Pariban So Rokkap

Maintaining a Family or a Couple?

After explaining everything to the family about our plan, they all finally accepted our decision. Our baby tube program will take place next year after Rudi gets married.

After we asked for food from my last bone, it was Mr. Netta, because he was dead, so lae Saut who replaced the bone figure later.

“Alai pangidoankku, ndang pattern be sikkola nai Paimaon”

(But my mother's request, no longer this school mama hope) said mami, she looked at Netta who was near me.

“Mi, don't start again, earlier , already calm have agreed on repeat,” said papi.

“I only put my heart's desire first, because it's afraid of him later so the continuity he school”

“Well Mami, don't worry, Netta also said no soon, later in a few years,”.

“Alright, mami will support whatever your decision,”tapnya later when you see the papi gaze.

Mami, finally not much to say anymore, even though the plan was not realized this year.

Not wanting to procrastinate, but because of a lot of consideration, Netta also plans to be placed only a few months in Bali, we do not know what he will be back in Jakarta here.

While I myself, if I may ask, I want Netta to serve in Bali alone, the atmosphere is calm and peaceful, when the brain is tired of being forced to think, he said, open the door directly to welcome the beautiful beach and the sound of birds chirping that makes the soul feel peaceful.

Now I understand why land and villas in Bali are exorbitant, even twice to triple the price of villas in Jakarta. Peace and quiet are expensive.

Even mami and papi stayed at home in Bali, because the old man needed fresh air and calmness.

 When morning comes.

“Papi had wanted to go back to Medan to farm there, but the atmosphere here is also calm,” said papi.

“We move here only Pi, how?” Mami glanced at her husband who was doing morning sports in the Villa yard.

“Do Not …! Later the same eda ito dizzy, mami right the person is brought up, if just a visit to the child's house is common, but if to live with ito, do not, do not, except if the mother is old and reot, because in Batak custom, parents must live in a boy's house, yes later if it is old, can not take care of themselves, just stay at home ito,” said Sister Eva, that also represents my heart.

Time in Jakarta also I chose to separate from mami because it was also, I did not want the mami was too take care of the problems of our household both, and the family, I don't want Netta to be stressed because she sees a mami attitude that has many rules.

My message to married people, it is better to contract one plot of the house, but live a quiet life .. than to live in a luxurious old man's house, but depressed.

Because there is a Batak phrase that says like this;

‘Molo Jonok stinks, molo dao angur’

(Near the smell, if it is far fragrant > means that if the daughter-in-law and in-laws live one roof, the in-laws will always see the ugliness of their daughters-in-law.

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After a few days of living in Bali, they finally came home, because Arkan would go to school as well.

After everything that happened, I think everything that happened the same Candra will gradually recover, but instead the opposite.

When the quiet day was calm at that time, suddenly he said his papi Tivani came to Bali, to their new home, even blatantly asked Tivani to leave Candra, he said in front of his father that his iron was only in their family.

That day I was just leading a month-end meeting online, because I was lazy to go back to Jakarta, so we were meeting virtually, in the middle of the meeting, in the middle of the meeting,  Lasria called when Tivani's papa came and got angry.

“What's up?”

“His father Tivani's sister came to the house, she was angry - angry”

‘Aduh ... take care of this thing I'm the laziest, if someone else makes a scene, just call the police the business is done, this .. want to call the police Tivani's parents, but left, but left, pity old father’ I'm impeached

“Candra no Dek” Many more.

“Abang left for work this morning”

“Alright, actually , I don't want to interfere in their family affairs Deck, how about I book your car that brings father uda to our house?”

“Yes, so can Bang, pity father he heard the spicy words of this man,” Lasria said.

Hearing her voice tremble miserably like that, I felt sad as well , Lasria little sister for us same Netta, because we confided in her lately, she said, I do not want to see the father of uda and Lasria feel indifferent, I have experienced what the father of uda experienced.

So I decided to pick them up, after all, the distance between our house and Candra's house was also close, it only took ten minutes.

“Gini only Deck, take father uda out of the house, wait brother near the entrance”

“Good Bang”

I had to stop meeting today, decided to pick up Lasria and father uda, when I drove to see the two of them waiting by the side of the road like that, I felt part of my heart ached, I felt like, it would be unfair for a good person to experience such a painful thing.

I hope it's the aunt who feels it, not the father of uda and Lasria.

Later Edo was also angry at aunty because of his treatment on social media, he was also angry he said the same father because he was not firm with his wife.

“Why is it like this? Father uda is a very good person, not much neko-neko from long ago, but he experienced sad things like this”

Sighing deeply, getting rid of the tightness in the chest, I wish our family could pass all these tests of life.

My car stopped on the side of the road near them, the morning sun was quite hot, as a result Lasria face immediately reddened in the hot sun.

I helped my father get in the car and took them out of Tivani's house.

I told Lasria not to tell Candra about what happened in their house, I don't know if I did the right thing or not.

“Bapa uda is already absorption?”

“At last absorption Mang, at home, I do not know what to do, father already just want to heal and can run a normal life, uda tired of sitting in this wheelchair, I just want to get well,” he looks desperate.

“Yes, father uda must be healed, Candra has told me that she is fighting for the recovery of father uda”

‘Patience father uda, every problem experienced by all people is the process of living to be closer to the creator.

I don't know what's going to happen in the future, if Candra finds out that her father-in-law has come to the house to ask Tivani to leave her. I also don't know if she will choose her parents or her husband?

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