I'm a Widow But a Virgin

Adab neighbor

Almira and Reihan walk through houses in residential complexes, many shady trees make the complex shady.

Many merchants passed by, school children and office workers who left for their respective workplaces.

There are also complex mothers who are waiting for vegetable makers.

Seen the vegetable brothers came they immediately shrouded the vegetable brothers.

Seen from them immediately gossiped ria.

[Ah so remembered soap opera ojek kolan, hihi gossip when buying vegetables, hayoo you like that is not? hehe No yes, AJTP readers are all well😁]

"Darling...Mas want it dong sauteed papaya leaves"

"Huh? it's bitter Mas"

"Yes but I like it, you want to cook it for Mas,?"

"Yes let's buy first, mumpung Abang greensnya still there"

Seen fresh vegetables plastered on a vegetable sgobag, still fresh and green, Almira and Reihan approached Abang greens.

The mothers greeted Almira and Reihan.

"Oh newlyweds, where are you out of this early in the morning?"

"From ma'am's garden," Almira smiled.

"The handsome lecturer wants to be in Masakin is it the same neng mira?" Ask one of the mothers there.

"I'm asking for papaya leaf sauteed bu"

Almira sorting pick young papaya leaves that are still fresh. The mothers continued to gossip.

"So how's that bu continuation?" Ask one of the mothers there.

"Yes Bu Rita was angry because the twigs of his rambutan tree had entered the front yard of his house, every day had to sweep the fallen leaves, the leaves were falling, it has been told to tell the slash that the twig was even angry Bu Yeni, he said that the slash will be afraid of the tree dies" replied Bu Lestari.

"If I were Rita's mom, I'd cut it down myself it's a twig, just let Ms. Yeni get angry"

"Yes but Miss Rita is still patient"

"Reihan noticed the mothers were gossiping,"

"Emmmmmm...Mothers this morning forget the dawn prayer what is the dawn of bad luck what is the prayer in rush? it's still early in the morning already soiling the mouth" Chirps Reihan.

"Ih Mas lecturer, do not know the story anyway, pity bu Rita"

One of them tells of a rambutan tree that rises to Rita's house and every day scoops its leaves at Rita's house.

While telling a story, suddenly Ms. Yeni came to buy vegetables, Bu Yeni had heard their conversation.

"Oh you guys, early in the morning have a problem with my rambutan tree" Cerocos bu Yeni.

The mothers who were there stared cynically at Ms. Yeni.

They were whispering about Ms. Yeni.

"Eh already the mothers even so fight later" said Reihan.

"The lecturer's looking at them as if they're rubbing me"

Almira was dumbfounded to see the behavior of mothers in front of her who were being injured by her husband.

"Mom see that the rambutan tree in the mother's house, our mother is a Muslim, and in Islam the husband is already there adab and its rules, sorry I do not mean patronizing, I do not mean patronizing, but since mom is also our neighbor, we care about mom, this is how Islam is the perfect religion. All aspects of life have been written in the Quran as well as the sunnah of the Prophet of Allah shallallah alaihi wasallam. From the beginning of our activities in the morning until the evening all there is teaching. So that there is no practice in Islam except there are no abnormalities."

Reihan then explained to them about the neighbors.

As social creatures, humans are required to interact with neighbors, glorify neighbors and help each other against neighbors. The presence of neighbors is very necessary. It is on this basis that Islam pays great attention to this issue. A Muslim must be able to keep good neighbors based on the Quran and as-Sunnah.

The prophet shallallahu alaihi wassallam has said,

"Jibril advised me to glorify my neighbor, to the extent that I thought that someone would be his neighbor's heir" (HR. Al Bukhari no.6014)

Here is the neighbor, adab,

Ennobling neighbors.

