I'm a Widow But a Virgin

The Story of Sayidah Khadijah

Birru was relieved because it had made Rengganis believe it, mutual trust between couples is the foundation that must always be established in living a married life.

"Honey, you take a bath first well, later we pray magrib congregation" Birru orders on Rengganis.

Rengganis nodded, then took her suitcase, She was still not used to change clothes in front of her husband, so from that before taking a shower Rengganis brought a change of clothes into the bathroom.

After opening the suitcase Rengganis was so stunned to see the contents of the real suitcase, because this morning Rengganis only took the clothes in the top pile, which was the top one,did not pay attention to the contents in it because it was very eager to rush the streets.

"Oh Allah, our suitcases are filled with clothes like this by Mama"

Rengganis showed lingerie and boxers to Mas Birru.

Birru only returned with a smile.

"Why smile?"

"Mama knows what I want" replied Birru.

"This you, this lingerie is so thin, I'm gonna catch a cold"

"Let's be there Mas, already wear it, also with the husband, your husband is telling you to wear it yes dear"

Rengganis finally can only obey what her husband said.Why they still mengjawiku, Mama, Mother, Inner Rengganis.

After finishing the bath, Rengganis came out of the bathroom with his arms crossed on his chest.

Birru who saw him was so stunned to see his wife's unusual beauty.

Basically all women are sexy, why sometimes men have to choose a wild woman out there, rather than her angel who is already at home.

"Mas, I'm uncomfortable, so thin"

"It's a pity, the presence of the shirt, why not wear clothes" said Birru while chuckling.

Birru also immediately cleaned himself up to the bathroom.

After finishing the bath they perform Magrib prayers congregate in the room.

After the completion of the Birru prayer contact the hotel asking for dinner in between to his room.Birru also contact Mr. Anton if tonight you want to rest only.

Tok.shock.

Before opening the door Birru told Rengganis to go into the bathroom first for using lingerie.

The hotel staff brought dinner for Rengganis and Mas Birru.

After the hotel officers left, Birru called Rengganis back, and they ate dinner together.

Birru continued to look at Rengganis with a sharp gaze but it contained another meaning.

"Why look at me like that"

"When you can have dinner together with lingerie"

"Mas don't fuck me"

"Mas doesn't want to get sucked up if I can just eat you"

"Buck...."

"Dear, calm down tonight we'll just rest, you know for sure darling is very tired"

Birru stroked Rengganis' head and they continued to eat again.

Not long after the hotel clerk knocked on the door, wanting to take a plate from the dinner, Mas Birru gave a thought to Rengganis for a while.

***

Adzan Isya reverberated Rengganis and Albiruni immediately performed prayer isya berjamaah.After completion they lay their bodies on the mattress, today is quite tiring, especially walking up to the top of the Galata Tower, making the energy so drained.

Mas Birru close his body to the body of Rengganis, then tilt his body, until they are now facing each other.Mas Birru stroked the head of Rengganis.

"Dear sleep, this day must be tired" said Birru.

"Mas, dong Mas Rengganis dong"

"What storytelling, Romeo and Juliet" Lawa Mas Birru.

"Anything, the important thing is good, and many lessons, so that my loyal readers I am the Widow But the Virgin can also learn it, hehe"

"Who are they?"

"Those who always miss Rengganis and Mas birru😆😆😆"

"OK, Mas will tell you about Sayidah Khodijah"

Birru started telling stories.

In addition to the love story of Romeo and Juliet, for Muslims, a love story that is no less beautiful is the love story of Prophet Muhammad SAW and Siti Khadijah. It is not easy to be a partner of an apostle, then the presence of Siti Khadijah in the midst of the struggle of Prophet Muhammad SAW is certainly special.

Compared to other wives, the love of Prophet Muhammad SAW towards Siti Khadijah is very large. When marrying Siti Khadijah, Prophet Muhammad did not practice polygamy. Even after his death, Muhammad still often talked about his late wife. A very big love.

"As women, we can learn a lot from the exemplary figure of a Siti Khadijah yes dear" said Birru.

Sayidah Khodijah Becomes an Honorable Widow.

In the lifetime of a Siti Khadijah, women were a people who were ostracized and had no price, let alone a widow. Siti Khadijah was once divorced from her husband, but she had the destiny of being a companion to the Prophet. This is proof that not always a widow is contemptible and may be underestimated (like the stamp given by society to this day). If the woman can respect herself and her behavior, then whatever status she is in, she deserves to be a noble woman who will one day glorify a man and his family.

"Pretty proud can also keep honor, dear is a crowned widow"

Rengganis was moved by Mas Birru's statement.

Sayidah Khodijah is also Mandiri as a Merchant.

It is common knowledge that Siti Khadijah is a successful and wealthy entrepreneur or merchant. Not many women were independent at that time, let alone being a successful merchant. This is proof that women are not weak or stupid creatures. Women can appreciate themselves by picking up their own provisions independently. By becoming a merchant or entrepreneur, then open opportunities and greater sustenance for others.But still have to be with Ridho husband.

Sayidah Khodijah Does Not Judge Men Of His Worth.

As a beautiful and rich woman, many rich men who want to propose to Siti Khadijah. Some of the applicants are people who come from rich families and are willing to pay whatever dowry Siti Khadijah wants. But the noble woman rejected the proposal that came subtly. Treasure is not the only judgment in choosing a life partner.

Sayidah Khodijah Proposes First

If we often read the love story of Siti Khadijah and Prophet Muhammad SAW, we certainly know that Siti Khadijah who first expressed her desire to marry the Prophet. Through her best friend, Siti Khadijah conveyed that wish. This becomes a way for women not to be ashamed or afraid to express the desire of her heart to marry a good man, righteous and noble. Marriage is a noble goal, so there is no shame in a holy, noble cause. Even if the proposal is not accepted, do not be ashamed, because Allah SWT must have the best answer to answer a woman's soul mate

Sayidah Khodijah is also a Wives Who Obey The Husband.

Compared to the rich man who proposed to Siti Khadijah, the wealth of the Prophet when marrying Siti Khadijah is not great. But Siti Khadijah chose men with noble character. He knows that the duty of a wife is to accompany the husband. Siti Khadijah was also obedient and did not carry her family's big name or wealth to diminish her respect for the Prophet. Choose a man who is obedient and has noble character, also a man who is diligent and unyielding to get halal sustenance.

"These are some examples of Siti Khadijah who can be an inspiration for modern women" said Mas Birru.

Rengganis smiled "Thank you Mas already told about Sayidah Khodijah for Rengganis and my loyal Reader Widow But Virgin, God will be our inspiration as women who want to be women of Solehah as well as the wife of Solehah"

Mas Birru nodded "Have come to sleep, dear" 

Rengganis smiled and closed his eyes, until they finally fell asleep.