Pariban So Rokkap

Like a Rice that Contains

Papi and I called the family to come gather, even papi asked a driver to pick up our family who were looking for excuses could not come, but later, the turn was made plans, he said, he was angry at the back of the day, so that nothing like that happened, papi paid a driver, to take them and pick them up.

 Papi is really serious about taking care of the wedding of lae Rudi, papi does not want to see me and Netta secretly together again like yesterday.

Papi did not know ... me and Netta that day marahan not because of the wedding plan lae Rudi, but, because I was jealous of the same bullshit who tried to tempt Netta, but because I was jealous, papi is really a good parent, he doesn't want to see his children and daughter-in-law fighting.

So on Sunday after returning home from worship, all the family finally came to fulfill our invitation, after eating full, then in the discussion began, it is tradition in Batak custom, must finish eating first, and then, just started the discussion, because the word ancient ancestor like this;

‘Molo nungga butong butoha, maol do ro rimas dohot akka bada’

(When the stomach is full, there is no anger and strife)

Bones from Bandung as hula-hula Nainggolan, started the conversation, to discuss the party event in the village, before the Nainggolan family requested a party to be held in Jakarta, because Lae Rudi no leave.

Because the Nainggolan family has also been widely migrated in Jakarta and Bandung. But the woman's family refused because she was already ill.

So after she was able to leave thanks to Beny's help, all the family breathed a sigh of relief, the plan finally continuing in the future.

“Jadi ... because the Rudi has permission to take a holiday, we can continue our plan in the future, he said, so who is our family who can come home to help sister mama Netta take care of the party in the village?” ask bones.

“Au brother, hami ma mulak, nungga makkatai hami nabodari dohot akkang dohot anakta di huta”

(I am Bang, we have come home to talk with our brother and our son Saut in the village) said bone Gres, he acted as a father for lae Rudi, in advance, in advance,  benda had called all the families and customary kings in the village, so Netta and Lae Rudi felt no loss of father.

“Nungga pas bei anggia, homa mr ni halakki”

(It's fitting that deck, when it was their father,” said the bone from Bandung, staring at the bone Gres with admiration. Father uda Bandung bones us as well, but he is from the oppung brothers whose siblings are the siblings of the mother's bones, Mr. Netta, the bones of Gres and the bones of the Twins are from the bogor.

“Yes, Bang, I haven't been on leave,” complains twin bones.

I lifted my thumb to the attention of Gres' bones and bones, for Netta and her sisters since the father-in-law died, not necessarily with money, he said,  although only that attention has been very valuable for Netta's brothers and her brother, because of that lae Rudi never moved from their home until he wanted to get married.

Rarely are there people who are in line with husband and wife to help the side of the husband, usually in the household, if such a thing;

‘Holan outgam, holan outgam’

(Only your family, only your family)

But our call was not like that, he considered the family of the wife and the family of the husband the same, really salute. I hope Gres when he grows up, his attitude like his mother is good and loving with the family.

After all the families agreed, we would go back to the village again, Gres bone and all his children would come home all for the first time.

Arnita became a good landlord in our family, because she couldn't come home because she was pregnant, so she and her husband volunteered to pay for all our family's tickets, I don't feel good about Juna, so to go back to Jakarta I and Netta will pay.

“Tenang .. there is papi if there is still someone who wants to go home,” said papi offered himself.

Hearing papi will pay a round-trip ticket, all the families of the oppung brothers finally come home, count home free.

“Tenang .. Pi, later I will ask for a discount with my father-in-law, if we go home all, if we need to rent one plane” said Arnita laughed.

Arnita's father-in-law has a stake in a private airline company and recently, after Arnita became pregnant with their second grandchild, Juna was eventually entrusted with the company that belonged to her exit,. Even Arnita, because her mother-in-law was happy to get another grandchild, she was so pampering her, her birthday this time her mother-in-law gave her business in the field of travel for her.

So our family calls him a kind-hearted landlord, because his land is everywhere, and his rent is also in various places. But thankfully, Arnita is not arrogant and not stingy to help the family, he is like a rice that contains, the more contained the lower down.

We never thought that if the once-bad kid changed so well today, he knew Gres' bones and his kids wouldn't want to go home with all of his kids, because they take spending into account.

But he volunteered to pay a ticket for our bones and his children, even that day, he took Gres and his sisters to the mall to spend new clothes for them to come home,

“Thank you same edamu Gres,” said when the teenager, he was happy to carry a lot of groceries in his hands.

“Thank you brother Arnita, hopefully big brother and dede baby in the belly of big brother healthy,” he said sincerely.

“Yes my edaku is beautiful, thanks for the prayer,” reply Arnita.

“Eh ... lady landlord wholesale, where is it for me? How am I not invited?”  Eva's sister just arrived home, she just came home from her mother-in-law's house.

“I have a Arkan mama donk, aunty Ros showed off a new bag that Arnita bought, because aunt and son of Gres also invited to the mall for shopping. Sister Eva is getting excited when mami is also spent.

“This mami bag, the model is kren”

“Ah .. unfair, let's you have to spend for me,” said Sister Eva pulled Arnita's hand, he joked.

“Mama Arkan ask same brother, right big boss,” reply Juna.

“If from your brother there is no need to ask for money, atmnya that I took directly,” said sister Eva, said,

“Thugs this time big brother,” said Juna, everyone laughed.

“Yes, the wife must be firm, if not firm, you guys will be out there,” he said again.

“Na, na sip maho, sehera pareman ni par Parluasan doho hubereng”

“Ni, this is quiet you, like the Parluasan thugs you I see,” said mami thrust a bag for Eva's sister, even though they both always fight, mami said, but the two loved each other he also bought for Eva's sister.

“Oh .. thanks my mommy dear.” Sister Eva hugged mommy forcefully and kissed her cheeks continuously, as a result of which the senior horneng was upset.

“Awas ma si tusadaanko ..!”

(Review, far away you ..!” Mami said let go of Eva's sister's embrace, we all laughed at Eva's sister's behavior that made mami annoyed. Papi laughed when he saw his wife upset.

These are the things that we miss every family gathering, there are always jokes and excitement, if usually our family is always in dispute about funds and costs, but at that time, there was a lot of confusion,  all help each other and work together, no tension and throw responsibility, share duty.

Tomorrow the next day we the first group part that will take care of the party arrives in the village, I hope everything goes well.

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