I'm a Widow But a Virgin
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Early in the morning Alisha and Hafiz had already left for Venice, They had to travel a dozen hours so they chose to make a morning flight.
This morning mama cooks at the aid of Almira and Rengganis. They make seafood fried rice and warm lemon tea.
Alisha and Hafidz said they would have breakfast on the plane.
Wijaya Family Breakfast together as usual, This morning Ayyubi has been made porridge made by Rengganis, chicken carrot porridge.
Ayyubi ate with greed, his cheeks were fertile.
After breakfast Albirruni and Papah Wijaya left for the office.
Reihan still has 3 days off from campus, while Almira is not yet time for the college entrance exam test.
"Bak here Ayyubi same me, mbak breakfast first yah"
Rengganis gives Ayyubi to Almira, Almira and Reihan take her to the park, they sit in a gazebo in the park near the pool.
"Honey Ayyubi is like who's trying?"
"Like Kak Al like this is still asking the Mas anyway"
"That mixture, look at his nose looks like Rengganis,"
"Ah difficult, because mbak Rengganis is also a little similar to Kak Al"
"When do we have a child who looks like it?"
"Like Mira dong" answered Mira enthusiastically.
"That's great, it's like Mas, Mas who always wins"
"Win what?"
"Win ninu-ninu it"
"Indeed like that, if his son looks like his father means his father won ninu-ninu?"
"Yes, the myth is so"
"Hold Ayyubi"
"Where are you going?"
"You ask me the same mbak Ganis used to lose what won with Kak Al"
"Don't, it's just a myth dear"
Almaen sat back down.
"You're Humaira..."
"Okeh.later Mira mah tried his hardest to let Mira win"
"Try it"
"okay"
Reihan smiled at Almira's challenge. The Rengganis mother took Ayyubi because she wanted to be bathed.
"Mas will see yuk"
"Yes later, the mall opens at 10"
"Yes we have to go to the front garden of the complex just yuk, many snacks that Mira likes Mas"
"Okay hayu"
The two of them then walked to the front garden of the complex, and it is true that there are many market snacks that are served along the edge of the park.
Almira saw mothers of the same age as Rengganis mbak selling cenil, brown sugar glutinous and young coconut sprinkling corn [Favorings Author gaes,hehe].
The mothers sell while carrying their children who are still babies the age of ayyubi as well.
"Mas.I want a pencil"
"Yes come on"
As they approached the mothers, Almira felt compassion for them, and Almira remembered Ganis and Ayyubi.
"Bak I want 5 pennies, 5 corns, 5 sticky rice"
"Yes mbak"
The mothers served Almira while occasionally fixing her sling.
"What does every day sell to bring a baby? pity mba, heat is also pollution" said Almira.
"Yes mba, how else, I'm divorced with my husband, and my husband is married again with his affair, so I alone have to support my son"
Degs...Dada Almira felt the sadness of the mothers.
Almira grabbed Reihan's arm.
"His father does not support his son?" Ask Reihan.
The mothers shook their heads, "No Mas"
"O Allah, there are still such irresponsible men, whereas the child is 100 percent the responsibility of his father, if he does not provide for God will charge him in the Hereafter" Say Reihan with a little emotion.
"But I'm divorced"
"Yes ma'am in Islam When the divorce and the period of iddah is over, the woman who used to be a wife, is now changed to an ex-wife. The marriage cord is broken, no longer husband and wife. So that she is not obliged to be blessed by her ex-husband.
But the right of living for the child, not broken, so the father remains obliged to bear all the needs of the child, even though the child lives with his ex-wife.
Imam Ibnul Mundzir said,
The clerics we know agree that a man is obliged to bear the livelihood of his young children, who have no possessions. Since one's child is his flesh and blood, he is part of his parents. Just as he was obliged to give a living for himself and his family, he was also obliged to give a living for his fleshly blood.
Even the ex-wife can ask her ex-husband to provide for all the needs of her child. If the ex-husband remains unwilling, the ex-wife can use the power of law to ask for her child's rights."
"I am a layman Mas, I do not understand such a thing, I leave it to the powerful"
Almira gripped Reihan's arm even tighter, her eyes already glazed over.
"Mom.Do not be afraid, There is God, Although the mother's husband does not provide, but I am sure the mother's fortune will come from an unexpected direction, keep relying, ma'am, relying on it is not just an effort, but we are sure from our deepest hearts, God will always help us in every difficulty" Reihan said.
"Yes, I just let go"
When Siti Hajar and her infant son were abandoned by her husband, Prophet Ibrahim as, in an arid valley called Mecca, she asked:” O Ibrahim, Ibrahim, why have you left us in this silent prayer?"
The husband just kept quiet and kept walking away.