The first neighbor adab glorifies it. Because the presence of neighbors is needed so we must try as much as possible to do good to neighbors. The Prophet shalallahu alaihi wassalam said,

"The good friend by Allah's side is the best to his friend, and the good neighbor by Allah's side is the kindest to his neighbor." (CHR. At Tirmidhi. 1944)

On the contrary, it is forbidden for anyone to engage in hostility towards a neighbor, either by word or by deed. It is based on the word of Prophet Muhammad shalallahu alaihi wassalam,

"By Allah do not believe, by Allah do not believe, by Allah do not believe." They (the Companions) asked, "Who, O Messenger of Allah?" He said, "The man whose neighbor does not feel safe from his ugliness." (CHR. Muslims no. 2625)

According to Ibn Hajar in his book al-Fath/456, the neighboring words of the above hadith include Muslims, pagans, wicked, heretics, friends and opponents, natives and foreigners, and, close or distant relatives. So there are neighbors here not only aimed at fellow Muslims, but adab against non-Muslims as well.

Let's glorify our neighbors by doing good and stay away from things that can hurt them.

Paying Attention to Neighbor Rights (choose the nearest one)

Who are our neighbors who are most entitled to receive our kindness first? Of course the closest neighbor (wall) aka attached to the house has more rights than the far neighbor. From Aisha he said, "I said, 'O Messenger of Allah, I have two neighbors, to whom do I give a gift?' He answered,

"To the nearest door from you is between the two." (CHR. Bukhari. 6020).

It is different when our nearest neighbor turns out to be absent. Seeking something closer to be given good. For example, given food or by.

Not Stingy With Neighbors.

What is meant by not stingy here is not prohibiting neighbors when they want to just stick wood or lean something on the wall of our house, to build a room or something like that. It may be our neighbors who are in need of our presence, but it could be that one day we need it.

This is based on the word of the Prophet,

"Don't a neighbor forbid a neighbor to stick a (wood) on his wall." (CHR. Bukhari no. 2463 and Muslim no. 1609)

Then Abu Hurairah who narrated this hadeeth said, "Why do I see you turning away from it, by Allah I will absolutely cast it on your shoulders."

But it should be noted that it all applies on condition that it does not bring madhorat or harm him. Or there is no way except in this way.

Not Disturbing Neighbors Especially When Resting.

It is forbidden for a Muslim to disturb his neighbor. Especially during rest hours, for example at night or nap hours. It is said of the Prophet, "Whoever believes in Allah and the last day, let him not disturb his neighbor." (CHR. Bukhari no. 6018 and Muslim no. 47).

Disturbing here can be interpreted as doing things that make it disturbed even though the action is redundant or even illegal. Like turning on a mercon, tuning music very loud or something else.

Grieving for the Neighbor.

As we already know that almsgiving brings many benefits and can make blessings on the property we have. So it is recommended to neighbors to give each other something like the food we cook or that we buy. Drinks can also give gifts. This is also to strengthen neighbor relations well and so as not to cause hostility.

The prophet shalallahu alahi wassalam once said to Abu Dharr's friend radhiyallahuanhu,

"O Abu Dharr, if you cook vegetables (meat soup) you should multiply the water and give your neighbors" (HR. Muslim). To give him back to point 2, which is to choose the one closest to us.

The prophet also said,

"Gift each other, you will love each other." (CHR. Al-Bukhari in Al-Adabul Mufrad no. 594, Al-Imam Al-Albani in Irwaul Ghalil no. 1601)

Keeping the Secrets of Neighbors.

As in the hadith of Anas ibn Malik,

The Prophet whispered a secret matter to me, so I will not tell anyone. And indeed Umm Sulaim asked about the secret, but I did not tell him. [SV. Hill No.5815].

In addition, it is also recommended to subordinate the view of the forbidden area (the interior of his house). This is intended to avoid the dislike that arises from neighbors against us.

Giving Congratulations When Happy and Comforting When Grieving.

If there is a neighbor we are getting happiness for example giving birth to children, marriage or the like, then it is highly recommended to congratulate him. Not only in happy moments but also when in a state of mourning or sadness. For example, if there are family members who are sick or die, it is recommended for a Muslim to help and comfort him. The Prophet said, "You are the best" (HR. Bukhari no.6035)

Not Closing the Door to Neighbors.

From Ibn Umar he said, "Really has come to us an age where no one is more entitled to his dinar and dirham than his fellow Muslims, then now the dinar and the dirham are loved more by someone among us than their fellow Muslim brothers.

