I'm a Widow But a Virgin

Dinners

After seeing the sun sinking Reihan and Almira back again towards his cottage to perform prayers magrib congregation.

Reihan is planning a romantic dinner for Almira later.

The resort prepared everything on Reihan's orders.

After the prayer they read the Koran together, after the completion of Reihan invited Almira to come out.

"Honey we're out yuk"

"It's late what's not waiting for the officer to come deliver the food"

"Ah don't want to, I want to give you a surprise, but close your eyes well"

Reihan closed Almira's eyes.

"Why do I need to close my eyes"

"It's a surprise, baby"

Reihan leads Almira to walk out of the cottage.

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Visitors can feel the romantic moment in Pulo Cinta. One of them is with a diner moment together with a couple around the island.

Honeymoon couples can feel a super romantic candle light dinner accompanied by calm sea water and breezy wind that makes the atmosphere more romantic.

Watching the light of the sky without being disturbed by light pollution, is a thing that is not forgotten. When in the city we will not be able to enjoy the full sky light, because it is covered by optical pollution from street lights, lights and lamps.

But in this location, with very low optical pollution, watching the star sprinkling at night feels really overwhelming. In the tourist attractions Pulo Cinta Gorontalo, visitors can really see the beautiful night sky on this island with a stretch of stars that illuminate the sky.

Pulo Moment Romantic love this one is perfect for visitors who come with a partner. Because it will add to the impression of a romantic vacation between couples.

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Upon arriving at Dinner's place, Reihan opened Almira's eyes.

"Dear to open?"

Reihan slowly opened his blindfold.

Almira blinked her eyes, after her vision clearly returned Almira was so greatly shocked by the beautiful atmosphere of their Dinner. Lots of candles scattered everywhere, on the sand of the beach, on the dining table.

Almira hugged Reihan in embarrassment.

"Dear Thank you"

How happy Reihan is, this is the first time Almira has called him dear.

"Let's sit down baby"

They both sit. While waiting for the officers to bring food Reihan clasped Almira's hand.

Yes Humairah My halal lover

I'm tying my love to you

I put a ring on your finger

And I pledge allegiance to you

Yes Humairahku

We both roam the blue ocean

Let me be your master

Bring it to the island of your dreams

Humascu

The blue of the sea is the radiance of my love

Do not be afraid of the roaring waves

I will always be by your side

My dear, my love

My travel loyal friend

The spirit in my struggle

The originator of happiness in my life

Almira glazed over and then shed her tears.

"Darling why crying, Forgive me if your words are wrong"

Almira shook her head.

"No Mas, Almira was just moved, this is the first time in romantic treatment like this, used to only be able to see the romance of Kak Al and Mbak Ganis, and at that time Mira prayed that Mira would get a soul mate like a sister"

Reihan approached Almira and hugged her.

"Mas will always try to make you happy"

Reihan then returned to his seat, the officer came and arranged his food at the table.

The two of them started eating and feeding each other.

Not far from the dinner table Almira and Reihan there is a pair of grandmothers and Grandpa-Grandpa who are also enjoying Dinner on the island of love.

"Look at that, they're old too but still romantic"

"May we be like them yes dear, romantic until aging"

"Aamiin"

After eating, the two of them approached Grandpa and Grandma.

"Assynoltom..."

"Waalaikumsalam" They answered in unison.

"Grandma's Grandpa's here alone" Tanya Almira.

"Yes dong, we're on our honeymoon again" Ledek Grandpa.

"Wah.mantau" said Reihan.

"Grandfather of Semarang"

"Grandfather can tell who this place is from?"

"Yes from friends, many friends Grandpa, Grandpa was just want to be alone with grandma, in the boarding school is crowded with people,"

"Wah Pak kyai and Bu nyai's grandfather"

"Hahaha can be said like that, usually Grandpa made a pilgrimage with pilgrims and santri-santri santri, but this time Grandpa was looking to enjoy alone with grandma, you newlyweds yah"

"Yes Kek" replied Almira.

Grandfather smiled, "May God grant blessings to both of you're households"

"Aamiin" All concur.

"Hopefully it can be like a romantic Grandpa-grandmother until it ages"

"Hehehe, Aamiin, the household is a lifelong worship, must accept his romantic and unromantic" Grandpa said.

