Pariban So Rokkap

Boruni Na Pogos

Boru ni napogos (the.From poor families)

Salute to Edo, he dared to violate the ridiculous rules that apply in our family, which always lead his children who are married to a couple who measure by rank and title.

Aunty did not approve of marriage with her partner because he was not a civil servant, and not from the rich, but Edo chose a simple woman from Samosir, Edo was brave, he married though without the blessing of aunty, Edo, he found his own happiness not his parents.

True Edo said for what to marry a woman who has a title but has no love and no adab.

Love is hindered blessing is difficult, Edo is different from his family, if Candra and his other sisters are always according to what aunty said, but Edo is alone, other Edo, he is firm and does not want to be regulated with aunt, he is very suitable to be a state servant.

He also did not like to see the attitude of the father uda who was too obedient to the words of aunty, actually according to Edo's story at that time, he asked for marriage first from Candra, who asked for marriage, but aunt refused on the grounds that it was not good to step over brother.

Then he complied and relented, after Candra married Edo came home from Malang asking permission same aunt.

Aunty refused, for the reason of not being allowed to marry one family in the same year in Batak custom, it is true unless there is a very urgent.

 While the father of his future wife, was sick and asked his daughter to marry, the case is similar to lae Rudi who asked his son to get married quickly, the difference is that lae Rudi is her mother-in-law but that Edo is her father-in-law.

Edo came again asking for blessing to aunt, if they want to marry only blessed first, do not need a custom party because of urgent circumstances.

But the words of aunty make Edo disappointed, aunty rejected his candidate because boru ni napogos poor child, felt unable to blessing Edo married in Medan in his Namborunya home without the presence of aunty.

When he came back to Bogor to tell them that they were married, there were a lot of problems that happened, when Candra was beaten at the bar, then father uda who suddenly got sick, and then he was very sick, that was the reason for not bringing his wife back then.

He explained everything, finally Lasria and Riko understood what the reason Edo did not invite father uda to his wedding.

“Ehe .. soadong apala mas na... what is gelleng-gelleng pe taho nian, dang adong na balga nasa ni thin ni bulung ****-sangge pe taho nian, on lak so adong.”

(Eee ... there is no gold .. Even if it is small, there is no big gold, as thin as leaves of lemongrass does not exist) said mami again half whispered, me and papi just shook their heads at the old-fashioned thinking of the senior horneng. What my mother said was heard by Edo.

“So Old Mak .. boru ni napogos do parumaenmon, Sister Netta nungga dibotoi”

(So old mama .. poor family is your daughter-in-law, brother Netta already know that) said Edo, same mami because the look of mami sanga annoying in my opinion, mami saw his wife Edo from the top to the toe.

Indeed, it is natural law of the time for Batak hosts to see prospective daughters-in-law, always seen from the many gold used, fortunately Netta does not like to use gold.

Our eyes were all on the horneng. “Indeed Paima knew?” ask mami.

“Know, she's Netta's sister's schoolmate dut”

“Haaa ..?”

We all spoke in unison Netta just chuckled.

“You know Dek?” manywould be surprised.

“Actually, when I was just entering education, I had a visit with my boss to Samosir, I met Netta at her school,  he took his friend and from there we became friends on Facebook, initially just regular friends, then met again when the oppung died when the father drove us home, actually we stayed at the same place as Candra's brother Rikko, because we couldn't plane that night”

“Oh, that's this sister?”

Riko surprise. “It turns out it was Edo's brother's girlfriend? You said it wasn't then? Fortunately I did not approach,” said Edo.

“Initially it didn't,” reply Edo.

 Even had a long relationship. After they break up, Lyra meets again, with no promises and no plans. Precisely when our oppung died and Netta had just returned from Germany, Edo's future wife came to Samosir and was reunited with Edo.

 According to Netta Aldo, Lyra, Netta and there is one more woman, the four of them are the stars in their school first, because they are known to be children of achievement.

But of those four only Lyra Edo's wife is not in college, because it has no cost.

“So the time doctor Situmorang died eda came home?” Ask Eva curious.

“Rome of Eda, it was sad to see that namboru, he passed out several times,” he said starting the story.

“So what did your parents do da?” Mom is still materialistic.

Edo's wife's face was immediately very sad.

“Digger Nam oil, same as father,” said Netta.

“Means?”

“I mean already died Mi, slow bangat anyway, anyways from earlier nanya continue to damage the atmosphere only.” Sister Eva Annoyed.

“No idea mom heppot.” Artnita was upset.

“Mami just asked”

Mommy's always in the wrong place.

“Not just that bone, the bone is also,” Netta said.

‘Orphaned gosh’ I said in my heart.

We all fell silent.

“So Nam, he and I were the poorest in our school, the middlemen in our school two just sat in class because they had no money, no money, if hungry we only drink water”

“From lake toba,” said Lyra with teary eyes.

“If the late Nando does not serve us both, we will not snack,” said Netta.

“Have it, forget your past will be sadder,” said papi.

“Then it's the father, Las, bang accept him as a daughter-in-law in our house, he's my chosen woman who accompanies me to old age. How is the attitude of Kak Netta like that she is, it's just my most beautiful wife Bang,” said Edo joking.

“Eee .. make no mistake. Borneng who is always ahead,” said I do not want to give up because I think my wife is the most beautiful

Hearing that he was Netta's best friend all welcomed him well, I saw Edo's wife boru batak naburju and was patient, I was sure that she could be a blessing in their family, I believe Edo dang wrong mamillit boru ni rajai

(Wrong mamillit > not wrong choose wife)

Because soon Edo will bring the first grandchild in their family,

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