Siti Hajar again asked the same question. Prophet Ibrahim remained silent. Until then Siti Hajar asked:” Is this God's command?”
Prophet Ibrahim finally replied:” Yes, this is the command of Allah”.
The reply of Prophet Ibrahim immediately also made his wife's heart calm and serene. With great confidence and conviction he said :
” O Abraham, if this is the commandment of Allah, then there is no other way but to obey it. God will not waste us. He is the best Protector and the best Helper”.
Siti Hajar is very confident in Allah. What He wills must be good. It is impossible for God to wrong His creatures. Until he turned to Him. Receiving His orders. But does his resignation keep him quiet? No. gabe.
To defend herself and protect her baby, Siti Hajar exerts all her energy in finding water. He ran, sweating, looking for him. From Shafa Hill to Marwa Hill. Then come back, then leave again. And so on up to seven times. Until the power is completely drained. And, his search bore fruit. A clear and fresh spring gushed not far from Ishmael's tiny feet.
We can ask, if Siti Hajar believes God will help her, why should she bother? Then, when running around Siti Hajar knows where the water source is?
Siti Hajar never knew where the water source was before the water source appeared. His belief in the help of God does not necessarily make him stand still, but he does his best because that is what man can do.
In the Qur’an, Allah SWT says :
” Because actually with the difficulty there is ease. Indeed with the difficulty there is ease”. (QS. Al Insirah 94:5-6)
Not only did God give difficulties to Siti Hajar, but He equipped them with many facilities. Amenities obtained with maximum effort. Note, the ease and goodness that Siti Hajar experience gained from the event. The Zam-Zam water source that continues to flow until now, syari’at Sya’i in the pilgrimage that continues to this day, and many other virtues.
The extraordinary difficulties faced by Siti Hajar have led him to the Ridha Allah SWT. Allah will reward him with various kinds of ease and kindness that are felt to this day and God willing until the end of time.
Siti Hajar has taught us a confident attitude. Shown by his statement of belief to Allah SWT that He must help himself and his son. That belief was followed by his utmost effort.
In his hadith, the Prophet Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said:” If you really rely on Allah SWT, with true trust, you will be given sustenance (by Allah), as a bird is provided with sustenance; he goes in the morning hungry, and comes home in the afternoon full.”. (CHR. Ahmad, Turmudzi and Ibn Majah)
Linguistically, tawakal comes from the word “tawakala” which means surrender or represent. A person of trust is he who from the beginning, before starting the activity, has handed over and entrusted his affairs to Allah SWT followed later with the utmost and best effort possible.
If we live the hadith above and relate it to the story of Siti Hajar, then, so trust is to rely on Allah in all our affairs by working on them as best as possible according to the instructions that Allah gives through the Qur’an and the Sunnah of His Messenger. If so, then according to his promise, God will meet us with the best destiny according to Him. And God cannot break His promise.
Allah SWT said:” Whoever trusts in Allah, Allah will surely provide (all the necessities) his”. (QS. Ath Thalaq 65:3)
The mother was dripping her tears, Almira moreover had been as much as in Reihan's arm since earlier.
"Thank you, you have strengthened me"
"Hiks.hiks" Almira cried as she pleased.
"Eh already dear, you why is it so easy to be moved, Come he said to eat cenil, already cry, later his eyes are swollen in the thought of Mas naughty to you"
Almira wiped her tears.
"Where's Mas' wallet"
Reihan took the wallet in his pants pocket and handed it to Almira, Almira immediately accepted it and opened her wallet. He took all the money chas in Reihan's wallet, there were 9 pieces of money a hundred thousand.
"Consider all yes"
Reihan nodded.
"This mom is for my mom's dede" Mira gave all that money.
"Don't mba, it's too much"
"Eh this is windfall dede, where the cenilnya mba"
The mother received Almira's money and gave the packaged snacks to Almira.
"Thank you very much Mba, may your household be blessed by God"
"Aamiin" said Almira and Reihan in unison.
"I'm sorry, ma'am"
The mothers nodded.
"Mas later Mira's money is changed, Mira has a lot of money in the piggy bank"
Reihan laughed, "No need, Mas who should give you a living money, later at home Mas kasih ATM card only well, every month will transfer Mas for your needs fee"
"We don't have any children yet, so there are not many needs" Almira said innocently.
"Yes in the tube for later if you have children" Reihan said with a smile.
"Yes let's go home Mas, it's getting late, he said to go to the mall"
"Yes Come"
They rushed back home, Almira was so happy because this morning many valuable life lessons, Almira was also very happy to see the mothers were praying for her and smiling at her.
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[Whatever the test of his life, the problem is, his misfortune, keep relying on Allah, Okeh AJTP loyal reader]
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