I'm a Widow But a Virgin
Wejangan from the Elder
After eating together at the home, Rengganis and Albirruni finally returned home.
Because it was almost afternoon, yesterday evening Albirruni had promised to deliver Rengganis to the house and stay at the house of papa mama during Rengganis pregnant.
"Mom, Beautiful Mother, Mother selfi and everything we say first" said Albirruni.
Rengganis greeted and embraced Ms. Ratna, Selfi and lovely.
After that they both left the home to his car.
Birru runs his car slowly because Rengganis is pregnant.
"Buck..."
"Hmmm.."
Mas Birru glanced at the rengganis, "Why?"
"The time is not married like TP TP yes?"
"Well..TP TP what is Nis? Albirruni asked confusedly.
"Tread the charm"
Birru laughed out loud.
"Kirain whatan,Mas mah not need to be spread that charm also has fascinated people dear"
"Ih Mas PD really" said Rengganis annoyed.
Birru then clasped Rengganis' hand.
"Darling why the hell?"
"Mas, that beautiful brood will love Mas"
"Yes let it go"
"Mas does not give false hope to Mbak Indah"
"No, Mas to the orphanage came to donate to meet the children, already home, only sometimes Lovely to invite discussion, it's just a discussion, not more"
"Do you know where he likes you?" Ask Birru.
"From the man" replied Rengganis.
"Well, how great he is to tell Mas's wife directly" Birru said with a chuckle.
"But the Rengganis are not angry Kok Mas, the Bengganis believe in Mas"
Albirruni smiled and stroked Rengganis' head.
"Mas only loves you, only you"
Rengganis's face immediately met with red.
Because the journey of Mas Birru is still far away, Mas Birru tuned a song to set his favorite song that describes his heart as well.
Mas birru also sang, sometimes while staring at Rengganis.
🎼🎼🎼
I am grateful to have you.
I am happy to be beside you.
This heart feels calm.
When you're always with me.
I accept your shortcomings.
You accept my shortcomings.
Complete my path sheet.
To wade in every step of my way.
From the inside of your heart you will not be replaced.
I'll be dead by then.
From the inside of your heart you will not be replaced.
I love you as sincerely as I love you.
I love you with all my heart.
I beg you to stay here.
Accompany me until the end.
I will take care of you forever.
Until the body no longer lives.
I beg you to remain faithful.
Accompany me to the end of the world.
From the inside of your heart you will not be replaced until I die.
From the inside of your heart you will not be replaced.
I love you with all my heart, I love you with all my heart.
I beg you to stay here, accompany me until the end.
I will take care of you forever, until the body is no longer alive.
I beg you to remain faithful, accompany me to the end of the world.
(Kangen Band)🎼🎼🎼
Without feeling Rengganis asleep, pregnant women Rengganis is easily drowsy.
"Yes Allah Ganis,Mas again romantic singing, even in the ilerin" 🤦
20 Minutes later at Papa Wijaya's house, Albirruni immediately woke Rengganis.Rengganis immediately woke up and opened the car door and stepped into the house.
"Assalamualaikum,Ma"
"Guilipinam,"
"Girishal"
It turned out that there was Papa and Mama Aby, they immediately embraced.
"Healthy Ganis" asked Mama Aby.
"Alhamdullilah, healthy Ma, Mama Papa is also healthy right.
" Mama and papa are very healthy, especially after hearing the happy news from you"
Albirruni also greeted and embraced Papa and Mama Aby.
They sat together, Mama Birru brought drinks and snacks.
"Mama and papa until what time?" Ask Ganis.
"Just 10 minutes ago Nis"
"You want to get here?"
"No dear, Mama nginep at the hotel, all honeymooners too" said Mama Aby.
Rengganis laughed softly, he was very happy to see the harmony of Papa and Mama Abymanyu.
They sat down and chatted together while waiting for Papa Wijaya to come home from work.
"Let's see you were little Al, now it doesn't feel like you're going to be a father" said Papa Rafi.
Albirruni smiled "That means Al is getting older and Papa Rafi is old" Ledek Al.
