I'm a Widow But a Virgin

Soulmate

After calling Hafiz, Reihan returned to the hospital room, where Ummi and Mama were accompanying Almira and giving advice.

"Bag.."

"Yes..."

"I'm gonna pee"

Reihan immediately grabbed Almira and helped her to the bathroom.

"Let me be alone"

"No Humaira, Mas's coming inside"

"No Mas, disgusted Mas, Mira also wants to change pads"

"No, I'm not disgusted, I've complied"

Almira also brought a new sanitary pad to the bathroom.

Reihan helps Almira take off her pants, after which Reihan holds a bottle of Almira infusion, after Reihan finishes helping her, poaching her despite the blood everywhere but Reihan does not feel disgusted at all, for him Almira is part of him, Almira is his soul mate.

After that, he helped her put the pads on.

Almira was so moved by Reihan's treatment of her, she felt lucky to have a husband like Reihan who loved her in joy and sorrow, who loved her in good health and in pain.

"How about this, where are you, where is this on the patch?" Reihan helps attach the pads.

"That's her wings in the open as well as the adhesive, then in the bend back"

"Hahaha wings? indeed birds yes, all there are wings of all" Reihan laughed at the term which he thought was very funny.

"Hurry up Mas, do you want to wear it too" Ledek Almira.

"Ih haphazardly, the real bird does not wear wings" Reihan laughed again.

Reihan obeyed Almira's orders, Reihan then paired Almira's pants as well.

"Thank you, Mom"

"It's Mas Humaira's duty" Reihan pinched Almira's nose in a fit of anxiety.

Finish everything Almira and Reihan come out of the bathroom. It turned out that there was already Mas Birru sitting down. Mama and Ummi are buying lunch.

***

The happiness of the husband is the happiness of the wife, the sadness of the husband is the sadness of the wife as well. Therefore, the husband and wife should always be together in joy or sorrow.

Thus the perceived burden will feel light, because of togetherness and a companion who always accompanies in joy and sorrow.

As a friend of life, the husband and wife should be two friends who can share in joy and sorrow. But, it turns out so many couples who even to express feelings so difficult, let alone to be friends.

Friends are the people close to us. Many fun things that we can get from him, so it is easy for us to share jokes and laughter with him.

He is the one we talk to easily for all, or at least for most of our problems. Ready to accept all our complaints and often provide the best solution to the problems we face.

For him we will do the same. We willingly set aside time to hear all the stories, joys and sorrows.

If he needs help, with or without a hand we will stretch out for him. He is comfortable with us and we are comfortable with him.

With such a relationship, many people can live a better life step because they have a friend who always cares about him.

It would be wonderful if such a pattern of friendship could be applied in domestic life.

Husband and wife are two friends who love each other, empathize with each other, receive and give, in a state of joy and sorrow in the household heresy.

“But unfortunately, not all married couples are able to apply the pattern of friendship as above.”

Many things are influential in this problem, the skills of husband and wife in fostering friendship, communication patterns developed in the household and the model adopted in husband and wife relationships greatly affect.

Husband and wife relationships sometimes adopt a model of the relationship between superiors and subordinates, managers and employees. Feelings of equality, commonality and togetherness as the basis of friendship do not exist at all.

So, let alone sharing stories, revealing one small thing is very difficult because of the hierarchy, there are barriers to communication.

“Then where can the husband or wife reveal all her complaints, her wrestling?”

If you cannot make a partner live as a friend, you must understand what is the principle of life as a friend, you must understand what is the principle of friendship.

The principle of friendship between husband and wife is the same as with others. The point is on the application of Islamic learning principles that are helping each other, helping each other, reminding each other, comforting each other, not looking for mistakes, filled with mutual wanting to give and loving.

In order for marriage to provide a sense of security and comfort for the husband and wife as well as their children, it is appropriate that every married couple continues to try to build a friendly climate of friendship between the two.

The journey is not always smooth, many roads are steep, winding and winding, but we must be sure that as long as there is an intention, effort and do’a, God willing we will get to the destination, the sakinah mawaddah warahmah.

