I'm a Widow But a Virgin

In-law

Reihan and Almira say goodbye to the mall on Mama Mama also mbak Ganis, They also advised to stay at Ummi and Aby Reihan's house.

Reihan's car rushes to the mall Almira showed. Almira wants to watch a movie and play Timezone, after that shopping and buying souvenirs for Ummi. From Gorontalo they also brought.

Arriving at the Reihan mall directly booked a movie ticket, 1 hour they watched, after that in the continued play time zone, and then they continued to play, because ordinary days precisely at work hours are also school hours so the condition of the mall is not too crowded.

Satisfied playing time zone, Almira visited a boutique subscription Ummi Reihan, then look at the game and hijab. Almira frowned looking at the prices of the dress and the hijab in the boutique.

"Darling why?"

Almira whispered to Reihan "Almira's expensive mas doesn't have that kind of money"

Reihan smiled, He immediately took his wallet and gave an ATM card, then gave it to Almira.

"This is for you Humaira"

"That's not this, then there's no more"

"Eh Still a lot, look at this" Reihan showed me the contents of his wallet, there are 5 Debit cards that He has.

"Geez, a lot, you turned out to be a lot of money as well" said Almira innocently.

"You don't know, I have a couple of cafes"

"Where does Mira know, did Mas just show Mas's wallet now"

Reihan smiled, "Yes already wear that one"

"Is there anything, right?"

"There's a dear dong, if there's no contents where might Mas give it to you"

"How much? Not many?" Almira LEDek.

"Simply anyway, Mas forgot not to see the balance, but that's the first restaurant revenue we met, transferred through the bank account that's it"

"Will it contain a lot of dong Mas, how will Mas?"

"There's another card, take it easy"

"Wah it turns out that there is a lot of money, it's worth saying brother Alisha why I don't ask for a honeymoon abroad,"

"Indeed, dear never holds a lot of money, papah Wijaya is a lot of money"

Almira shook her head "Oh pocket money, papah Mira said should not be wasteful, this is the first time Mira holds a lot of money from Mas"

"You like it"

"Like it"

Reihan flicked Almira's forehead "Matre"

"Aws...Ih Mas Azzam, the husband of Almira, said the saying written on the trucks carrying sand "Spend your husband's money than other women spend"

Reihan laughed out loud "When to read it"

"Yes, it's been a long time between schools with Papah"

"Yes.iya baby, it's over"

"But Mira doesn't want to spend it, Mau Mira canisters it"

"Why indeed?"

"What's the stock?"

"Make provision if Mas Azzam leaves Almira"

"Husttt don't talk like that, Mas doesn't like, Only death separates us, understand" Reihan said with great emphasis.

Almira just nodded slowly.

"Here you go, buy Ummi what?"

"That thursday"

Almira and Reihan buy the chosen robe, then they immediately go home to Ummi.

Arriving at Ummi's house, Reihan and Almira knock on the door and say hello, it was Ummi who opened the door.

Ummi hugged and kissed Reihan and Almira on the cheeks, then led them into the living room.

Ummi stroked Almira's head affectionately.

"Aid Ummi healthy?"

"Alhamdulillah healthy Mi"

"Reihan doesn't make you tired, does he?"

"No Ummi, Mas Azzam is very good "

"Good then"

"Emmmmm....I wasn't asked Mi?"

"You're healthy fit like that, and look you're so happy, surely you already have a whole Rey"

"Uhukis...Uhuk..Ummi was talking about that"

"You didn't force it, did you?"

"No Mi"

"Forcing what Mas" Tanya Almira.

"Not baby, not nothing"

Reihan then went into his room wanting to change clothes, Almira still chatting with Ummi, showing various souvenirs and telling her honeymoon experience.

Ummi was so enthusiastic to listen and it was clear in Ummi's eyes that Ummi also felt the same thing, namely happiness.

"Noe...."

"Hmmm"

"Why Ummi is dear to Almira, even though Almira is still a stranger"

"Yes because you're the wife of an ummi child, so Ummi also considers you an ummi child as well"

"Ummi but what I like to hear on television is that many don't get along with her in-laws, that's how Ummi is"

"Mira...Ummi also felt like a son-in-law, too,

When a person is married (male or female), then automatically he will also have new parents, or who in Indonesian culture is called in-law. In-laws are the parents of our spouse—people who have nurtured and cared for our spouse from childhood to adulthood. 

However, it is not uncommon to find a mismatch between in-laws and daughters-in-law for certain reasons. Usually this leads to a big dispute. My parents are our parents too. Thanks to the ridha and prayer blessing also our marriage with a partner can be done as well as possible.

Allah has commanded man to do good and to be devoted to his parents. This commandment is contained in the Quran letter Al-Isra verse 23 which means:

“And your Lord has commanded that you worship none but Him, and do your best to your parents. If either one of them or both of them is old in your care, then never say to them the word "ah" and do not shout at them, and speak to them noble words.”

Well, the word of God also applies in the context of marriage. When a person is married, he is also obliged to serve the in-laws, just as he is devoted to his biological parents, as long as he does not violate the religious orders and moral values that apply in society.