"The most important thing is young souls" Papa Rafi said with a chuckle.
"Al papa knows that at this time you must be happy because of Rengganis pregnancy, you must also be a little stressed because you face a fussy wife because of cravings, or you who are waiting for the moment of birth to arrive, be happy in welcoming those moments. Because it turns out you are trusted to keep the trust. Be happy because not every couple can be like you Al. Whether you are a husband or a wife. Happiness in welcoming our little descendants and generations who will continue our struggle, the successor of our hereditary history."Papa Rafi.
"Children are the care of God that we must take care of as best we can, because children are an investment of our future. Not only in the world but in the hereafter. Will not a good child be the cause of parents to go to heaven? Therefore, start to keep your little one from the time he was born until he was born, growing up until he grew up later." Mama Abymanyu.
"The task of the parent is not only to give the child all the needs of his world alone, but it is mandatory for parents to give the child all the needs of his ukhrawi. Teach him the true Islam, know Allah and His Messenger and carry out all His commandments and prohibitions. Children are like plain paper that is ready to be scratched by their parents. Therefore, parents are like a pen that will write whatever their parents want." Mama Birru.
"Do not waste the trust that God has given, out there a lot of parents who want their children to be smart, smart, by Solehah,but rarely does anyone pray that parents themselves can be parents who are patient and trustworthy" said Papa Rafi.
Albirruni and Rengganis listened carefully to whatever their parents had to say.
Rengganis was fortunate to have such caring and kind in-laws with him, and to teach kindness to Rengganis and Albirruni.
"Al, Rengganis must carry out practices while pregnant know Nak" asked Papa Rafi.
"He knows God will do it" said Albirruni.
They continue to talk about child pregnancy and build a good household to always be romantic even though they are old.
It was almost magrib Rengganis and Albirruni pamit to his room to take a bath, as well as Papa and Mama Aby who headed to the guest room to take a bath first.They will return to the hotel later after dinner together.
Arriving at the room Rengganis immediately hugged Albirruni.
"Honey I'm so grateful to have this family, they teach us about educating children well"
"Yes dear we are so lucky to have them so good at educating children"
"Mas I once read in a book, educating children according to the sunah Rosulullah there are several stages."
"Children's life 0–6 years. At this time, the Prophet s.a.w tells us to pamper, love and love the child with unlimited affection. Give them affection regardless of firstborn or youngest child by being fair to each child. Cannot be beaten if they make a mistake even on the basis of education.
So, children will be closer to us and feel us as part of him when he grows up, which can be considered as the best friend and reference. Children feel safe in their childhood because they know you (father) are always by their side at all times."
"Children's age 7–14 years. At this stage we begin to instill the value of DISCIPLINE and TANGUNGJAWAB to children. According to the hadith of Abu Daud, “Command your children to pray when they are seven years old and beat them for leaving prayer when they are ten years old and remove the bed between them (men and women). Hit it is not for torture, just to remind them. Do not be hit in the face because the face is a place of respect for someone. So, children will be more responsible for every action, especially in establishing prayers."
"Children age 15-21 years. This is the phase of adolescence full of rebellious attitude. At this stage, parents should approach the children by MAKING FRIENDS with them. Many talk to them about the things they face. For teenage girls, work with them about the story of their ‘haid’ arrival and their feelings at that time.
So, no third person or ‘asing’ will be present in their life as a place of reference and listener of their problems. They will not be influenced to leave the house to seek other pleasures because given all the happiness and pleasure has been in the house with the family."
"Children's age 21 and above.This phase is the time for parents to give full confidence to children by giving freedom in making their own decisions. Parents only need to monitor, advise with prayer so that every action taken by them is right.God willing with all the disciplines honed since the 2nd stage before this is enough to be a fortress for them. Parents should not be tired of advising them, because the words of advice spoken 200 times or more to children are able to form good behavior as you want."
Speak Rengganis at length.
"Hopefully we can educate them at their best, dear" said Albirruni.
"Aamiin, I love we take a shower first" Rengganis said.
They ended up bathing together then waiting for the magrib to arrive together.
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