***

"Hey...You guys, in the bathroom so noisy, what are you doing?" Ask Mas Birru.

"With the wings of Mas" replied Reihan.

"Huh"

Almira slapped Reihan's arm, "Your Azzam is"

Reihan laughed out loud.

Reihan helps Almira lay Almira down on the bench.

"Rest"

Almira nodded.

Reihan approached Mas Birru. Mas Birru asked Almira what pain.

"Rey, why?"

"What serious?"

Reihan nodded.

"Sister. I miss Ayyubi" Chirrup Almira.

"They recover first, Ayyubi brother forbid to go to the hospital"

"Why brother"

"Yes should not Deck, Unlike adults, the immune system of children under 12 years old is not yet strong enough. Although from the outside the child looks healthy, we may not know that the endurance is actually weakened. Not to mention that children take longer to recover from illness than adults.

Meanwhile, hospitals are a hotbed for many types of disease-causing organisms. Starting from bacteria, viruses, germs, to toxins. These organisms can be transmitted to children easily. Especially if there is a specific disease.

One of the most commonly transmitted diseases in children who often visit the hospital is a lung infection (pneumonia) due to bacteria. Usually the symptoms of this disease appear only a few days after infection. So, parents may not be aware that the child actually contracted the disease in the hospital. So it is better not to bring children if there is no urgent need"

"Oh yes Brother"

"Partially if there's Ayyubi you won't be able to rest,"

The hospital attendant brought food for Almira, Reihan accepted it and sat down next to Almira to feed her.

"What reason should I eat this"

"Yes dear dong"

"This one must be bad"

"You'll get better soon no, you'll take Ayyubi again"

Almira nodded.

"From now on you have to take care of your health, eat nutritious food, should not be fat or sugar, if necessary be a vegetarian"

"Ah, I don't want to"

"For health's sake"

"Indeed Mira is sick what is Mas?"

"Fatigue and malnutrition, shame Mas alone, it is considered not given good nutrition" Ledek Reihan.

Reihan did not want to tell about Almira's disease first, before Almira fully recovered, after which Reihan will talk about the next treatment.

Reihan fed Almira with great pain. Mom and Ummi came with some food. They also eat.

Finished feeding Almira, Reihan's phone rang, There was a call vidio call coming in from Hafiz.

"Thank you Humaira, it's Alisha"

Almira immediately lifted the phone from Hafiz, and was certainly plastered on the screen the face of Ayu Alisha who was waving her hand.

"Assalamualaikum Deck"

"Waalaikumsalam, Brother"

"What pain is your grandfather?"

"Said Mas Azzam Mira just exhausted Brother"

"Well, how many rounds are you guys tired?" Alisha LEDek.

Reihan immediately picked up the phone that was in Almira's grasp, "Oh that's right, we're playing a comedy play"

"Hey, are you doing my sister tired?"

Ledek Alisha is back.

"I'm okay, right?"

"Almira is ospek sak, so maybe tired because of the activities of ospek Mira" Almira took his phone back.

"And the committee of your husband, just sit sweet, if there is a tiring activity just ask for a sling to him"

"Oh this brother,"

"Eh Dek, you have to show that Reihan is yours, because on campus your husband is an idol" Alisha said with a laugh.

"Eh already.it is not comforting, it is mocking my wife" Reihan said.

"Hahaha Deck tomorrow big brother's home, get well soon huh,"

"Yes Brother"

"Yes already, brother is cleaning this, it's already yes ,Assalamualaikum"

"Girishal"

Vidio call call ended by Alisha, Almira immediately give her phone again to her husband.

Almira returned to rest after eating medicine, Reihan sat next to the bangkar while holding Almira's hand.

While Mas Birru returns to his office, while Mama returns home with a change of clothes for Reihan and Almira, Ummi and Reihan are still loyal to guard Almira.

After Almira fell asleep, Reihan approached Umminya.

Reihan hugged Umminya, Ummi hugged Reihan again.

"You're why Rey, your eyes are glazed over"

"Ummi.there's something Rey has to talk about"