Pariban So Rokkap

A Wedding Plan

We are still at home bone Gres discussing about the wedding plan lae Rudi, he said that he was not ready to get married, while the family of the candidate urged him to get married.

“Boasa haroa borat roham, mangoli? Alani manukkuni do hami amang in order akkang sian huta dohot brother on hami ro”

(Why do you mind getting married? That's why we came Gres' brother and sister from the village asking us to ask you directly) The twin bones were sitting beside lae Rudi.

“Godang kian dope my mind father uda, adek-adekku sikkola dope asi roha mamereng omai uda”

(Many more things I think uda, pity the mama , father uda) replied Lae Rudi.

“We will help Bones for the cost of marriage, yes Bang,” Arnita told me.

Arnita calls the bones to Lae Rudi, because the mangulaki bones or the eldest uncle's son will be called the bones back, not a cousin in Batak.

“The problem is that I am not mentally ready to marry Ito, I do not want later the marriage we live interrupted in the middle of the road because it has not been mental preparation,” said Lae Rudi.

“Ake host bohado your opinion, lean jo your opinion,” said bone Gres.

“If I'm private, ito better get married, what else will be the parents of the future eda who asked. Because the age of someone no one knows, do not later become regrets, if about the sisters, ito do not worry we send every month. If the reason is not ready, every marriage no one graduates, all learn”

What Netta said was very clear, when all the families persuaded lae, she was always not ready, but after Netta gave her response she denied again.

“How about brother saut Ito?’

“What does it have to do with brother Saut, ito will not overstepi”

“She has not been engaged,” said Lae Rudi.

“Ito, they have been blessed, mangadati is not a forced necessity ... in blessing that is the most important, they make their custom after having money can”

“I want it brother Saut was adati dulau”

“Ito, not all what we want to happen, maybe ito think of ito Saut, let not trivial people to him, it's good ito, but the conditions and the situation are not supportive, he said, ito Rudilah who married first”

Lae Rudi always thinks about family than her life, because when she married first, just in blessing just like that, there is no traditional reception, he said, when Rudi lae in the village he heard that the wife was ledekin mothers with the name boru naso martuhor.

This means that there is no sinamot or panaik during the party.

“Since then I was determined to make a custom party abang”

“If that's what you think, we can make their custom at your party,” said father Uda.

“Lagian mama also already support Ito, calom eda ito always help mama he said to rumah”

“Yes, he lives in the village, his family does not allow to migrate”

Lover lae Rudi lives in the village, at first I think lae Rudi changed his mind because he was a police officer and lived in Jakarta, it turns out everything is all around in lema, his future wife's only daughter, his only daughter, and the last of his brothers' children were all living out of town, so if they married, his wife would stay in the village to take care of her crippled mother.

 So Rudi disagreed, he wanted his wife to cool him down and live together, while the party wanted her son and her husband to live in the village. It's hard if someone has to give up.

“It's who has to give up,” said Netta.

“I have to request to move tasks?”

“No need, after marriage let eda was living in the village and ito remains on duty in Jakarta. Mom's part is very supportive”

“Alright,” answer lae Rudi finally.

“Sian au nimmu attong Bere, boat nutmeg si Arnita”

“From I said Bere, why should Arnita) Say twin bones.

“I no longer work Bones, just expecting a Paksu salary. If Arnita is the great mistress, her contractual efforts from her mother-in-law are thirty doors each month. Scene her contract now”

“Live thirty spelled out this sister, two pulu doang door,” reply again.

Oh, her mother-in-law gave them a fairly large area of land in the factory area in the area of Cileungsi, so the mother gave her advice to build a contract only because it was near the PT and the plan was successful, so the mother advised that the contract was built, what else Arnita does not have to make a high price, he gave a standard rental price, even though the building is good.

It turns out that life experience has changed my sister Arnita, when we asked her why it didn't cost her in a ride she said pity.

It turns out that when Mami used to drive her to Subang because she was pregnant out of wedlock, she had contracted a farmhouse when she ran away from the man she paid to be her husband, after he was beaten while pregnant.

He contracted home for fear of returning home, an experience that changed his life. Even the rent mami in Arnita lower the price, if people usually add years up the rent money, but now the money rent mami down the price, if people usually add up, so the woman who used to be very arrogant and arrogant has changed once, she became a person who likes to help.

So when Lae Rudi refused to marry this year, he offered to help with the cost of my wedding, thinking Lae Rudi refused to marry because of lack of cost, but did not.

“But, it's okay I'll help the bones too,”.

“Do not worry, not only Arnita namboru will also help, we will go home,” said mami.

We were all so excited, I got goosebumps hearing the support of mommy, because this was the first time that senior horneng gave such support.

“Abang and father uda also go home, we will getong royong, do not feel you are alone, I know what you think from earlier, you feel very sad because brother is no more, you are very sad,” said twin bones.

Lae Rudi cried very sad, our family did not want to help, but everything has changed, we will help each other if we can.

“So pos ma roham da amang undukkkon ma call ni boru ni rajai, ”

(So tighten your heart yes Nakayakayakan only, invite your future wife) said bone Gres.

“Iya Father uda.” Lae Rudi nodded .

So we can arrange it from now on Bang, we coordinate with brother in the village,” said the twin bones.

Because they are the father of Netta's father's brother, they are the ones who act, if usually in the party building these two bones are sitting on the stage with the bride.

“So brother is not in this house anymore donk.” Gres was suddenly sad.

“Don't cry you Nang, he's still your brother, even though he's married”

“But he will no longer love us, his attention must be the same his wife.” We all laughed at once moved, they were all very kind and obedient.

“No, look brother Netta, he is married still love you guys”

“She married our own family try each other,” protest again.

“No Deck, if you get married later, you stay at our house later.

The faces of Gres and his three sisters were very happy.

Alu hoped that during the lae Rudi party later, Netta would be able to leave so that we could go home all for the pilgrimage to the bone tomb so that everything

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