprinkling them on her best friend's grave.

After returning home from the grave of the uda host took us again to his house to bring to the room of the deceased Nando, when he arrived at his room on all the walls of the room almost every corner there is a photo of the four of them Nett, and there is a picture of the four of them, Aldo, Garini, Lyra his wife Edo, Netta invited me to come into the room to see their photos as a child, Netta laughed at the photos of their togetherness but her tears dripped.

I don't want to see the sadness of those two I go out and sit in front of the house.

“Netta is like our family members,” said Abang Aldo.

“I know Bang, Aldo told me.

While again chatting in front of his wife was busy in the kitchen, after a few hours, sitting down.

“Ikkon jolo manganese dison do hita da anggi! adong naeng si baen ni oma tu hamu”

(We have to eat this Dek, there are those who want to be loved by your mother the same you”

“A-a no need Bang”

“No, it must be so customary, ask Netta for sure she understands”

Netta out of room, “Ta, this is where Dek” used to be

“What Bang?”

“Tell your husband if you come to visit home people have to eat right?”

“City children should be taught a lot Bang,” said Netta, he went to the kitchen and helped with cooking.

Not wanting to be considered ignorant of my customs, I am increasingly convinced that Netta is indeed very close to the family of the deceased, Netta treats the house of the deceased exactly as her own home, he said, there were things scattered on the sofa he cleaned, when he saw the porch of the dirty house he swept.

‘It's fitting that the departure of your best friend had made you hit for almost weeks, it turns out you are not just a friend, you are like part of this family’ I said in my heart.

Netta also checked the drugs that will be taken by mama Aldo, massage the legs of mama Aldo, during the meal we were told to sit stabbed to eat goldfish and in ulosi and in sow rice on our heads.

“I pray you two are given a bogey ya Host ya Amang, remove all curses and misfortune from your body, multiply blessings and sustenance and health”

I was surprised that we were both in ulossi and fed goldfish, I was so moved, how many times we were fed goldfish from all bones, mamak, old, old, my name is I never cry or be moved. But somehow, when the uda host that gave us ulos I shed tears because of touched.

‘What is this …? the man I hated so much his family prayed for us, and gave us pots (blessings). Forgive that jealous attitude first appara’ whispered me in my heart, I feel my hair goosebumps.

“Molo tarsongot ho amang, sai anggiatma tutu songgot ni pasu-pasu i ro tu hamu”

(If you are surprised, son, the easy blessing also comes suddenly to you)

I was very surprised, he meant not to think, at first, I thought it was just an ordinary dinner, like a guest came to our house, I don't think that the Aldo family gave a fish standing on hot rice, that's what they describe as giving a pot or blessing.

 After returning home from Aldo's house, I felt blessed and wise counsel from Aldo's mother and Aldo's brother as well

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