Pariban So Rokkap

Stakes From Bones

After returning from the streets, it was time for us to do the long-awaited event with Netta, my mother-in-law again invited the neighbors and close relatives who were in the village. House host in-laws back rame.

All events for Lae Rudi as a newlywed, as usual if there is a newlywed who will go home to the overseas will hold an event called ‘pajaehon’ asking for children to live independently with his wife, who will be in the process, if the house is close to the parents are usually given cooking utensils. Because Rudi and his wife are going home to Jakarta, so, just have a meal.

Rudi's family-in-law finally allowed Lira to join her husband to Jakarta and in exchange, her son would take care of their mother in the village, then the day was held three events at once, bones feed us .

After the early morning pilgrimage to the tomb of my oppung and bone or father-in-law.

Finally the event we were waiting for finally arrived also today, the three of us were already sitting on the matting mat.

“Kok I feel the hangers yes,” whispered me the same Netta,

Why should be groggy, this is the umpteenth time we face a way like right,” said Netta.

“I feel this as our last ritual”

“Pict just like that”

“I hope to go home from here, we can pasu-pasu”

“Amins. But don't focus too much on it, hope it is possible but don't be, based on it, I mean, just be patient..Our plan will still run next year, be patient, stay a few months, stay a few more,” whispered Netta he gave me spirit.

“Alright Hasian”

Tivani was only silent when following the traditional event that day, when parents spoke the language of the Candra area which was the translation for his wife. But I was happy to see him because he was so enthusiastic, while following all the rows of events, he said, even though at their wedding party in the past Tivani had wanted to go from the bridal stage because they were bored following the long series of their wedding customs.

That day, he smiled a lot even though there are some of our family who use the Batak language to give advice at length to him, but even though a did not understand it means he still heard it politely.

“My coat is the same as Vani, although he does not understand the language, but he wants to listen to it,” whispered Netta.

“Because she's already in love with our family”

Candra was very moved when our bones prayed for her as well to quickly get a baby, no one was talking about a aunt who went to prison.

Then we will give the ulos again, starting from the bone feed us and give ulos, the same thing is done for Candra and Tivani, too, finally the important event was finally implemented as well, hopefully bringing blessings to Lae Rudi, as well as Candra and us.

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After the series of events was completed, tomorrow the day after almost two weeks in the village finally the family went home one by one, but our family will go straight to the field, he said, because my opponent from the papi is having a birthday party, so all the children and grandchildren should come.

Arriving in Medan, I felt very tired, all the way from the village I was very tired, hoping to arrive at the oppung house, I immediately slept.

“Abang nguap mulu, just sleep if sleepy,” Netta said while in the car to Medan.

“Can't sleep if, his car's rocking”

“If the car is on the road, it is natural there is a Bang shake, if it is silent it means the car stops”

“Sleepy but can't sleep Dek”

When I got down at my emotional oppung house suddenly overflowed, there was Brayen there.

“Old Father, Bang ...” Brayen hasn't touched us yet but my brain is already hot.

“You showed up here!” I want to beat him up.

“Bang …! What you want to do.” Netta frantically pulled my hand back, almost ruining the mood that day. Netta and Brother took me away and gave me a drink.

“It's been, sit down for a while calm down, please do not do bad things ito, pity mami, later he omelin oppung boru again,” said Sister Eva.

My head was still feeling very dizzy, probably because it was awakened when it was good to sleep.

“Why it appears again now,” I said again.

What Brayen did in the past is still very much in our hearts, because he almost lost his life, he sought Brayen to his friend's house and his mami's bag and valuables were robbed in a narrow alley, fortunately he fled, if only he had not run away, perhaps his neck had been slashed with celurit.  Suddenly suffering in the past flashed through my mind. Netta calmed me down to massage my head to relax more.

“Come, you sleep first Mang, later after sleeping I'm sure your mood will be better”

I followed Papi to the room of the oppung house, took me to sleep there, it was already a disease that was difficult to cure, if sleep is suddenly awakened I can suddenly get angry for no apparent reason.

After a few hours of sleep, I woke up, the eyes of all the family were on me.

‘What I did earlier was so embarrassing’ I sat down, there was shame.

“Sini, sit Mang”

Just sat Brayen coming in front of me, and he apologized.

“I'm sorry Bang Jo, I'm sorry for what I did in the past,” Brayen said.

Between the shame of being upset mixed into one, I was angry with Brayen, but that was not the way to reprimand him, what I did was not right.

“Alright, forget it, don't talk about it anymore, my head hurts again,” said my head still feels throbbing dizzy, maybe too much meat when in the village not to mention eating durian.

“Please forgive Bang, your brother, father uda who persuaded him to come home, because father uda was already sickly”

“Good Father uda”

Actually nothing in the world can truly forgive a person's great mistakes, only circumstances and situations will force us to be sincere.

‘Alright .. I will forget so that there are no more problems’ I build.

Tomorrow, the birthday event of my oppukku in Medan also run lively, but after finishing the party I asked permission to go home first on the grounds Netta will work, but after the party I asked for permission to go home first, I don't want my opps and the family from papi to bring up the past, because there is Brayen there, the past let it be a memory, life will go on. That night we flew from Medan to Jakarta

Seriate.

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