Please Don't Forget Me

Honest

On the way, Aldo felt something strange. Somehow he felt that Ivan kind of put his heart to the Princess. He wanted to ask her who Ivan really was but she was afraid that the Princess would be angry with him. But after thinking at length, he also chose to ask rather than he harbored suspicion.

"Put, can I not?"

"Ia Al, I can. What do you want?"

"You know that in a relationship there are three important pillars that must be instilled every couple, namely trust, openness, and honesty. These three pillars become very important pillars for the continuity of a relationship. Belief in what the couple does is very necessary for the creation of a harmonious relationship atmosphere and away from bad prejudices that are not necessarily the truth. Then the attitude of openness between couples is necessary and absolutely necessary. With an attitude of openness then we and our partners know what problems or problems we and our partner experience, what our shortcomings, and so forth. And the last is an attitude of honesty that seems easy in a relationship, but in a relationship is difficult to do.

The three pillars that I mentioned earlier are actually the ones that I think are most important is honesty. How can a relationship have trust and openness if our partner or even ourselves cannot be honest in our relationship? According to my parents, honesty is the main capital in life. If we look at the problem of honesty in terms of dating relationships or husband and wife we will see how expensive the price for honesty is.

If I ask, have you been honest in starting a relationship with your partner? If your answer is yes, did you before deciding to connect with your partner, you find out the ugliness and from the ugliness do you accept your partner? Not to be a love expert here, but I try to replay the opinion in your brain about the beginning of your relationship with your partner. Many cases that go into the kitchen psychology case about my romance about couples who break up because in the middle of the road there is a bad of a couple that was previously unknown. If you are still in a relationship status may not cause much trouble, if you have entered the marriage? Of course it's going to be more complicated than we've seen.

There is a sentence that I like “A relationship that starts with a lie will end painfully”. This sentence has actually taught us that lying is not good in a relationship. Lying for good does not happen in love. Honesty is much better even though it hurts and keeps our loved ones away from us.

Love accepts the shortcomings not the advantages of a partner, and love is the glue that holds two different families together so that there can be no hypocrisy and lies in it. Whatever the shortcomings and advantages of the couple and their families must be accepted by us and our families. We cannot accept the shortcomings of our partner, but the family must also accept the shortcomings of our partner. In the teachings of Islam and the teachings of customs that developed in Indonesia known as family meetings before the wedding for the two families will never regret and complain about the shortcomings of the couple who will married.

The price to be paid for honesty in a relationship is diverse but it is obviously expensive and very unfavorable for us. In nominal calculations only, the price to be paid for the breakup of the relationship can be above Rp.50,000. Wh why? Simple my reason, in dating we need the least pulse for communication, BBM, and others that I estimate more than Rp. 50,000 in total. Not to mention when it was married, how much does it cost to do the wedding? Surely expensive anyway? That's from financial calculations, not to mention when we look at social prices. Our relationship and our partner can be destroyed and can break the cord between the two, can even be both families. Then our ugly image in society can also become ugly if this problem comes to the surface.

It doesn't hurt to lie because it's a choice. But it is better if we are serious with our partner why not be honest? Honestly, it is cheap, even you do not have to spend money to do it. Honesty only takes your courage to tell the truth to everyone. It is not easy, but I am sure if we do honesty continuously, we will get used to our tongue will be stiff in telling lies. Like doing bad, good needs to be done continuously in order to become our habit."

"Oh al, to the point. You see, if you talk at length, I don't really understand."

"Okay, the point is I want you to be honest with me."

"Honest of what?"

"Ivan prepared you. You see, it was like I was hiding something and her gaze on you was different, not like the gaze of a friend or a friend but like love."

"Owallah, you want it anyway. Actually, before I went to school here, I would have gone to school in Bandung. Well at the beginning of Mos, I know Ivan. Well since then I I started to get close to him until the end of the year or rather 6 months after we knew him, me and him decided to be in a relationship. But because I'm just as papa asked to move here finally want me and he ended it but that doesn't mean me and he don't love anymore, it's just that I don't want an LDR relationship that is a long distance relationship, I'm afraid that me or him is not strong with that kind of relationship. So we chose to break up, so if as I am here to find someone else who is better with him, I can immediately establish a relationship without any sense of betrayal and vice versa. If the same as there Ivan has another girl, yes I have to accept because of me and he has no relationship anymore. Now I'm the same she agreed to be just friends and in fact we I mean me and she's better suited to be friends or friends."

"How do you feel about him now?"

"What do you mean by dag dig dug?"

"Yes pounding that pound. Cook doesn't understand. Do you not feel the same way as me?"

"No, no." Aldo lied because he wanted to tease the Princess.

"Bad amet, that's a sign you don't love me." Say Princess pouting.

"Curly pouting, he he he I ngaku, I feel the thump of love at the same time you." Imbuh Aldo with a smile.

They did not feel like they had reached Aldo's house. Aldo immediately got out of the car and opened the door for the Princess and carried her to the living room.

"You seem to be getting heavier."

"Yes tah. I feel the same way."

"That's your feeling, in fact you're getting fat. Try to weigh it."

"Males ah."

"Why?"

"Though I'm fat. You love me the same as me."

"Hahahah, yes, you are right. Even if you are fat and ugly. I love kog." Said Aldo as he hugged the Princess and kissed her cheek gently.