I'm a Widow But a Virgin

The story of Mbah Mun (Kyai Haji Maemun Zubair)

After reaching the house Rengganis immediately laid himself on the mattress.He felt very tired, now standing for a while it feels tired.

Albirruni then massaged the exhausted legs of Rengganis.

Rengganis saw his cell phone, He saw a message coming in from his friend during High School, the neighbor Rengganis.

She reported that she was going to divorce her husband because her husband was no longer working, her friends were confused about how else to support her household.

"God has great pity on Nina"

"Why Dear" asked Albirruni.

"She wants to divorce Mas, so her husband does not work, every day is their fight"

"O Allah, Why not work again ?"

"It may be hard to find a job"

"What not to fight together is that, If Mas broke what would Darling do, Mas is already poor"

"Yes we can sell chicken pecels on the roadside, or sell fruit ice that sells on the roadside" said Rengganis while replying to a message from his friend.

Albirruni laughed, "Dear not to be ashamed?"

"Why should we be ashamed, most importantly halal, also we are always together, we can look together Rizki"

Albirruni immediately hugged his adorable wife.

"Darling you have a story"

"What story is it?"

"It's about a wife asking for advice from Kyai, because she wants a divorce from her husband"

"Tell me Mas"

Albirruni told his story to the Rengganis.

HUSBAND AND HIS SERVICE

(K. H. Maimun Zubair's)

There was a mother, divorced from her husband. Then he had a long discussion with me.

Mother: Mbah Mun, I am no longer strong with my husband. I just want a divorce.

Kyai: Why Mom?

Mother: Yes my husband is no work, no creative, can not be a leader for children and wives.Later how my children if his father modeled like that. I have to make a living tired, he just relaxes at home.

Kyai: Oooh like that, is that all?

Mother: Actually there are many more, but yes it may be the main reason.

Kyai : Oooooh... yes.... want to know my view is not Mom?

Mother: May Mbah Mun.

Kyai : Like this. like people have a refrigerator, but used for a wardrobe, yes eventually will not be satisfied with the refrigerator product. It does not fit much, no clothes hangers, no drawers, can not be locked, even wasteful of electricity.

Well. that's if we use the product does not fit the function. As good as any product if used is not in accordance with its designation will not be satisfied.

Mother: Mmm... trus what does this have to do with my husband?

Kyai: Yes, I hope that my mother's husband performs secondary, even tertiary functions. But the primary function is not used.

Mother: I did not expect more Mbah Mun. I just want him to make a good living for the family. I just want him to be a good leader.

Kyai : Yes. Honey or husband is only expected to be so. The main primary function is not even expected and pursued by the mother.

Mother: Mmmmm... What is the primary function of a husband?

Kyai: The primary function of the mother's husband is to be a shield for the sins of the mother in hell.

When the mother can get pleasure from the husband, then all the sins of the mother are immediately forgiven by God for the pleasure of the mother's husband.

So, a husband just sit on it, it is very beneficial for the mother, just use the function of the mother to the maximum. Do whatever you can best to get ridho husband.

In a hadith shohih mentioned “Ayyumam roatin maatat wa zaujuha ‘anha roodhin dakholatil jannah”

Which means “A wife dies and her husband is fully ridho to her, then immediately enter paradise”

The rest, it's just secondary functions of the husband. Pursue this first one.

Husband does not work is okay, the important thing is to be a mother's husband. Don't let go, don't break it. Let him be the shield for hell.

If divorced, then the mother immediately faced with hellfire. The sins of the mother have nothing to erase, unless the practice of the mother is very special and there is no sin at all.

I just need to find a husband. If it is the mother who makes a living, it is okay. All the treasures that the mother gave to the child and the household were all counted very noble alms. Much more noble than alms to orphans.

How could it be more noble than an orphan?

Please share alms for others with alms for family, but for family, it is more important.

Mother: But... if the husband is unjust how? Even KDRT to the family?

Kyai : Yeah it's okay too. For all wrongdoing will return to the one who did it. The husband will bear the consequences of the KDRT he did. The torment of God is painful for a husband who can hurt his family.

While I focus just keep looking for the husband's ridhonya.

Ever heard? His wife Fir’aun entered heaven? What is the lack of trying Fir’aun do KDRT? Not only to the wife, Fir’aun even had the heart to kill babies.

To his wife Asiyah, Fir’aun tortured him and even killed him. Asiyah's last prayer is enshrined by Allah in the Qur’an.

He did not ask Fir’aun in adzab. He only asks for reward for his patience “ya my Lord, build me a house by Your side in heaven and save me from Fir’aun and his deeds and save me from the people who wrongfully” (66:11)

Mother: O Allah Mbah Mun thank you for the discussion. Then what should I do?

Kyai: Would you like to follow my advice?

Mother: What is Mbah Mun?

Kyai : Do this for 7 days only... every night, Ask the husband, “Abang, what percent of ridhonya brother same me today?”

If he answers 95%, don't sleep. Do whatever it takes to get him to answer 100%. Maybe it's taken, maybe it's made food, tea, serve fruit, anything until he wants to answer 100%. Only after he replied “iya, I ridho same you 100%” well please sleep.

Do it for 7 days and feel the pleasure and happiness that you will get.

Mother: Well Mbah Mun

Kyai: May God glorify mother and husband.

Mother: Aaaamiin yes Rabb. Thank you Mbah Mun.

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5 DAYS LATER, THE MOTHER CAME BACK TO KYAI.

Mother: Mbah Mun.. O Allah. thank you very much... I do not know what to say with Mbah Mun.Thank you for changing my life, only God can glorify Mbah Mun and family.

Kyai : Alhamdulillah..how, my advice, did you run?

Mother: Yes Mbah Mun. This husband has also begun the initiative to find work, although it has not been able, I am quite happy Mbah Mun, he wants to help me drive everywhere.Yes Allah.

Kyai : Thank God...

Mother: I want to continue to do the advice of Mbah Mun, not only 7 days, but want me to do forever can Mbah Mun?

Kyai : Pretty much, do it until one of the mother or husband, picked up the angel with Husnul Khotimah...

Mother: Huhuhu...

Kyai.: Equally.

Albirruni concluded his story, The gangganist immediately embraced Albirruni, crying out in Albirruni's arms. Albirruni rubbed the head of Rengganis.

"Ridhoi Rengganis Mas"

"Dear dear Mas ridho, don't cry well"

Albirruni then broke down the body of the Rengganis, and told the Rengganis to sleep.

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(For Allah's sake, the author of this part is also crying, Thank you for the late Mbah Maemun, We give the same istigfar to Him)