I'm a Widow But a Virgin

Meaning of Love and Marriage

After their meal, Alisha and Hafiz chose their wedding rings. Almira and Rengganis just look around.

"Which one do you want?" Albirruni asked Rengganis.

"No Mas, no need, there is also a moment of marriage"

"The important thing is that the ATM is Mas plus a gold credit card" Almira said.

"Yee Mbak Ganis is not your theater " Said Birru while touching Almira's forehead.

"Ah sister, sick"

Albirruni laughed softly.

"You need to know Dek, this brother loves Ma'am Rengganis very much"

"Cie.cie Mbak Ganis straight red face" said Almira.

Rengganis, Almira and Albirruni sat in the jewelry store, Waiting for Alisha still to choose.

"Son, what is the meaning of love and marriage?" Almira asked Albirruni.

"Why does it ask like that, is Mira in love?" Birru LEDek.

"Just want to know" Mira said with a shy face.

"So I'll tell you a story, listen carefully"

Almira nodded, Albirruni started talking about a story.

Once a disciple asked his teacher, Teacher, what is love? and what does marriage mean?

The teacher replied, In front of you there is a garden, walk without looking back and look for the most beautiful flowers, if you get them back.

Then walk the student through the park, looking and keep looking.

The teacher had waited long enough to finally find his student coming empty-handed, The teacher asked, Why have you brought nothing?

The student replied, In the middle of the journey I had found a beautiful flower but I thought there must be something more beautiful than that I did not take it and without realizing I had passed through the garden without finding anything.

Then the Master said, That is the meaning of love

Then the student asked, What about marriage?

Then the Master said, Now try to walk through the garden behind you and look for the most beautiful flower in it.

Without thinking, the student walked into the park that faced the park before. But the student returned quickly with a flower sekumtum which if seen the flower is mediocre, then showed the flower to the Master.

The Master asked, Why did you come back so quickly when I just saw you enter the garden and then come back here and I think this flower is mediocre not too beautiful in my opinion?

The disciple replied, I'm afraid that I won't get any more flowers in the front and that there are flowers in the front, I was afraid that the flowers ahead were not as beautiful as this flower, so I took this flower and came back.

The Master simply smiled and said, “That is what marriage means..”.

Always think that our current partner is the best for us. Man is an imperfect being, perfection belongs to God alone.

Marriage is a bond between two people who have many differences, both in terms of physical, family upbringing, association, way of thinking (mental), education and others.

In the view of Islam, marriage is a very sacred bond in which two people of different types can live together with the blessing of religion, relatives, and society.

Aqad marriage in Islam is very simple, consisting of two sentences "ijab and qabul". But these two sentences can elevate the relationship of the two creatures of God from the low earth to the high heavens. With these two sentences turn defilement into holiness, worship into worship, or sin into charity.

Marriage is not just a covenant between two people. Aqad marriage is also a covenant between the creatures of God and Al-Khaliq. When two hands are extended (between the bride and groom), to say the good sentence, above it there is the hand of Allah SWT, "Yadullahi fawqa aydihim".

So sacred was the marriage, that God called it "Mitsaqon gholizho" or the heavy covenant of God. Also as Allah's covenant with the Children of Israel and also Allah's Covenant with the Prophets is a heavy covenant (Q.S Al-Ahzab 7)

Allah also mentions the marriage of two sons of man as "Mitsaqon gholizho". Because do not spouses so easily say the word divorce.

Allah SWT rebukes husbands who break the covenant, do injustice and deprive their wives of their rights with his words: "How will you take them back when you have come into contact with each other as husband and wife. And your wives have done with you a heavy covenant "Mitsaqon gholizho"." (Q.S An-Nisaa :21).

If the covenant is sincerely carried out, we will be glorified by Allah Almighty, and placed in the environment of God's love.

Almira smiled, "Thank you, my sister has given a lot of love and marriage to Mira"

"It should be your brother who diligently asks about marriage" said Mas Birru.

"Is there something wrong with Mira asking?" Mira.

"It will soon be Mira Mas's turn" Cheltuk Rengganis.

"I'm not Ma'am"

"Not wrong" Ledek Rengganis again.

"Mir, are you getting married?"

"It depends on the candidate, brother, if Okay yes Mira would like it"

"If Reihan" said Rengganis.

" This Ganis Ma'am"

"Eh that's already Alisha's sister is done" Mira said, switching the conversation.

Finally after finishing from the jewelry store they will go back around the Mall to look for some hijabs and gamis.

"For a long time we didn't buy a hijab" Alisha said.

"Sir, Payain Mira, ask Papah instead, please" Mira said as she struggled to Albirruni like a child asking for something.

" Yes yes "

"Yee big sister may older brother get more handsome"

Albirruni and Rengganis laughed.

They were looking for a suitable store, Hafiz accidentally saw Reihan talking to a woman in front of the cafe who seemed to be under renovation.

Hafiz approached Reihan.

"Hay Rey"

Reihan was shocked to see Hafiz coming.

"Eh Fiz, alone?"

"No, look there, I'm with them"

Reihan looked towards Albirruni and there was also Almira.

Reihan realized in front of him was chatting with a woman who is skilled in the arrangement of a room that is helping him organize the cafe that he will open.

Reihan immediately greeted everyone.

"Let's go inside, inside it's neat, just stay finishing"

They then entered Reihan's cafe.

"Mira...What do you think of this cafe?"

"Good Mas"

"Is there anything less?"

"Lhoo asked Mira Mas, The boy in front seemed to know better"

"Kan Mas has said, Mas will always ask your opinion, if there is anything to change, Mas Will change it"

"No need, it's good for this"

"Mira sorry well, Mas used the services of a female room stylist"

Mira nodded "Yes it's okay "

"Aren't you jealous?"

Mira shook her head.

Reihan was disappointed that Almira was not jealous.

"Your mother and she will only discuss a job, I want to show that I am not childish even though I am 18 years old, this is the source of your fortune that will be made to support me later" said Almira.

Reihan smiled happily, I don't know, Reihan's feelings were instantaneous like in the rain of cherry blossoms that were so beautiful.

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[You.flowers do not hear Almira say "this is the source of your fortune that will be made to support me later" Ciat Ciat Ciat Baper aje]

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