Being devoted to parents (and in-laws) is one of the world's forms of jihad. Although married, the obligation to do good to parents will not break up, even until the parents die.

From Abdullah bin Amru bin Ash, a man who asked the Prophet for permission to wage jihad. Then the Prophet asked, “Are your parents still alive?” The man replied, “Masih.” He said, “Then fight by doing good to both.” (History of Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

The above hadith reminds us how important and noble the position of parents (and in-laws) in the eyes of Islam. So noble, to do service to both is also equated with jihad.

Just as a man has an obligation to fulfill the rights of his wife, a wife also has an obligation to serve her husband. In the view of Islam, filial devotion to the husband is a very noble act. 

There is an interesting story related to this, namely when the aunt of Al Hushoin bin Mihsha came to the Prophet. The Prophet then said that means:

“Are you married?” Aunt Al-Hushain replied, “Have.” “How (attitude) have you been to your husband?”, asked Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam again. He replied, “I have never reduced his rights except in cases that I cannot afford.” Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, “See where you are in your company with your husband, because your husband is your heaven and hell.”

(CHR. Ahmad 4:341 and others. This hadith is shahih as Shaykh Al Albani said in Shahih At Targhib wa At Tarhib no. 1933)

The above hadith indirectly also orders us to do good to the in-laws as a form of our devotion to the husband.Maintaining good relations with the in-laws is one way to please the husband. That way, not only the inner birth happiness that you will get, but also the pleasure of Allah Swt.

"From our own beginnings in bringing ourselves into the great family Mir, if we come with good intentions, a sincere heart, God willing will surely be good to you all"

"But if anyone doesn't get along it how to handle Mi?"

Ummi again smiled, "Mira every household was not smooth, there was only a test, there was a test, if you get an exam not getting along with your in-laws, try to find out the cause of in-laws behaving inappropriately.

You should try to find out in advance the cause of such in-law attitudes. Maybe there is something behind his attitude or maybe it is already his nature. It could be a bad nature that not only to Him one, but also to other daughters-in-law.

Ask your husband for help in finding solutions together. It is better to talk about the attitude of in-laws to the couple, open to the couple is better especially he is the parent of the couple, of course the couple who knows more about the attitude of his parents. But still convey it well without too judge-in-law.

Ask the in-laws to talk about what makes them unkind.

Try to invite in-laws to talk carefully about his bad attitude. Speak from heart to heart, and it is possible that in this way in-laws can realize their mistakes.

Always try to be patient and strong.

Patience and perseverance are always the main things to do, because only with patience and perseverance can we be strong through all the problems of life. And learn a lot about how to deal with problems patiently.

There is no harm in introspection first. Try introspecting yourself, there may be something wrong with yourself or the attitude so far that makes in-laws become not good without being aware. If there is, try to improve yourself by changing yourself for the better.

Ask your in-laws to make peace.

If possible invite in-laws to make peace by taking the heart of in-laws and still be kind to him and do things that can melt his heart. And hopefully later he will be aware of his mistakes during this time and the relationship can get along again with in-laws.

Keep things that will attract the attention of in-laws.

Try to be mediocre in front of your in-laws. Because bad in-laws will always find a loophole to blame and intimidate. Therefore do not do things that can invite the attention of in-laws.

Trying to keep a distance with the in-laws for good.

Distance can reduce the strain on the relationship with in-laws. By rarely meeting and being far apart, in-laws will not be able to do much. And this action is one of the tips to maintain a relationship with in-laws.

Learn to understand the attitude of in-laws.

Learn to understand the attitude of your in-laws so that you can receive all the treatment of in-laws with chest roominess. And the most important thing remains to try to be a good daughter-in-law, because your attitude towards in-laws will also affect the attitude of the couple. Do not make the couple wrong so that we look evil to his parents.

Don't think too much about the attitude of the in-laws.

Do not take a dizzy attitude from in-laws because it will only create stress and pressure. Better think about yourself and try to casually face the treatment of in-laws by being calm in dealing with them.

Almira nodded in understanding, and hugged Ummi.

"Alhamdulillah Mira has in-laws like Ummi who are very good"

"Ummi had also felt like a son-in-law, so Ummi aspired to love Ummi's daughter-in-law wholeheartedly"

"Kok Mas is not in the hug" said Reihan who was down the stairs.

"You're hugging Umm Rey's ghost every night" Ledek Ummi.

Almira's face reddened hearing the thud from Ummi.

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[For Mbah kismi in Klaten there, I love you Mak, the best mother-in-law who always always selowwww although your ndableg son-in-law likes to wake up, sleep again, hahaha do not imitate well.

The best mother-in-law who always accepted me with my language, even though Klaten was using subtle language, because I couldn't, so I confidently used my language, being myself in front of you, this is me...I don't like to say I don't like it, but what Mak needs to know is that I love you and always pray, even I put my mom first priority, only then my parents.

Mak.aku kangen Sego threatened, kangen sego warehouse, your homemade fat crackers.

May Corona pass quickly, I want you to muleh...My household is fine ayem all surely thanks to the prayers of you my parents, your prayers are translucent to the Arsy of God.]

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