I had heard the Prophet say, 'How many neighbors depend on their neighbors, he said, 'O my Lord, ask this man why he closed his door on me, and prevented me from gaining his advantage." [SV. Bukhari in al-Adab al Mufrad. 111]

Not Satisfying Yourself.

Should Muslim neighbors not be full (alone) without inviting their neighbors (followed to eat full). Indeed the Prophet had said through the hadith of Ibn Abbas radhiyallahuanhuma,

"It is not a believer (true) who is full while his neighbor is hungry beside (house)." [See As Lineage As Shahihah no. 149]

Our House Buildings Do Not Boast Magnificence So Disturb Neighbors.

When we build a house try not to hurt the feelings of the neighbors. For example, because the building of our house makes the house not get sunlight or air. In addition, it is prohibited to exceed the boundaries of his land when building a house. Nor does he do dzolim to a neighbor by eliminating or changing something in his environment, because this will hurt him and cause hatred in his heart.

Amar Ma'ruf Nahi Mungkar or Advising Our Neighbors.

It is recommended for us to advise each other on the good and prevent it from the possibility or bad with a wise attitude (wise). Give good directions and do not publish it or reproach it nor seek to find its error and be pleased with its fallacy. Then it is obligatory for us to close our eyes from seeing his error or his mistake.

Be Patient About Their Behavior.

The last neighbor is that we should always be patient with the interference of neighbors who may not understand or are still lay against Islam. The Prophet shalallahu alaihi wassalam said,

"Allah loves the three classes and hates the three. Then he mentioned among them a man who had a neighbor who hurt him, and he was patient over his disorder, until (eventually) God prevents his evil by the cause (process) of life (such as moving) or by his death." [Dishahihkan by al Albani in shahih at Targhib no. 2569]

All mothers are silent,

"I'm sorry Miss Yeni"

"Yes forgive me too, later I will cut down the twigs of the towering rambutan tree"

They shook hands and hugged each other, Reihan and Almira smiled.

Almira paid for the vegetables and they both said goodbye to the mothers.

They both walked back home.

In the front garden yard mama was watering the plants, Almira and Reihan entered the gate.

"Eh you guys from anywhere"

"Front garden ma, buy this" Almira shows her snacks and papaya leaves.

"Ma Reihan borrow the hose first, wash your feet"

Mama gave her to Reihan, Reihan immediately washed her feet, mama went inside carrying Almira snacks, Almira waited for Reihan, she also wanted to wash her feet.

Reihan smiled and had a mischievous idea to water Almira.

"Hey Humaira's..."

Almira saw Reihan, Reihan immediately splashed Almira's body with water that continued to flow from the hose.

"Mas Azzam,..." The screech.

Almira did not stay silent, she immediately took over the hose in Reihan's hands quickly, then returned to flush Reihan.

"Mira.don't...."

"Mas started it"

They ended up playing with the hose until it got soaked.

From the direction of the door came the sound of Deheman mbak Rengganis who was holding Ayyubi.

"Ehhmmmmn what do I need to play Indian music" Ledek Mbak Ganis.

They looked towards Rengganis with timid faces.

"Hehehe hello Ayyubi" said Almira with her innocent look that held in shame.

"See Aunty and Om deck" Rengganis said to Ayyubi.

Reihan then tidied up his hose.

"Hurry to take Rey's bath, Mir, you'll catch a cold"

"Yes mbak"

Reihan and Almira went inside the house, they went into their room and took a shower and got ready for the mall.

.

.

.

.

.

.

.

.

.

.

.

.

.

.

[ Curcol squirt... The author feels that AJTP is not a NOVEL, but I don't know what reading book, hehe, the Author will learn more in writing a novel, insyaAllah other works author boxed into a true novel, unlike AJTP, because the storyline has already been like this, so wes just continue well,]

[Thank you to those who are still faithful to read, thank you for those who are still faithful to comment positively, Thank you for those who are willing to learn and take a point of study at AJTP, without you being ready this Author]

Greetings dear, dear,

@Santypuji