Pariban So Rokkap

Ulaon Pandidion

      Ulaon Pandidion or Baptist customary event.

Just returning home from the Church after the Baptism was over, Jeny Mollin Siahan Sister Eva's son had officially adopted his name after he was baptized in the Church that morning, the white-and-white clothes that he wore as evidence that he was a child who was still clean from sin were brought before God to bless.

May the name of Jeny Mollin Br Siahaan who gave her and has been blessed by God, be a name that will shine for her, she is always healthy to bear her name and be a blessing to others and to others.

Both of Eva's older children every time they are baptized are always made Batak custom, and the series of events are long, because it concerns Dalihan na Tolu, the Batak custom emblem

(Diversion of natolu> three-legged furnace, which is described as Three functional positions as a sign of tight binding of brotherly rope)

Three furnaces represented three parties

Hula-hula(Family wife) Yes it's us.

Boru

Dongan tubu

Baptism that day has hurt these three, this tradition is strong enough to maintain kinship integrity. It cannot be broken in our family

‘There was a bone speech that I had heard and I still remember until then, pronounced the same mother, because it did not care about the family first, before she was converted.

‘Better to be considered, irreligious than uncivilized’

That is the strong principle of Batak customs in ancient times, so it is very important in batak custom to run Dianhan Na Tolu in the family.

Batak Baptist ceremony is like a big custom, because it holds all the families from the Siahaan and Nainggolan parties, after me and papi as bones and oppung from the women give paroppa, and, or sling as a symbol of baptism.

The event is still going on long, before marriage , I used to be very lazy to follow the traditional Batak events, but after marriage I began to be interested in following the Batak custom, it was unique and memorable, because it contains many lessons and the meaning of life, where we are taught how to be respectful to others.

The event lasted until the afternoon.

I was busy recording every event after event, so that I could learn it later, I did not want to be stamped again as Batak Dalle.

“Again photoin what Bang?” Asked the Borneng to see me busy recording

“Magain record this event”

“For what? There is already a vidio” handyman

“This is for me, so I can learn it later”

Netta laughed and whispered again.

“Do you want a parhata king like that old father?” He pointed to the bones as experts who know a lot about Batak customs.

“Yes. What do you think, I am the King of Parhata you who became the queen of Parhata”

(King Parhata> People who understand Batak customs and ordinary who lead a group in one custom event.

Netta laughed at it, but she supported me to learn about Batak customs, because what I saw, married men were required to know about Batak culture customs, he said, because every time we go to batak traditional events, we must know what we are coming to the party, whether bring ulos or bring envelopes or manuppaki, so we cannot just carry it carelessly.

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After all the events were over, as usual we were all still together, because all the families came also during the baptism of our nephew, the family from Bandung , Bogor, Bogor, Bekasi also came except our aunt who was on the rise.

It turns out that the aunt who did not want to take care of her father when sick was heard also in the family of the Manurung party, Candra namboru who lived in Medan came, visiting the father of uda.

When they arrived, there was no one to take care of father uda he said at home, Lasria at that time his brother also attended college, Candra again in Bandung with Tivani while Namboru …. He had fun with his social friends.

Which family is not angry to see his brother abandoned when he was sick again.

“Indeed na aha didok deba ito?”

(What's thato saying?) Ask mami.

“Lae, the condition is getting worse, even to the bathroom must be helped, so sorry, said because no one please, yes everything in the wheelchair, so sorry, when the people arrived, they were all shocked, no one took care and kept the lae at home”

“Indeed it's as bad as that bone?” Sister Eva was shocked.

“Nungga songoni amattaa marsahit margaya-style do muse, pailaon, maila iba mambege hata-hata ni jolma in Bogor sana”

(Had known her husband was sick in style again, a rich man, so ashamed we heard everyone talk about this eda) said the twins because they lived together in Bogor.

“Now many said debt, all houses and cars have been sold. How did he become?’ Tanya looked at all her brothers.

“You how Ros? Already behind your money?” Ask mami.

“But”

“Haa? Is aunt's money borrowed?” I'm shocked.

“Yes, because Rita's sister borrowed my money to fight with your father, I want to be expelled from home”

“How Much Tan? Twenty million”

“Part of you is also loved.” Mami scolds aunt.

“Say for the treatment of the brother, sister, I feel sorry, so I love him without thinking and he promised to pay him one week, after he sold their car, it turns out after a week, after a week, I'm saying he was angry with me, he also blocked my number,” said aunt Ros.

She was quiet, apparently she had a big fight with her husband, her face looked very depressed.

“So how is Ros, indeed what did lae say to you ? I heard from your edamu you went from home,” said bone Bandung.

“I fought with laemu because ito,” said aunt, her face looks thinner.

“Indeed lae didn't know you love that money same mama Candra?”

“Gak ito”

“Ago amang, ho pe attong salah do Ros. Ikkon paboando tu amatta nibaasa unang adong akka parbadaan”

(Geez, must be told Ros, same husband so there is no problem) said the bone from Bandung.

“If I told you that you would not love ito, while Rita's sister was crying with me, he said for treatment brother, apparently the money for poya-foya is with his friends”

“Bah .. naung lunatic do haroa itoon, up to household victims adekna alani ibana”

“Uda .. crazy ito, until the victim of his sister's household because of his behavior,” said bone Gres.

“So, how did Mr. Paima your opinion, make your response first bere, maybe the young thinking more brilliant,” ask bone .

Not usually they ask my opinion, if the family problem, usually we children will only be a listener, when asked for my opinion I was shocked and did not know what to answer.

“In my opinion it would be better if we talk directly to the same name uda Roy so show that we care, all this time uda is very good”

“Papi agrees with paima's thoughts,”ujar papi.

It turns out that what was done Aunty has taken a toll, aunt Ros had a big fight with father uda because he loaned money to aunt without knowing her husband

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