"Grandfather to old what romantic continues, do you never fight?"

"Not romantic, ever, ever quarrel, son"

"Hmmm... Kek gives Mira Kek's advice, Mira is learning about this household"

Grandpa smiled.Almira is indeed a smart woman, If she does not know something, she does not hesitate to learn to anyone who knows better, She does not hesitate to ask questions and ask to be taught.

"Son...All couples definitely expect to be a family of Sakinah mawadah warahmah, but the sadinah household is not one that is free from the test. Sakinah households are able to face the test together while clinging to His Shari'a.

Along the journey of marriage that knows no boundaries, during that time there will also be a test coming. “No household without test,”

Sometimes the test is a means of quality improvement, For example, when a wife meets unpleasant things from her husband, do not be easy to think of separation or divorce. Because, according to Cahyadi, “That's a sign of weakness in maintaining the integrity of the household.”

The test should also be viewed as a mercy from Allah. Because no man is free from sin, God establishes one way of cleansing the sin of man with the tests he gives. If there is no test, man will find it difficult to be grateful and rarely be cleansed of his sin.

“There is not one calamity that befalls every Muslim, either tired, sick, confused, sad, interference of others, deep fret, until the thorns that stick in his body, unless Allah makes it a cause for forgiveness of his sins,” (HR Bukhari).

Although not always, the test in marriage also comes as a form of God's reprimand against past transgressions. “I am very sure that happiness is in our souls. Only God can give us that happiness. Then all processes from the beginning (intention and means) must always meet His guidance,” 

"Grandfather...How to deal with household exams well?" Ask Almira.

Reihan smiled and looked at his wife who always wanted to learn, It seems Reihan was so lucky to get Almira, although Almira is young, but Almira spirit of finding out and learning.

Grandfather answered Almira's question enthusiastically.

Islam is the foundation as well as the solution to various problems, including in households. If we make Islam as the only solution in the face of household storms, then in addition to reaping rewards, also solve problems and strengthen the love of husband and wife.

The Islamic way of dealing with household tests is one of them, Husnuzhan to Allah.

The test is also a form of God's concern for His servants. Word of God, “You may hate something, but it is very good for you, and it may be (after all) that you like something, even though it is very bad for you. Allah knows, while you do not know,” (QS Al-Baqarah: 216).

Qana’ah and be patient.

Household exams sometimes come in the form of limitations or even family economic downturns. This is where the nature of qana’ah (accepting what is in terms of material or worldly) is needed. It is the secret of happiness, which does not make worldly narrowness a source of contention let alone divorce.

Avoid abuse and physical violence.

Conflict is also part of the household exam. Households without conflict are like dishes without spices. But if the seasoning is too much, the cooking becomes unpleasant. So that the conflict does not get heated up and prolonged, avoid abuse and physical violence in couples.

Defects and gestures will cause inner wounds that are more painful than physical violence, even if they do not shed blood. Even so, physical violence is also very despicable. Acts of physical violence committed in an emotional state will greatly endanger the safety of the couple. “It is inappropriate for two people who come together in the name of love, to hurt each other and to berate. It should not be done by a pious man,”

Don't show conflict

One of the negative effects of social media is the more easily someone indulges in the problem in public. Being annoyed with husband, spilled on Twitter. There are even husband and wife who quarrel and throw poisons at each other on Facebook. They don't care about friends on their network who watch the ‘show’.

Conflict with a partner should be managed in a private space while looking for a shared solution, not spread through social networks. Someone should feel ashamed if his shame is revealed. In addition, it shows conflict in public, potentially giving rise to third parties who intend evil and want to exacerbate the problem.

If problems or household exams come up repeatedly, make peace with the test. “Because in the household, every day meet the same person. Naturally if the problem is found often repeated,” . “One of the tests in the household is to love the same person for a long time.” We all want to pass the exam, right?

Almira nodded, then hugged Grandma,

"Bu Nyai, Mr. Kyai is very smart"

Grandma smiled, then stroked Almira's head.

"Your husband is also very good, grandma can see from his attitude that gave you a surprise"

"Grandma's watching us?"

"Yes, your husband loves you very much"

Reihan and Almira smiled.

"Let's go back to the cottage, they're newlyweds so have to go to the room early" Ledek Grandpa told grandma.

Grandma laughed softly.

They went back to their cottages.

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